Ngaba ucinga i-efbrows yeflowy kunye namazinyo afakekileyo sesona sixhobo silungileyo sokukhulisa umntwana? Ukuba abazali bam baziphathe ngendlela efanayo, musa ukuphinda iimpazamo zabo. Umntwana, ukususela ekuzalweni, kwaseza eluthandweni kwaye enesimo sakhe sengqondo kuye njengoMntu ohlukileyo, uyakwazi ukuqhuba imithetho yokuziphatha kwaye efanelekile ekuziphatheni eluntwini. Kwaye lowo udandulukisayo waphakama, wakhula ngesandla, uyakhula emhlabeni kunye nendoda evaliweyo. I-Wirhshit ihlala ikhuthaza ukwanelanela - kwaye ngeli xesha siya kuhlalutya ufakelo oluchanekileyo olurhalela ubudlelwane phakathi kwezizukulwana.
"Vala umlomo wakho, akukho mntu ubuzayo!"
Babuza, kwaye njani! Abantwana banelungelo elifanayo lokuthatha inxaxheba kwingxoxo ngezigqibo ezinxulumene nosapho lonke kwaye ngokobuqu, njengabantu abadala. Nangona unoxanduva lomntwana ngaphambi kokuba uninzi lwayo, kusafuneka lunciphise ilungelo lakhe kwinyaniso yokuzalwa 'kwinkululeko yokucinga kunye namagama ", iFunda iNqaku le-29. Ukuba ileta ye Umthetho ubuyela kwi-Psychology, amandla okuchonga ukhetho lwakho, ukwenza izigqibo kunye noxanduva lwabo ngenxa yezigqibo ezingachanekanga- yonke le nto inceda umntwana oyimpumelelo kwaye aphumelele iminyaka eli-18 ukususa Uxanduva oluvela kubazali ngobomi babo.
Ukusukela kwiminyaka edlulileyo, umntwana ufunda ukuchaza intando yakhe - i-wech yokuqala, ngamazwi
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"Hlamba igumbi lokufika kwethu, kungenjalo awuyi kuhamba"
Umntwana alikhoboka lakho, kodwa umntu onokuba nezicwangciso zakhe kangangexesha layo. Kwibinzana ngaphezulu, iimpazamo ezimbini zityhilwa kwangoko-ukungahloniphi uhlobo lobuqu lomntwana kunye nokukhanyela ilungelo lakhe lokukhetha kuzo. Okokuqala, fumana ukuba yintoni le icekeceke icebeke kuyo namhlanje, kwaye emva kokuba ebuze ukuba angakwazi na ukuba ungene kwigumbi. Kwiintsapho apho abantu benganeli kuphela izalamane, kodwa kunye nabahlobo, abantwana abanovuyo banceda abazali. Kwaye ngabazali abafungelweyo, basusa inkunkuma phantsi kwengalo kwaye banxibise iimpahla - babonakala njengokucoca, nje ukususa umsebenzi.
"Kwaye uthetha ngantoni apho?"
Ngokufikisa, abantwana babonakala ngovelwano lokuqala, abanye baqala ngobudlelwane, kwaye abanye bayawabala ngabom ukuba bathanda ukufunda. Nokuba ngokubulala umdla wakho phantsi koncumo oluhle, awuyeki ukuba lutshaba emehlweni omntwana, owuthandayo ngemibuzo engafanelekanga. Akufanele uqale ukuthetha ngobomi bakho buqu de ube uza kuwe ngesicelo sokuxoxa ngengxaki. Nika ithuba lokuphila ngaphakathi ngokwakho. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, amava amatsha kuye luthando, umona, ukuphoxeka. I-ECEBE, ibinjani imini, elungileyo okanye imbi yimeko namhlanje, ngaba zikho izicwangciso zempelaveki njalo njalo. Yiba ngumhlobo othuleyo kangangexesha elithile, ongqonge ukhathalelo, kodwa akayi kuthumela ubuchopho obungagungqiyo. Kwaye ewe, musa ukucinga ukukhangela ifowuni!
Kwanabo bangabahlobo nabazali badidekile ukuba bathethe ngeemvakalelo zabo.
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"Xa usendlwini yam, uhlala kwimithetho yam"
Ewe, ungumnini wendlu apho uhlala khona usapho lwakho. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kubalulekile ukunciphisa umda inkululeko yamakhaya. Umntwana ukusukela ebuntwaneni senziwe imikhwa kunye namasiko abo, njengoko echitha intsasa, ixesha ngaphambi kokuba litye kunye neeyure zasimahla ngaphandle kwezifundo. Ekuqaleni, uya kwamkela imikhwa evela kuwe: ukusuka kwindlela yokusika imifuno kwisaladi kude kube lixesha lokulala. Kodwa njengokuba bekhula, uya kufunda ngendlela yakhe. Abanye abantwana bayakuthanda ukuhlala kwigumbi lokuhlambela elinamafutha, abanye banjengobusuku bonke bachitha iincwadi, abanye abanakukwenza ngaphandle kwe-episode yothotholo ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha lokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha lokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha eliphambi kokulala ngaphambi kwexesha lokulala. Zihlonele izithethe zakhe -uya kubagxeka, nokuba abakuthandi. Ndikholelwe, ekugqibeleni iya kubalungisa xa kufikwa kule mibono ngokwakhe.