Kunzima ukuba ingqondo yethu ikwazi ukujamelana nomjelo wezinto ezimbi, eziwisiweyo kuthi phantse yonke imihla. Ingcali isebenzisa iindlela zokunciphisa ifuthe lamava amabi, ezi ndlela zisebenza kwinqanaba elingazazi, ke sihlala sizibuza ukuba uphendula ngokuphendula ngokwazo.
Yaba inomdla kuthi ukuba yeyiphi i-IP yezi ndlela eziluncedo, kwaye iyingozi ukuze ukwazi kwethu, masiqonde kunye ngomzekelo wezinto ezintlanu eziphambili zokukhusela.
Ukukhusela ukhuselo kubalulekile ukuze usinde
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Ukugcwala ngaphandle
Nokuba yomelele kangakanani apho kungekho soyikeko lwengqondo, ubuchopho bethu bunokuthatha nje kwaye baphose le ngcaciso kwimemori. Nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuthi impendulo engeyiyo icinywe ngokupheleleyo kwisiseko, hayi. I-psyche ichitha isixa esikhulu samandla ekucinezelweni kwememori, ngenxa yoko le nkqubo inokuthelekiswa nokwakhiwa kwedama elinokuhamba ingozi.
Akunakwenzeka ukuqikelela ukuba zeziphi iinkumbulo zamava angalunganga ziya kuqalisa, kwaye ke ingqondo kwaye ifuna ubungakanani bamandla okukhulisa ukuqinisekiswa kukhuphiswano.
Eyona nto iphambili kukungalibaziseni utyelelo kwingcali ukuba uziva ngathi awuyongxaki
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Uqikelelo
Ngamnye wethu wafumana le nto, kwaye kwakungeyomfuneko ukuba le nto yenzeka kuwe: Ngokuqinisekileyo unokukhumbula umntu othe waba nengqondo kuye.
Ngoncedo lokuqikelela, ubuchopho buzama ukunciphisa uxanduva lwezinto ezingamkeleki kulomntu, kwaye, ukuba zenene, akakwazi ukwamkela. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka akhangele omnye umntu, aze athi, bonakalisa iimvakalelo zakhe neengcinga zakhe kuye. Umzekelo oqaqambileyo ukhonza izityholo ezingenangqondo zegcumo lomtshato weqabane, njengoko umntu yena ethambekele ekungathembeni, uqala ukrokrela iqabane lomphefumlo kulo.
Intshayelelo
Inqaku lale nkqubo 'liginya' lomnye amazwe kunye nemithetho yokuziphatha yendlela yokuziphatha ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba zonke zinokusetyenziswa njani ebomini bakhe. Umntu akafuni okanye akanakuyivavanya ngokucacileyo imeko ukuba isebenzise ngokufanelekileyo ulwazi olufunyenweyo.
Eyona nto, ubomi bethu bonke busekwe kwintshukumisa. Okokuqala, abazali basinika isimo sengqondo esithile, umzekelo: "Ukunxiba umnqwazi, ungahamba kwiqabaka!" Ngaphandle kwale nto, umntwana uya kufa nje. Ukuba mdala, siqala ukukopa indlela yokuziphatha kwabafundi bezikolo eziphakamileyo, emva koko impahla yangaphantsi, emva koko siye kwindawo "yokuqubha simahla", apho kuya kufuneka khona ukwakha umgca wakho wokuziphatha. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abaninzi bayaqhubeka ukukopa isitayile kunye nendlela yokuphila yabanye abantu, ukutyeshela ngokupheleleyo iminqweno kunye neemfuno zabo, ezinokukhokelela ekutshatyalalisweni komntu.
Qiniseka ukuba unenkxaso yengqondo kumhlobo, ukuba uyabona ukuba ufuna uncedo
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Ukudibana
Umzekelo oqaqambileyo womdibaniso unokubizwa ngokuba ngumkhweli oselula kunye nosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa. Abasetyhini abakwimeko enjalo bantywiliselwa ngokupheleleyo ekuthathweni kwendoda encinci, ngaphandle kokuba angabi nakho ukusinda, kwaye uhlala ubona kwaye uva i isimelabizo "thina". Le yindlela eqhelekileyo yokuphendula kunyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana, eyona nto iphambili kukuba ukudityaniswa okunjalo akulibaziseka, kungenjalo unokufumana iingxaki ezininzi ngokuzazisa ngengcali.
Ukungakhathali
Enye indlela yokhuseleko edumileyo. Kubonakala ngathi umntu yinto ebonakalayo yokuba kwingqondo ebonakalayo kunzima ukucela umngeni, kodwa ukungahoywa kwenkani. Uninzi lwethu, ngale ndlela, imizimba yethu iphendula kwintlungu kwilahleko, ngoko ke akufuneki nexhala malunga noku ukuba wena okanye umhlobo wakho uyala ukwamkela imeko. Kodwa, kwakhona, konke kuxhomekeke kwixesha lokuphumla: Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba umntu wakho osondeleyo ufuna uncedo lwengqondo ngenxa yokungakwazi ukuphuma kule meko ikhutshiwe, qiniseka ukuba uza kusebenza.