Rhoqo, thina singunobangela wazo ziganeko zingathandekiyo ebomini bethu. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi luqinisekile ukuba ingxaki ilele kwihlabathi langaphandle. Kwaye nawuphi na umntu kufuneka aqalise utshintsho kuye, kwaye siya kuxela imigaqo ephambili.
Fumana Lowo uzakunxiba ezandleni zakho
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Yenza ngokwezifiso kwilizwi elifanelekileyo kwaye ube noxinzelelo ngokunganyangekiyo
Abantu abahlengahlengiswe kakuhle kwiimeko kunokuba lula kakhulu ukuhlala. Masithi unomsebenzi omtsha. Ewe kunjalo, olu luxinzelelo, kodwa ke kufuneka uzimisele ukufikelela kwimpumelelo kwaye ungacingi ukuba unzima kangakanani na ubani unikwe inkqubo yotshintsho, kwakamsinya nje ukuba uyeke ukutshintsha.
Imeko nganye engathandekiyo yenzeka, kodwa kuphela kumandla akho okusabela kubo: Kuya kufuneka unethemba ngesiphumo esihle.
Ivela phi?
Unxibelelwano lwethu lokuqala lwenzeka nabazali, ngokwemvelo, ukuba banobuqhetseba emhlabeni, umntwana wabo uya kukrokrela.
Ukuba mdala, umntwana ufumana amava noontanga bezibini isini, kwaye ezi nxibelelwano azinakubizwa ngokuba zintle, ngakumbi xa kufikwa kubudlelwane bothando.
Ungayitshintsha njani izimvo zakho?
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba ubomi bethu bufutshane kakhulu, kwaye ukuba uyichitha kwiingxabano ezingaqondakaliyo kunye nengqumbo yabantu abakhonkxiweyo, unganeli xesha lokunandipha zonke izinto ezikunikwa ngubomi.
Cwangcisa iziphumo ezivela kwigajethi
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Silwa ne-negative
Mhlawumbi yeyona ngxaki iphambili kubemi abaninzi bezixeko ezinkulu - ezingalunganga nezisigxina, ezizelwe ngenxa yogqatso olungapheliyo kwiziphumo ezilungileyo.
Qala into yokutshintsha ebomini bakho. Umsebenzi ufuna ukuba umgudu obekwa kunzima kuwe? Guqula umsebenzi endaweni yokukhalaza kwaye ube phantsi kwengcinezelo yoluntu. Ngaba umyeni wakho akakuhloniphi? Fumana omnye umntu oza kukuphatha ezingalweni zakho, kwaye unganyamezeli ukuthotywa rhoqo. Rhoqo siba ziintshaba xa singafuni kuthatha naluphi na uhlobo olunokusikhokelela kwiinguqu ezimangalisayo.
Ingqondo
Uninzi luqhelekile ukuba luduze kwaye lugqithise, oluya kuthi luthintele impilo yethu yomzimba nengqondo. Yima nje kwaye uthathe umphefumlo onzulu. Nje ukuba uqonde ukuba ingqondo igcwele kakhulu kwaye ikwimeko enjalo ixesha elide, thatha ikhefu. Thatha iholide yakho kwaye uye kwindalo ngaphandle kwegajethi kunye neendlela zonxibelelwano ubuncinci kangangeentsuku ezimbalwa. Apho unokuzijonga, uqonde iminqweno yakho kwaye unike ukuphumla ingqondo yakho. Cwangcisa usuku-lukhuphe ubuncinci amaxesha amaninzi kwisiqingatha sonyaka.
Yenza into ebinga
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Ukukhupha ityala
Ayithethi konke konke ukuba iyimfuneko ukuba ihlelelene nokuziphatha komoni. Hayi. Khuphela bonke abafowunelwa kunye nalo mntu kwaye ungavumeli iingcinga ezingathandekiyo ezinxulunyaniswa nemeko engalunganga kwixesha elidlulileyo. Ngelixa ugcina ukungaboni kwakho, ibhalansi yakho yengqondo ayiyi kufumana uxolo. Khupha imeko, tshintshela kwinto elungileyo.
Zifumane uzizombisi
Cinga into oyithandayo. Ukuba ngumntu omdala, sigxile ngakumbi kwezo zinto, enyanisweni, asisiqhubizeli naluphi na uvuyo: Sinxibelelana nabantu abangasithandiyo, kuba kufuneka basebenze kumsebenzi ongafunekiyo, kuba kufuneka usebenze , sidibana nalawo amaqabane avumayo indalo kwaye kunjalo. Lahla lonke ukhenketho. Ngaba wayehlala ephupha? Bhalisela iikhosi zokupeyinta. Iphupha lokudanisa? Ngokukhetha kwakho amawaka eStudios. Kwaye musa ukunikela ingqalelo kwabo bagxekayo iintolo zakho: Ukoneliseka kwangaphakathi yeyona mpumelelo iphezulu komntu.