Utekereza ko ijisho ryinshi ryamaye kandi rinyanyagiye ni igikoresho cyiza cyo kurera umwana? Niba ababyeyi banjye bitwaye muburyo busa, ntibasohoka amakosa yabo. Umwana, kuva akivuka, yazanye urukundo ndetse n'imyitwarire ye nk'umuntu watandukanye, ashoboye kwifata amategeko yimyitwarire kandi akwiriye kwitwara muri societe. Kandi uhora atera hejuru kandi azuka mu ntoki, akura isi n'umuntu ufunze. Umugore buri gihe aragutera inkunga yo guhangagaciro - kandi iki gihe tuzasesengura ibikurikira byihutisha umubano hagati y'ibisekuru.
"Funga umunwa, ntawe wakubajije!"
Barabaza, kandi mbega ukuntu! Abana bafite uburenganzira bumwe bwo kwitabira ibiganiro byemezo bifitanye isano numuryango wose kandi kugiti cye, nkuko abantu bakuru. Nubwo ufite inshingano ku mwana mbere yuko ubwinshi bwayo, ntibigomba kugabanya uburenganzira bwahawe ku kutibakira "ubwisanzure mu magambo - soma ingingo ya 29. Niba ibaruwa ya Amategeko asubira muri psychologiya, ubushobozi bwo kumenya amahitamo yawe, gufata ibyemezo kandi biryozwa kubisubizo byabo, gufata ibizanirwa kubera ibyemezo bitari byo kandi byishimira guhitamo neza - ibi byose bifasha umwana gushinga imico no kugera kumyaka 18 kugirango ukureho inshingano z'ababyeyi kubuzima bwabo.
Kuva mu myaka yashize, umwana yiga kwerekana ubushake bwe - icya mbere cyoki, noneho amagambo
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"Gutanga inzu yacu kugeza aho tugeze, bitabaye ibyo ntuzajya gutembera"
Umwana ntabwo ari imbata yawe, ariko umuntu nawe ushobora kugira imigambi ye yigihe cyubusa. Mu nteruro iri hejuru, amakosa abiri agaragazwa icyarimwe - gusuzugura ubuzima bwumwana no guhakana uburenganzira bwe bwo guhitamo. Ubwa mbere, menya icyo umwangavu ateganya gukora uyu munsi, kandi nyuma yo kubaza niba agufasha kwinjira munzu. Mu miryango aho abantu atari bene wabo gusa, ahubwo ni inshuti, abana bafite umunezero bafasha ababyeyi. Kandi hamwe nababyeyi bihendutse, bakuraho imyanda munsi yintebe bakanywa imyenda hafi ya futeni - bagaragaza ko bakora isuku, kugirango bakureho inshingano.
"Kandi muvuga nde?"
Mubyangavu, abana bagaragaramo impuhwe za mbere, bamwe batangirana n'imibanire, kandi abandi banze nkana bashyigikiraga. Ndetse no guhisha amatsiko munsi yumuseke mwiza, ntuzahwema kuba umwanzi mumaso yumwana, ukunda nibibazo bidakwiye. Ntugomba gutangira kuvuga mubuzima bwawe bwite kugeza igihe we ubwe azaza kuri wewe ufite icyifuzo cyo kuganira kubibazo. Tanga amahirwe yo kurokoka imbere muri wewe. Kugeza ubu, uburambe bushya kuri we ni urukundo, ishyari, gutenguha. Kora, umunsi, umunsi, mwiza cyangwa mubi ni umwuka muri iki gihe, hari gahunda muri wikendi nibindi. Ba inshuti icecekeye igihe runaka, ijyanye no kwitaho, ariko ntizohereza ubwonko kugorora irari ryiza. Kandi yego, ntutekereze kugenzura terefone!
Ndetse n'abari inshuti n'ababyeyi barumiwe kuganira ku mpuhwe zabo.
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"Mugihe uri munzu yanjye, ntura ku mategeko yanjye"
Nibyo, uri nyiri inzu yumuryango wawe ubamo. Ariko ibi ntibisobanura ko bikenewe kugabanya ubwisanzure bwimiryango. Umwana kuva mu bwana yashingwa ingeso n'imihango yabo, uko amara mugitondo, igihe mbere yo kuryama n'amasaha yubusa hanze yamasomo. Mu mizo ya mbere, azagufasha kubyuka, kuva mu nzira yo guca imboga kuri salade kugeza igihe bikwiye kuryama. Ariko uko bakura, azamenya kubaho muburyo bwe. Abana bamwe bakunda kwicara mu bwiherero bwamabyimba, abandi nka ijoro ryose kugirango barebe ibitabo, abandi ntibashobora gukora batarareba igice cya serure mbere yo kuryama. Wubahe imigenzo ye - ntugomba kunenga, nubwo batagukunda. Nyizera, amaherezo bizakosora kubitekerezaho ubwe.