Tabbas, idan a cikin wani ɓangare ba al'ada bane don tattauna dangantaka da, gabaɗaya, warware matsaloli ta hanyar maganganu, ba na dogon lokaci na iya tafiya da magana. Koyaya, tattaunawar ta dace ba koyaushe ba, musamman ne musamman sosai don zaɓar jigogi don sadarwa bayan jima'i.
Mun yi tunani, da kuma bayan yin jima'i, bayan jima'i, Ina so in yi magana, amma wani lokacin abokin aikinku ya yi fushi, kuma ba za ku iya fahimtar dalilin ba. A zahiri, komai mai sauki ne: Akwai jerin waɗanda ke da matuƙar saiti mai tsananin ƙarfi bayan kusanci. Bari mu ga abin da batutuwa suke.
Don tattauna game da iyali, ya cancanci samun wani lokaci da wuri
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Kimanta kwarewar abokin tarayya
Ba kocin motsa jiki ba ne mai motsa jiki, wanda ke karanta Ward ɗinsa bayan fara ba a sami nasara ba. Tsallakakken ƙididdigar kusan suna jin zafi ta hanyar girman kai. Minti na farko bayan jima'i ba su dace da duka don yin irin wannan tattaunawar ba. Idan baku dace da ingancin jima'i ba, zaɓi ƙasa da aiki lokacin lokacin da abokin aikinku ba shi yiwuwa sosai.
Tattaunawa game da aibi
Idan ka ga cewa abokin tarayya ya zira kwallaye da yawa, ba lallai ba ne a ayyana game da shi "a goshi" lokacin da ka fassara ruhu. Lura cewa zaka iya amsa, da kuma zagi. Don haka me ya sa kuka lalata lokacin da za ku yi aure a hankali game da haɗin gwiwa da safe bayan dare. Aiwatar da misali.
Kada ku tunatar da shi game da abin da yake mai dadi ga ji
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Nuna
Haka ne, mun ma ji cewa zanga-zangar adawa sau da yawa suna ƙarewa cikin jima'i mai ban mamaki, amma babu buƙatar yin hadisin hankali. Yana iya faruwa cewa babu wasu abubuwan da ke motsa su za su yi wa abokin tarayya, kuma dole ne a ci gaba da zama koyaushe cikin yanayin tashin hankali yayin da kake jiran wani rikici. Wannan makamashi da kuke ciyarwa akan kururuwa da kuma bugun jita-jita, zaku iya saka hannun jari a kusancin da kanta.
Kar a motsa mutumin yana magana game da gaba
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Gwadawa
Ga wani mutum babu abin da ya fi muni idan kun fara kwatanta shi da tsoffin mutane ko kuma waɗanda za ku yarda su yi barci. Abokin aikin kawai baya yin tunani cewa wani ya mallaki. Bayan jima'i, irin wannan taken nan da nan yana cajin ku da kyau: Yana da, saboda ku ne, saboda kanku ba ku fahimci abin da ya yi fushi ba.
Jima'i a matsayin hanyar yin amfani da viapulation
Mutumin bayan jima'i shine, zaku iya faɗi, a kan wata duniyar, sabili da haka, ba ya son tattauna wasu tambayoyi marasa kyau kamar: "Lokacin da kuka canza windows a cikin gidan mahaifiyata, da kuka yi alkawarin." Ko da kuna cikin dangantaka mai ƙarfi, wani mutum zai jira kusanci na gaba tare da kai da tsoro: Wanene ya san abin da batun da kake son tattauna ƙarin. Saboda haka, jira akalla 'yan sa'o'i, har sai motsin zuciyar an ji rauni.
Tattaunawa game da gaba
Wannan batun yana da haɗari musamman ga biyu wanda kawai farkon dangantakar. Mutuminka har yanzu bai san ko shirya taron ba, kuma kun riga kun gaya masa, karen waccan nau'in zai zauna a cikin gidan ku cewa zaku harba daga wata mai zuwa. Irin wannan tattaunawar a kan maza masu tsorantarwa, jira akalla rabin shekara kafin ku gani da shawarwari don gina rayuwar haɗin gwiwa.