I-Glafira Tarkhanova kunye ne-Alexey Faddeev - isibini esincinci kakhulu. Ukuzijonga kunye nokubukela ubudlelwane: amatsha, amathole, athambile, apho kukho ukuhleka okuninzi kwaye akanakuze acinge ukuba ngaba aba bazali ... abantwana abane! AKUKHO BUNGOZI OBALULEKILEYO, Inkxalabo, ukucaphukisa kunye namadoda anendoda. Zilungile kunye, apha uphila uthando lokwenene, apho abantwana abaluthi, kodwa bahlukane nje. Iinkcukacha-kudliwanondlebe nephepha lephephabhuku "moya".
-Usele udlule ixesha elininzi ubudala nabantwana. Yeyiphi, ngokoluvo lwakho, yeyona inzima?
I-Glafira: Kum ngowona mncinci-wasemncinci, kuba yonke into endilawula mna. Kwaye eyona nto inzima, ndicinga ukuba siza ngaphambili - iminyaka yobudala bonyana omnye sele iqala, kwiminyaka emibini kwelinye, emva koko kuluhlu. Ekuphela kwento endiyiqondayo ukuba ishumi elivisayo iya kuba mininzi, kwaye kuya kufuneka bacombulule yonke imibuzo omnye komnye, uhlobo oluthile lwe-cube rube kufuneka isebenze. Kwaye siya kuba kufutshane, enye indlela okanye enye, silungiselela le (sihleka), sele sihlangabezana.
UAlexei: Oyena mdala, nakwiincoko zikaMama, ukuqonda ukuba ulindile, ilungiselela ngokwengqondo. Bonke abantwana bahluke kakhulu, kwaye bakwimilo, nangomfanekiso weengcinga, kunye nomdla. Ngomncinci (Kungekudala iminyaka emibini), nangona kunjalo, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kunzima ukugweba. Kodwa sele sibona ukuba unalo omnye umsindo. Kwaye wonke umntu ukhusela umdla wakhe, ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ndiyonakalise imeko. Nditsho nokukhetha ikhathuni ukuba ithande kwaye enye neyesithathu, inzima kakhulu.
I-Glafira: Kodwa sibafundisa ukuba bawaxenile.
UAlexei: Ngelixa kwenzeka kunqabile. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abadala baqala ukunika, banokuthatha i-iPad okanye incwadi kwaye bahambe. Kutshanje, ngelixa iingcambu zazityelele utat'omkhulu, iphakathi ezimbini zajonga kwii-cowiple zaseNtshona zasentshona. Andilindelanga ukuba bangathanda kakhulu, bavuya yifilimu. Eli libali labadala elifanelekileyo malunga nendlela amakhwenkwe ayenza ngayo umntu ophambili owabulala amaqela. Kodwa oyena mdala, ndicinga ukuba andizukuthanda.
I-Glafira: Kwiimeko zongquzulwano, kuya kuba lula ukuzala emagumbi ukuze wonke umntu abukele into ayifunayo, kodwa kufuneka ubabonise indlela yokuthetha thethana. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, oku kunokwenzeka phakathi kwabahlobo, oogxa bakho. Kakhulu, ngelishwa, isonjululwe kwiimbambano ezigqwethayo okanye ezothusayo. Akusoloko kubi, kodwa umntu kufuneka anikele ngokulalanisa, imbambano ayinamveliso.
Isinxibo, i-Isabel Garcia; Amacici kunye neenwele, zonke izinto zevenkile zikaFedora
Ifoto: I-Alena Poloshin; Umncedisi wefoto: uDina Zhilinskaya
-Alexey ngolonwabo oloxekileyo malunga nefilimu, yena uzibuza konke oku, inkwenkwe. Kwaye wena, intloko, mhlawumbi, ayifani kakhulu namakhwenkwe?
I-Glafira: Hayi ngoba? Sifunda iincwadi kwasebuntwaneni. Banokuba namaqhawe wamaqhawekazi, nangona benomdla kwimbali yothando, kodwa ubudlelwane noluntu.
-Uba nabantwana abane, kwaye ngelo xesha wawusithi njengoko wasondela kuwe, woyika. Ke mhlawumbi lixesha lokuba uyeke? Okanye ngaba sele ilungile?
I-Glafira: Linda ubone. Uloyiko ayisiyiyo into ephambili, ixesha lexesha, oku khangemisa mntu, ngokwahlukileyo kwimeko yezemali, izimvo zabanye kunye nezinye izinto.
UAlexei: Ingonyama UTolstoy waya kwimonki, wacela imvume yokuqhawula umtshato umfazi wayo, kuba emva komntwana wesithathu wayengakwazi ukuzala. Wayekholelwa ukuba abantwana kufuneka bazelwe emtshatweni.
- Intloko, uyitywina kakhulu. Kwangelo xesha, uLhaha wathi wayeseyinto oyenzayo onayo kwaye eyahlukileyo ...
I-Glafira: Ewe, emva koko umfazi omkhulu, emva koko uncinane. (Uhleka.)
UAlexei: Yonke into indifanelana. Engaqhelekanga ukuba umntu ovela ebantwini uyakhathaza kule nto.
I-Glafira: Ndixhasa ngesi sihlandlo. Kodwa, kunjalo, umfazi kunzima ngakumbi ukuba uphole ngalo lonke ixesha. Ngeli xesha yonke into yenzekile ngokukhawuleza, kodwa andinalo ixesha lokwenza imidlalo.
UAlexei: Oku kufuneka kwenziwe ngokuthe ngcembe, nawaphi na amanyathelo abonakalayo abonakaliswa kwimpilo, ngendlela yam. Umzimba awungekhe nyani ungenise i-sertionalt yoxinzelelo, ngokulandelelana, nayo nayo ihambe.
-Lesha, kwaye i-boy yakho ayitshabalali ebomini?
UAlexei: Hayi. Sele ndenza le minyaka isixhenxe. Kwaye i-Ermolai iqhutywa ngebhokisi. Kwaye umdala uthe wathetha nam ngokunyaniseka kum, wamcacisela ukuba akafuni ukuba ziimbaleki.
I-Glafira: Uthanda iirobhothi, kodwa rhoqo ukuqubha. Ithi, Liyeza ixesha, liye kwiholo. Kwaye okwesithathu, sasinekratshi, asikhange sinciphise kakhulu. Ufuna into efana neMidlalo yeMidlalo, uhamba kakuhle, isigcawu esincinci okanye inkawu encinci. Bade babe nesakhiwo somzimba kubo bonke abahlukileyo. I-ERMOMLAY yeyona nto inamandla emzimbeni.
Ihempe, iBikkile; ibhulukhwe, i-21dot12; Ibhanti, uBrieni.
Ifoto: I-Alena Poloshin; Umncedisi wefoto: uDina Zhilinskaya
-Unendlu entsha- lo ngumsitho!
I-Glafira: Ngokuqinisekileyo! Indlu yethu yokuqala. Kodwa asifuni, yinkqubo entsonkothileyo, nangona ukulungiswa kuphantse kugqityiwe. Uhambile phantse unyaka. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba ndizilungiselele, umama, umzekelo, egxunyekwe iphepha lodongo, babengamakhaya onke, ukuba babizekile kwaye ngokukhawuleza.
-Axeyey, kwaye unikwe iitalente ezinjalo, ngaba uyayazi indlela yokwenza into ngezandla zakho?
UAlexei: Ukuba kukho imfuneko, yonke into endinokuyifumana: ndipheke, kwaye ndihlambe izitya, kunye nomgangatho. Ngasihlandlo sithile, ngexesha lomfundi, ndaye ndalungisa kubahlobo, ndisemkhosini. Kodwa kungcono ukuhlawula ingcali.
-Intloko, utshilo ukuba asizilungisi. Nekhitshi lamaphupha, njengoko uyibizile, ayiyi kuyinyusa kuyo?
I-Glafira: Ngamanye amaxesha ndilungiselela, ihlala ihlala kwiiholide, kuba phantse ndingenayo indlu. Kodwa ndingatsho ukuba ndiyawuthanda lo msebenzi. Kukho iindawo endinokuba nemveliso ngakumbi ngeli xesha. (Uncumo.)
- Amakhwenkwe aphezulu anceda kancinci endlwini?
I-Glafira: Basenazo izilangazelelo zabo, hayi ekhaya.
UAlexei: Kodwa amaxesha ngamaxesha ndenze abadala bahlambe imigangatho kunye nezitya zokuba wonke umntu. Ndizama ukufundisa. Ingqeqesho yindoda eyimfuneko. Ophezulu yenza ukuba "ngomlomo", umndilili-onokonwaba.
-Lesha, awukaze ube ngumxhasi owachitha ixesha elide nabantwana ngelixa bemncinci?
UAlexei: Andikaze ndicele uxinzelelo olo. Ndiyazi ukuba isithende liwuthanda njani umsebenzi wakhe, kwaye kwakunzima kangakanani ukuhlala khona ekhaya. Iyasebenza, ngamanye amaxesha nayo. (Uhleka.) Ukuba unomsebenzi omncinci, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu. Kuyimfuneko kwishedyuli enjalo.
"Kwaye inyani yokuba ayisebenzi kakhulu, kodwa ixesha elide amagqabi anonyamezelo, nawe awuzithuphi?"
UAlexei: Ndiyayiqonda ngesiqhelo. Ndingumntu odumileyo, ndiyazi ukuba sinako umsebenzi. Kwaye sihlala sinxibelelana.
I-Glafira: Sele siqhele le nto. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha uLesha akazange ayazi ukuba ndingowuphi umzi, kodwa awunamsebenzi, eyona nto iphambili kukuba iphilile. Ndihlala ndikhunjulwa ukuba ndikhunjulwe. Ngomntu uNikifor ekutyeni kwakumnandi, ke kwakungekho kwifowuni. (Uhleka.)
- Alebey, awuzange chaze kuqala ukuba uthathe uhambo olunzima kakhulu lomntwana oneenyanga ezimbini?
I-Glafira: U-Lesha wayengenguye ". (Uhleka.) Kwaye wamangaliswa kakhulu xa, esakhulelwa, ndaxela ngezicwangciso zam. Ekubeni inyani yokuba uza kuchasene, akukho nto inokutshintsha. Ndithathe uxanduva lwam. Simkile kwindawo efudumeleyo ekwindla, kwaye eKhanty-Manssiysk yayisele inyani, uninzi lweekhilomitha ludlula. Kodwa akukho nto, ityhutywe.
-Ukunye phantse iminyaka elishumi elinesine. Ucinga ukuba utshintshe njani okuninzi?
UAlexei: Eyona nto iphambili kukuba intloko ihleli imnandi kwaye ichwayitile. Ekubeni sonke sinye kunye, asiboni naluphi na utshintsho olubukhali. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqala kwabantwana, hayi utshintsho oluninzi, kodwa bonke.
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Ifoto: I-Alena Poloshin; Umncedisi wefoto: uDina Zhilinskaya
-Unemihla apho unokuzinikela komnye?
I-Glafira: Kukho amaxesha ahlukileyo xa sikwiMoscow kunye, ngoku sahambisa bonke abantwana okwethutyana (kuhleka) kwaye siyonwabele inkululeko, sibuya ngelo xesha xa unokunxibelelana ngokuzolileyo, thetha.
UAlexei: Okanye uhambe, yiya kwindawo yokutyela. Kwiminyaka eliqela siphupha ukuya kwindawo ethile kunye, kodwa okwangoku kuya kuphuma. Ndizokutyelela, makube nakho uThixo, umsebenzi uya kuba. Kodwa siza kuzama ukuhlengahlengisa iintsuku zokudubula.
I-Glafira: Ndifuna amakhwenkwe aphumle, bafumana amanqaku, bababonisa umhlaba. Oku, ngendlela, kunye noxanduva lwezemali, kuba usapho lukhulu, kwaye ixesha liyadingeka le.
UAlexei: Kuya kufuneka ubanike ngenxa yokuba kule meko ayiphanga. Akukho ziyolo zinjalo.
I-Glafira: Ndiqinisekile ukuba abantwana kufuneka banikele kwiingxaki zabo ukuze bathembele. Ke ngoko, andikukhathaleli ukuba nditsho ukuba andinamali ngoku, kwaye asinakukwazi ukuyifumana. Sibaxelela ukuba ukuba ufuna into, unokulinda oku okanye ufumaneke.
UAlexei: Ndimcacisela eli mdala, kutheni singakwazi ukuthenga into, siguqula eli nani lilingane neemveliso.
I-Glafira: Xa iingcambu zacela into yokudlala ebizayo, ndathi: "Oku kunjalo, ukubala, Poldivana." (Uhleka.) Wamangaliswa: "Poldivana ?!". Ewe, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha i-sofa engabizi kakhulu. Unokuphucula igumbi, kwaye ungathenga igajethi kule mali.
-Akungekho namnye kuni ongekacinga ngosapho olukhulu?
I-Glafira: Yenzekile. Asizange siphuphe kakhulu.
UAlexei: Ewe, kwakungekho zicwangciso zinjalo. Kwaye ndiyazi abantu abavela kwiiNtsapho ezinkulu abaza kufuna ukuba bafane. Kunzima kakhulu ukusasaza ingqalelo kunye nesimo sengqondo kubo bonke.
-Uyazi yonke into malunga nomnye?
I-Glafira: Ndicinga ukuba hayi. Ukwenzela ntoni? Kumele ukuba kubekho inkululeko, umhlaba wangaphakathi. Ndithanda kakhulu ukuba uLesha ufunda kakhulu, ndinamathuba amancinci oku okanye ndibukele i-kinonovinok, kodwa ndinokunxibelelana nangaliphi na ixesha. Unokundibuza ngeendaba eziphambili zosuku, kwaye ndiyazazi umbono wakhe malunga nefilimu, endaxelwa kuyo kwindawo yokuziphilisa. Singaxoxa ngezinto ezibonisiweyo okanye ezifundwayo.
- Intloko, ngaba uziva unemeko ye-lesha evela emnyango? Ngaba uyazi iindlela ezinobunzima bokuphucula ngokukhawuleza, zizole umyeni wakho?
I-Glafira: Ndivakalelwa ngoko nangoko, ewe. (Ihleka.) Ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukukhwela okanye ukwehla u-Lesha kuphela ekhitshini. (Uhleka.)
UAlexei: Ngapha koko, kuya kufuneka uzithathe ngokwakho. Imizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu inokuba ngolu hlobo, kodwa hayi ngokuhlwa.
I-Glafira: Ndiyathemba ukuba xa sihamba, kuya kuba lula, kuba indawo engaphezulu iya kuvela. Ngoku sinamagumbi amabini. Amakhwenkwe kwihlathi elincinci. Kwaye xa ufika ngengxaki yakho, ndifuna ukuqhuma kuye kwenye indawo. Kodwa kungekudala siya kuba negumbi labo lokulala, apho kuya kubakho umhlala-phantsi ukuze ungakuchukumisi.
- Ngaba unazo izixa eziphezulu?
UAlexei: Ndiyakwazi ukukhwaza, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akukho krakra, asihlali kwikota ye-neapolitan. Baye basweleka, basweleka kwigumbi kangangemizuzu eliqela, bakhunjulwa. Kwaye ukuphakama kuyahamba, kwaye andinakucaphuka ixesha elide. Kwaye ngokubanzi andikwazi ukuba ndenzakalisa umntu ixesha elide. Kunzima kum ukuba kwimeko kangaka okanye ixanda.
I-Glafira: Kwenzeka kunqabile, ngethamsanqa. Abantwana, ngokomgaqo, boyike kakhulu ngenxa yeengxabano zethu.
UAlexei: Kanye xa iingcambu zazincinci kakhulu, andikhange ndikhanye, kodwa kwaphuphuma into ebukhali, kwaye weza, wandithumelela emva kweenyawo zam, nditsho ukuba andinangxaki. " Kwaye ngokunyaniseka wenza ukuba ndikhumbula ubomi.
-Unolwalamano oluhle kunye nabazali babo?
I-Glafira: Ewe. Ngoku kuya kufuneka unxibelelane ngakumbi nomama, kuba eneneni yethu yesibini. Ewe kunjalo, unemibono yayo, njengaye nawuphi na umntu, kodwa kwintsapho yethu wonke umntu uya kudibana.
UAlexei: I-Anecdotes Eneqhezu malunga noMama-In-in-in-in-ng ithi kuthi. (Uncumo.)
I-Glafira: Abazali bam nabangathandekiyo, imeko yengxabano ayiqhelekanga. Bendihlala ndinxibelelana ngakumbi noMama wase-Lesa, kodwa ngoku ngokusisiseko kubo, ukuze bathethe ngakumbi kuNyana. Ndihlala ndihlala.
-Lesha, i-pell ezinxibile rhoqo ebomini bakhe? Nokuba uyayitshintsha na?
I-Glafira: Kubonakala kum ukuba kuhle ukuba i-lesha ayiyilawuli. Kodwa andizicwangcisi iinkanuko, andiyeki ukuya eMini.
UAlexei: Andikhumbuli ukuba bendinenxaxheba ngokuchasene nento. Akakhuphi.
I-Glafira: Kutshanje ndisampulu, bendinxibe ngokungagungqiyo ndamcacisela ukuba kwakuyimfuneko kumfanekiso. Yayiyingubo ene-decollete kunye neebhutsi.
UAlexei: Ngapha koko, iisampuli zazinomlingisi, endimazi kakuhle, kwaye ngoko nangoko wambuza ukuba uyoku ekhaya? ".
-Axey, kwaye yeyiphi indlela oyithandayo?
UAlexei: Ngokunyaniseka, andazi, yonke into ifanelekile.
-Ukhe uthethe ukuba awudingi ukuba uhlekise ngomxholo womona.
I-Glafira: Ayinqweneleki, nokuba i-psychology ithi malunga nayo.
- Ngaba ukhona na kuni owakha wanomona, ubuncinci ngaphakathi?
I-Glafira: Asizange sinike isizathu.
-Kwenzeka ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ejikeleze iintloko zingamaqabane afanelekileyo, amadoda amnandi ...
UAlexei: Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba siyindoda nomfazi.
I-Glafira: Ndinesithukuthezi esinjalo - umyeni wam, ukuba kunjalo, ayizukubonakala incinci, kwaye enezine kuye. Kutheni ndifuna umntu onobuqu? Ndiza kuza kumhla kunye neGurb yonke. (Uhleka.)
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Ifoto: I-Alena Poloshin; Umncedisi wefoto: uDina Zhilinskaya
-Ndibona ukuba unomdla kwaye wonwabe omnye komnye.
I-Glafira: Kwaye ukhululekile, bendiya kuthi. Sinabantwana abane, ngokuqinisekileyo asinalo ixesha lokuphoswa.
UAlexei: Inqaku alikho kule nto. Kucacile ukuba ukuba besinengcambu enye, sinokufikelela kwezinye izinto - ukukhwela rhoqo xa uhambo, umzekelo. Abahlobo bethu bempelaveki baya eIstanbul okanye uBerlin, bahambe kwiikonsathi. Kwelinye icala ...
I-Glafira: Asisayi kuphinda sicinge ukuba akukho nto yethu yethu, okanye iqhayiya, okanye iNikifora. Wonke umntu akavumelekanga, akunakwenzeka ukuba uyitshintshe ikonsathi ethile kwaye nakwiholide.
UAlexei: Ngapha koko, kukho iihambo zokusebenza. Xa ubhalela kwenye idolophu ekudubuleni ngokukhawuleza emva kokusebenza, emva koko kwakhona - ngokusebenza nasemva, awuyazi apho ukhoyo. Njengoko utitshala wam, uYuri Solomin waxelela, xa wayephuma kwindawo ethile kwi-perron, kodwa engazange aqonde ukuba wayenjani umzi na, apho wayesiya khona. Kwaye yagutyungelwa kukoyikeka.
-Unayo imali kwi-boiler eqhelekileyo? Ngubani owenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo?
UAlexei: Izisombululo ezibalulekileyo- eqhelekileyo. Imali ixhaphakile, akukho mntu wayesabelana ngeyakho, eyam. Xa akonelanga, uyabiza, acela uluhlu oluninzi.
- Intloko, ngaba awukwazi ukuqhubela phambili, uthenge ingubo ebiza ixabiso?
I-Glafira: Ngokuqinisekileyo ndiyakwazi. Ukuba kuyabiza kakhulu, ndabonana naye. Kodwa, kakhulu, andizukuzithenga ngokwam, ndiya kuba nosizi ngemali. (Uhleka.)
UAlexei: Ndihlala ndithandabuza: "Ngaba ndingayithenga?", Ndithi: "Ewe."
-Alexey enesisa, njengoko ndiyayiqonda ...
I-Glafira: Hayi, uLesha uyasebenza, kodwa akakhanyisi. Inokuthi ihlehlise into.
Alexei : Ukuba kukho imfuneko kusapho, ndinako. Kodwa, mna, andingomntu osebenzayo kakhulu kwaye abayazi nyani indlela yokuthatha ingqalelo kwemali kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, endaweni yokungancedi. Ndiyindoda yaseSoviet, nditsho nokuba mncinci, nangona emncinci kunam, ndingayo naphi na. Nokuba ungazama njani ukuziqhelanisa nehlabathi lanamhlanje kunye neemeko ezintsha, sisahlala abantwana beSoviet Union. Kwaye kwi-USSR andikhumbuli ukuba kukho umntu onesisa. Bonke abahlobo bam babesebuntwaneni, kunye nabazali bethu bokuqala, kuba wonke umntu wayephila kakubi, kodwa ngokunyaniseka. Esi simo sengqondo ngemali asikhuselwanga, njengoko sasinikwa, entshonalanga. Sifuna abantwana bethu babe ngabantu abanesidima, umbono wale mihla womntu akasondeli kuthi.