Ngamnye emva kokuba wonke umntu wayengumntu olungileyo, kodwa kukho into engahambanga kakuhle ... Ngela maxesha ozama ukuyiqonda kwaye uqonde ukuba kutheni ungamthandi umntu. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka nzima, kodwa siya kuza kuhlangulo: i-ferhtit ixhasa imiqondiso ongaziniki.
"Kubonakala kulungile, kodwa ..."
Nje ukuba ubize ngokuba nguMfo "olungileyo" - zonke, lo ngumqondiso obomvu, usengumhlobo. La magama uyichaza ngokwakho ukuba indoda ayithandeki kuwe ngokwasemzimbeni. Nakuphi na ubudlelwane busekwe kwiimvakalelo ngaphambi kokuba uqaphele ukwamkela iqabane lakho kwaye uyayithanda ngengqondo. Ke oko akunangqondo ukuzikhohlisa, nokuba indoda ilungele zonke iiparamitha, "ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana umntu ofanelekileyo.
Nakuphi na ubudlelwane busekwe kwiimvakalelo ngaphambi kokuba uqaphele ukuba iqabane lakho elinokubakho kwaye lithande ubuchopho bayo.
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"Awungekatyhileka"
Ngomntu olungileyo uya kuba kumaza afanayo ukusuka kumhla wokuqala: Uyakuvuyela ukuchitha ixesha naye kwaye uthethe iiyure. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ekuqaleni kwasekuqaleni kwendlela - kakhulu kwabo bafuna ukuxoxa ngenjongo yokuqonda umbono wakhe ngemicimbi eyahlukeneyo. Kwaye ukuba umnqweno onjalo awuveli okanye ukunqunyulwa okungathandekiyo kuvela phakathi kwakho, ngokuqinisekileyo lixesha lokuba uyeke ukunxibelelana. Udinga indoda eqinisekileyo eyaziyo ixabiso lakhe kwaye iyayazi indlela yokuzihambisa, silinde de umntu olandelayo angavulelwa iiveki ezimbalwa-ngokucacileyo ayilulo ukhetho.
"Kulindeleke ukuba ndimbone kancinci."
Izikolo zentlalo kunye nezicelo zetikiti zihlala zenza inkohliso malunga nembonakalo, imeko yentlalo, imfundo kunye nezinye iimpawu zobuntu. Ukwenza iprofayili egqibeleleyo, hayi umntu ogqibeleleyo unokuza ngomhla. Kule meko, musa ukoyika ukwala umntu kwaye uzame kwakhona, emva kokuba kuzalisekile nalo mfo. Ukuba ukukhula kubalulekile kuwe, yifunde, kodwa malunga nemoto, indlu kunye nezinye izinto eziza kuzibuza azifanelanga: uya kuqonda ngexesha lokuncokola naye ngomhla.
Nomntu ofanelekileyo uya kuba kwicala elinye ukusuka kumhla wokuqala
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Ungaze ubambelele ebantwini. Endaweni yomfana apho kuya kubakho ishumi, ilunge ngakumbi kunaye. Ke ngoko, xelela abantu ngokunyaniseka ngeemvakalelo zabo kwaye musa ukuchitha ixesha abo bangenabo ikamva labo.