Asinguye wonke umntu onako ukuthetha ngokungakhathali malunga neyona isondele kakhulu, kodwa ngaphandle kwawo kunzima ukufezekisa ngokuhambelana ebhedini. Ihlala isoyikisa ukuba iphazamiseke, kwaye ke, inyani, eneneni, akukho nto ikhutshelweyo, ingekuko ukubonakaliswa kweminqweno yam, ngokwemvelo, ukuba ungenguye wonke umntu.
Indoda iya kuba nzima ukwala kwangoko
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Akufanele ube neentloni
Kukholelwa ukuba zonke izinto zokuthanda ngokwesini zijongela phantsi i-classic-ibonakaliso yendalo egqwethiweyo. Nangona kunjalo, akukho minqweno iphosakeleyo, kukho umahluko wokuqonda kunye nokuhlonipha umntu ngamnye kuyo yonke into entsha nengaqhelekanga. Ke ngoko, akufuneki ukuba uzigwebe ukuba, umzekelo, ufumana engqondweni malunga ne-BDSM. Ukuba iqabane alikuxhasi kule, oko kuthetha ukuba ukhetho lwakho "lokulala" aluhambelani, isizathu ngokuqinisekileyo asikho kuwe.
KUTHENI KUTHENI KUFANELEKILEYO KUVUKA
Njengomthetho, ngababini apho ukuvumelana nokuzithemba ngokupheleleyo kwaye kuyavela, ukuba ufuna ukuxoxa ngesihloko esisenyongweni. Amaqabane akwiimeko ezinjalo akoyiki ukugwetywa kwesiqingatha sabo sesibini. Ukuba ugcina yonke into kuwe, kungekudala, kamva, impikiswano iya kujika ibe sisikrelemnqa. Ngaba kulula ukuba ixoxa ngokukhawuleza amaxesha "abukhali"?
Ukuba kunokwenzeka, yenza iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zesondo
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Uza kuqala phi
Ungayivakalisa ngokuthe ngqo iingcinga zakho malunga nobusuku obuzayo, kodwa bambalwa abantu abasonjululwa ngayo, ukuze ungacingeli kude- umzekelo, usixelele ngemeko enomtsalane kwifilimu, emva koko unikele ukuphindaphinda ebomini. Njengomthetho, kwimeko enjalo kunzima ukwala kwangoko. Indoda okungenani icinga ngaphezulu komnikelo wakho.
Kodwa yintoni omele uyenze ukuba indlela awasabela ngayo ikumangalisile?
Kuhlala kukho ithuba lokuba umbono wakho awuxhaswa, ke ulungiselele kwaye uye kwixesha elinjalo. Kodwa musa ukungxama ukuze ucaphuke ngokukhawuleza ukuba awufumani mpendulo kwimbono yakho kwiqabane lakho. Buza ukuba akayithandi, kwaye oko wayenako. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, uya kufumana inqaku lonxibelelwano kwaye kamva ngokuhlwa kuya kuzama izimvo ezifana nazo zombini.
Cwangcisa isidlo sangokuhlwa
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Yenza isimanga
Ukuba sele uvumile ngayo yonke into, kwaye uyazi kakuhle ukuba indoda ayichasene nengcinga yakho, thatha inyathelo lokuqala ezandleni zakho, ngaphambi kwendlela "ngaphambi kokuba ulungiselele igumbi, lungisa igumbi kwaye Izinto (ukuba ziyimfuneko), ungaqala ngesidlo sangokuhlwa sokuphumla ukuze uphumle umntu emva kosuku olunzima emva koko uqhubeke kwishishini.