Namhlanje, imeko kuxa usuku lokuqala lokuthandana kuhlala luhlala luphela ngesondo, lwaza luphantse. Ukufumaneka kwesondo 'kuvaliwe' ngamehlo amaninzi kwingozi enokuziswa. Ewe, ngandlel 'ithile inoyolo, kodwa imiphumo inokuba kude ngenxa yovuyo, zeziphi iingcali zisilumkisa ngazo. Namhlanje siqokelele iintsomi eziphambili apho abafazi abaninzi bavumelana ngonxibelelwano ngequbuliso.
Intsomi # 1. Ukuba uyagula, iya kuphawuleka.
Izifo zesondo kuphela kwiimeko ezinqabileyo nezisebenzayo zivela ngaphandle, kwezinye iimeko awunakuze uqikelele "i-bouquet" ukuba iqabane elingenamsebenzi likunika lona. Kodwa indoda enqabileyo iya kwitheko leqela kwaye ibonisa intombazana yakhe. Nabona bantu bakhumbula kakhulu abantu bangaphandle kude nobuntu besifo somoya banokuba ngabathwali besifo esiyingozi. Akufanele uxhomekeke kwiLizwi elithembekileyo lendoda ehlebeza amazwi amnandi kuwe ngokuhlwa, ukutyhala kwigumbi lasimahla - ungazikhohlise.
Intsomi # 2. Ngaba ayingomntu ofanele ukukhathazeka malunga nokhuseleko? "
Phantse wonke umntu obhinqileyo uqinisekile ukuba nayiphi na indoda enika izesondo, kufuneka ifumane ikhondomu kunye naye. Kodwa nantsi ishishini: Indoda, iqinisekile ukuba umfazi usela "iipilisi zomlingo." Ngenxa yoko, zombini azilungiswanga ukuba yedwa, kodwa nokwala ukunxibelelana ngokungaqhelekanga. Ngenxa yoqhakamshelwano olungakhuselekanga-isigqebhezana kwi-venereologist. Ukuba indoda iyala ukuqhuba ikhemesti yendlela yokuthintela inzala kwaye inyanzelise ngokusondeleleneyo, inike "i-adventure", kuba impilo yakho ibaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba ivuyisa.
malunga nokhuseleko kufuneka lucinge zombini
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Intsomi # 3. "Kwangoko iya kucaca ukuba ndijongana"
Kwakhona asinakuvuma. Nokuba ngamanye amaxesha ulawula ukuphepha ukosuleleka okanye ungakhulelwe, akukho mntu uya kunika isiqinisekiso sokuba isini esilandelayo esingahleliyo asizukunika "umfanekiso ogwenxa." Ngamanye amaxesha isondo kunye neqabane elisisigxina liza, linyanzela isiqingatha sesibini ukuze sijonge ukuzonwabisa ecaleni kwentembelo epheleleyo yokuba ezi zinto ziya kuhlala zingenanto. Ngenxa yoko, yosulelwe ngu "funa i-adventure" kunye neqabane lakhe elisisigxina, kwaye zombini zisenokungakwazi ukufikelela ngalo. Akukho sidingo sokuveza le ngozi yakho kunye nomntu omthandayo, kwaye ke nokuba awusi sibini, isini esingahleliwe kufuneka sikhuseleke.