Qokelela usana ekuseni - kuba le ifuna uSupersi afunde. Kunqabile ukuba luhlobo luni lomntwana olungele ukuvela ekwindla ukubanda ekuseni ukuya egadini okanye esikolweni, ngelixa ugcina umbono owonwabisayo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho amaqhinga athile angayivumelanga ukujika intsasa yakho ibe bubusuku.
Kwaye unentoni isidlo sakusasa?
Ayimangalisi ke into yokuba kukho uluvo lokuba isidlo sakusasa esona sidlo sibalulekileyo semini. Inengcinga yalo apha, kuba ukusuka ekuseni kubalulekile ukuba iphinde iphinde iphinde amandla amandla ukuze imvakalelo yendlala ayisihambi nathi kwisidlo sasemini. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthathela ingqalelo le nto, ukuba sithetha ngesidlo sakusasa sabantwana. Sukucinga ukuba uya kwenza omnye uya kusebenza - thabatha umntwana wakho ukuba utye kangangesiqwengana seziqhamo okanye imifuno emitsha, ukuze ufumane inxalenye eyimfuneko yeevithamini. Umntwana ogcweleyo nowonelisekileyo uya kuba mncinci kwaye avume ngokuzithandela ukuqokelela intlanganiso nabahlobo egadini okanye esikolweni.
Incoko nomntwana osendleleni eya kwigadi
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Zama ukuphuhlisa inkululeko
Kuya kufuneka wamkele, ekuseni kubalulekile ukuba ulandelele umntwana, kodwa nendoda, kwaye ukuba usebenza, ixesha lendlu nganye linciphile kakhulu. Kukukhawuleza ukuba i-hysterics kunye nethambo le-nerve labazali livela. Kwaye kufuneka senze yonke into. Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba umntwana wakho ufunda ubuncinci obuhlanganisiweyo ngokuzimeleyo- uya kugcina ubuncinci imizuzu eli-15 ukuba umntwana anxibe i-T-shirt, ibhulukhwe kunye neesokisi. Ngandlela zonke bakhuthaza inyathelo lokuqala lokwenza into ngokwakho.
Thetha nomntwana malunga nosuku lwexesha elizayo
Indlela eya egadini ekuza cwaka ngokupheleleyo ibeka imeko, ngakumbi ukuba intsasa yaqala kakhulu. Khumbula ukuba emandleni akho ukuphembelela imeko yomntwana, kuba uziva unemvakalelo yomntu omdala. Ukuba umntwana akaqwalaselwanga ukuba enze into entle, xoxa ngento emnandi naye ukuba kwenzeka ntoni mva kwaye yintoni kanye kanye eya kumnyusa imeko. Zama ukwenza nayiphi na indlela ngaphandle kwendlu inomdla emntwaneni ukuze ujonge phambili ekwenzeni ukuba umshiye kwindawo ethile.
Sukukhwesa imowudi
Ukuba umntu omdala unokuhlanganisa amakhosi emva kokulala nje okufutshane, ke akunakwenzeka ukuba umntwana. Kwiiveki ezininzi, abantwana baphinda bakhiwa kwimodi entsha emva kweholide, ekufuneka beyenza kwaye bakhule - musa ukulala phantsi ekuseni, ukuba ufuna ukuya emntwaneni wakho kwiiyure ezimbalwa. Ukuba iyavela ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ulale ngaphambili, lungiselela zonke izinto ngokuhlwa okanye wenze izithuba zesidlo sakusasa ukuze kusasa ungaphepheki.