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Zithini iimvakalelo zakho ngengcinga yokuba umntu omthandayo unokunyamalala? Kwaye ngengcinga, yintoni engcono kwaye iphumelele? Ukuba uyakuqonda oko ukubonayo kummeli wesini esahlukileyo kwabanokhuphiswano, abafuna ukujikeleza; Umzali, ofuna ukulila kwi vest; Umntwana ozabalazayo ukulawula, ungathetha malunga nokuxhomekeka kothando.
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Inyathelo lokuqala: Qaphela ukuba uxhomekeke. Ukuba kwiinkcazo zothando ngokuxhomekeke, ufundile ngokwakhe - bathabatha inyathelo lokuqala ukuze banciphise ukugula kwabo.
Inqanaba lesibini: ukuziva uziva. Ukuba kukho umnqweno wokuziva unomsindo, usizi, uloyiko, ukuziva unetyala, iintlungu - musa ukuyichasa le nto. Imfuneko yomnye umntu yomelele kakhulu. Siqinisekile ukuba sinokuba mandundu ukuba iqabane likhohlakele, musa ukuvumela iimvakalelo angakugweba. Ukuvuma kumava akho, uyandandisa izicelo zam.
Inqanaba lesithathu: Ngokuzithandela. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, sizabalazela ukufikelela kwiimfuno ezimiselweyo ukuze zifumane uthando lwabazali kwaye akukho ndlela inyamalala ngeenxa zonke. Ixesha elingaphezulu, imiyalelo yabafundi bangaphandle baguqukela kwilizwi lethu elingaphakathi. Umnqweno wokufaneleka uthando, siye kamva 'sityhafile "kubudlelwane kunye neqabane. Umsebenzi wakho kukuzikhumbula kwinqanaba le-preschool. Hug mhle umntwana emfanekisweni wakho, mkele, uthando. Yenza lo mthambo yonke imihla - kwaye uya kuqaphela ukuba emhlabeni kunomdla kakhulu, ngaphandle kwento oyenzileyo.
Inqanaba lesine: ukuzithemba kunye nokuzihlonipha. Ukusebenza kwinyathelo elidlulileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo uyakuphakamisa amandla akho. Kuya kuba lula ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo ozibonileyo, landela iinkolelo zethu, ukukhusela umbono wakho. Umzuzu obalulekileyo: Ziqwalasele, vuye kwimpumelelo yakho, uncumo olunyanisekileyo kunye nabantu abangqonge.
Ugqirha wezengqondo odumileyo uMikhail Wabhala wabhala malunga nophando olunikezelwe ekukhetheni iqabane kunye neqabane. Ngexesha lophando, abafazi bacela ukuba bakhethe inkcazo yothando abaluthanda ngakumbi. Iinketho ezintathu zaye zanikwa: "Andinakuphila ngaphandle kwakho," andisokuze ndikonzakalise, "masize nditsale ubomi obuthile." Ngokweziphumo ze-75% yabasetyhini, ukhetho "andinakuphila ngaphandle kwakho."
I-Litvak iqaphele ukuba ingcaciso enjalo eluthandweni ayiqhelekanga kumntwana onokutsha okanye ulinxila. Kwangelo xesha, yinyani, ukwenziwa ngokusemthethweni, ukusenela kwakhona kunye noxanduva:
Ngaphambi koko, ngaphambi kokuba sivakalise "isiphelo sehlabathi esingenamntu esimthandayo," cinga ukuba ulawulwa - uthando okanye iziyobisi.