Mbere, mu Burusiya, kugeza ku babyeyi bahoraga mu gihe bahisemo gutangiza umwana wa mbere nyuma yimyaka makumyabiri n'itanu, bahagaritse ijambo ribi "kurambirwa". Uyu munsi birasa nkaho bisekeje. Hariho impengamiro yo mwisi: abagore benshi kandi benshi batanga inda nyuma, bashaka gukora umwuga mbere, bikaba mu mwuga. Mu byamamare by'urugero rwa Tom, Halley Berry, Jennifer Lopez, Madonna, Meraya Carey, Marianna Carey, Marianna Carey, Marianna Mogilevskaya. Oga Melesh na we yahise avuga ko azabyara kuri mirongo itatu n'itanu, kandi yibeshye mu mwaka umwe. Byaragaragaye ko umwanya nkuwo ufite ibyiza byinshi: uburambe bwubuzima bweguwe, amarangamutima nshaka gusangira, ibyifuzo byacu byashyizwe mubikorwa kandi hari amahirwe yo kwita cyane ku mwana. Muri rusange, tureba Olga ituje kandi yishimye, twishimiye umuryango we.
Ababyeyi bato babivuga, nyuma yo kuvuka k'umwana, impinduka zabo ku isi, zitangira kuzenguruka umugabo muto. Ibi ni ukuri?
Orga Poleti: "Oya, iyi ntabwo inkuru yanjye. Muz atwemerera gukomeza kwishimira ubuzima, ariko ubu, hamwe na we. Nkunze kugira ibyiyumvo ko atari umwaka wambere natwe: ni byoroshye kandi bisanzwe yinjira mumuryango wacu. Sinzi, nk'uko bikwiye koherezwa ku mwana w'iryoshye, uryama mutatuje nijoro, ntamva, urye ibintu byose byatanzwe, no kumwenyura igihe cyose. Igihe nari ntwite, abakunzi banje babwiwe, birumvikana ko: "Ishimire iminsi yanyuma, mbere yimyaka cumi n'umunani yimpungenge zikomeye." Ariko sinshobora kuvuga ko ibintu byose byahindutse kumutwe, sibyo rwose. Birashoboka, niba ubyaye mumyaka makumyabiri, hari ukuntu bitera ubwoba, kandi ubuzima bumvira cyane uyu mugabo muto. Ariko kuri njye, umuryango wanjye, inzu yahoraga yibanze, none hariho Ibyahishuwe ko ari ngombwa kubaho ubwacu. Undi munyamuryango wumuryango, twishimiye cyane kandi ninde utadutera imbere rwose. Twe, nka mbere, dukomeje gukora cyane, ntiwibagirwe kuruhuka, kujya gusura. Kandi icyarimwe ntabwo bigeze bahindukirira bagenzi babo. Byongeye kandi, ntabwo duteganya gutangira umubyambi. Ntekereza ko nzabikemura kugeza mumwaka, hanyuma tuzareba. Gusa ndashaka gusobanukirwa igikundiro cyose cyababyeyi kandi ndebe intambwe yambere yumwana. Guseka bwa mbere, amenyo yambere, intambwe yambere. "
Wowe na Alexey bafite imyaka cumi n'itandatu. Noneho fungura ikintu gishya mumugabo wawe ukunda?
Olga: "Gusa ibyo nakeka byose byemejwe ko Alexey yaba Data mwiza. Amara umwanya munini numukobwa we. Kandi ukina, kandi aririmba, kandi ibisigo byasomye, ndetse byerekana bimwe mubisigisigi. Ndavuga nti: "Mana yanjye! Kuva akiri muto wigisha umwana kuri iPad. " Nibyo, birumvikana ko birashimishije kuri we: imbere yumuntu wababajwe, papa yicaye ikintu. (Aseka.) Ariko nyamara, alexey arakorwa neza. Inshuti zanjye zirashimwa rwose. Nagiye mu rugendo rw'akazi muri Prague iminsi ibiri, Alexey agumana na muse. Namubajije inshuro makumyabiri: "Nta gushidikanya ko ushaka ko mama aze?" Arabasubiza ati: "Uyu ni umukobwa wanjye, sinshobora guhamagara, sinasabye ubufasha . Nabajije abantu bose ati: "Muse mu muse wasigaye nde?" Kandi yo kugaragariza ko na papa, yagaragarije umuyaga. Ndashobora rwose gushingira umukobwa wanjye Alexey, azi byose. Nubwo hari ibiganiro byambere, baravuga bati: Sinzahindura diaper. Ariko nta kintu na kimwe cyahoze. "
Buri gihe wavuze ko kashe yo muri pasiporo idakunda rwose kuri wewe, nyamara ubu ishyingiranwa ryanditswe. Kubera umukobwa wanjye?
Olga: "Oya. Kubera impapuro imwe ya bureaucratique, ikenewe byihutirwa gutanga umutungo utimukanwa. Ntabwo dukora neza iki gikorwa, ubukwe ntibuzaba izo nteganya vuba. Reka dutegereze kugeza umukobwa yagiye gutembera kugirango akwirakwize amavuta ya Roya imbere ya mama na papa mubukwe bwabo. (Aseka.) Imyifatire yanjye yo gushyingirwa ntabwo yahindutse: Hariho ibyiyumvo, urukundo nyarwo, kandi hari impapuro, zishobora gutumwa gutandukana. "
Ati: "Intera y'ishuri ryigihe gito muburyo bwumuntu ni kuva na mirongo itatu kugeza kuri mirongo ine kugeza kuri mirongo ine. Igihe yari akiri muto n'umubiri, n'ubugingo, ariko icyarimwe ufite uburambe bwubuzima bwubuzima. " Ifoto: Vladimir Chistyakov.
Uracyambara izina ryizina?
Olga: "Yego."
Uratekereza iki kubagore babyara nyuma ya mirongo itatu na gatanu, mugihugu cyacu baracyari imyifatire idasanzwe?
Olga: "Ahari yego! Abantu bihutira kubaho no gukora umubare munini wamakosa. Harimo muburere bwabana bavutse hakiri kare. Ababyeyi benshi bakiri bato bahinduka psychologisi ntabwo yiteguye kubwibi. Abana bimurirwa mu maboko ya ba nyirakuru na Nanny cyangwa bagomba gusiga akazi bakarera umwana. Hanyuma abakobwa bajanjagura ko badafite umwanya wo kubaka umwuga, kandi ushinganya abana. Twiyemeje ubwanjye igihe kirekire kubwanjye ko dushaka kwibonera neza ubu buzima, gukora, ingendo, kwinezeza. Kandi mugihe ibi byose bimaze bihagije: Hano hari ameza, hamwe ninzu, nubunararibonye bwubuzima - urashobora kandi kubyara abana. Ariko societe iragutekereza. Igitekerezo cyiganje ko niba nyuma yimyaka mirongo itatu, umuntu ntiyabonye urubyaro, ikintu kibi kuri we. Kubwamahirwe, stereotypes ubuzima bwangiza cyane, ariko ndagerageza kubikemura. "
Muri imwe muri gahunda "umukobwa" urwanira abagore cyane. Igitekerezo cyahindutse kubyara umwana?
Olga: "Ndacyakurikiza umwanya umugore afite uburenganzira bwo guhitamo inzira yo kubishyira mu bikorwa. Gusa bamwe babona gahunda yabo mububyeyi, abandi mubucuruzi, abandi - muguhanga. Ntibikenewe ko twamagana no gutobora kutagira abana. Reka bibe byiza ko bitazaba icyemezo gifatika cyo kutigirirwa mu gitekerezo cy'abaturage kuruta guhinga umwana udakunzwe uzakura afite amato akomeye, azangiza rwose ubuzima bw'umuntu. "
Imyifatire yawe yahinduye guhitamo imishinga ya tereviziyo ijyanye no kuvuka k'umukobwa?
Olga: "Oya, ndacyakora ibyo twari twose. Ariko birasekeje ko gahunda z'abana zatangiye kugaragara. Kurugero, umukino "unyumva" wamenyekanye cyane: amashuri hirya no hino mugihugu kugirango amakipe yabo kuri TV. Birasekeje kuba nagize amahirwe yo kuba gahunda yambere, na njye ubwanjye narebye ku ishuri ubwanjye. Noneho arazukwa arampamagara. Birashimishije. Mu gikarito "NYAKURI" Njyeye Umuyoboro usekeje witaga bunny, kandi mu "gihe cya Ice" - Mamomothich. Ku nkombe yanjye rero hari disiki nyinshi hamwe n'amakarito nzerekana umusozi iyo akurira gato. "
Gahunda yawe mashya ya tereviziyo "iranyumva" Yakwigishije kubona ururimi rusanzwe hamwe nabana?
Olga: "Yanyigishije kumva neza ibibera muri iyi si yabana - ko bibaza imikino bakina, ibyo ibitabo bisomwa. N'ubundi kandi, abana ba none batandukanye cyane natwe muri iyo myaka! Turimo tuvugana numukobwa wimyaka cumi nine kandi usobanukiwe ko atekereza ko akuze. Uyu usanzwe umukobwa ushyira amafoto ye mu ikositimu yo kwiyuhagira mumiyoboro rusange. Abana bafite interineti, bagenda byinshi, bahatirwa guteza imbere amakuru menshi. Bamaze kuba badasanzwe ko barebye. Vuba aha, nagize umukobwa w'imyaka irindwi y'inshuti zanjye. Namushyize mu makuba 33 "- Umugani mwiza na Jim Carey mu nshingano za. Nanjye ndicara kureba, kuko filime ishimishije cyane, ariko nyuma yiminota icumi nyuma yuko umukobwa atera neza. Ndabaza nti: "Uri mwiza" gushyira mu guhindura abahindura? "Arasubiza ati:" Yego. " Ibi byose "gusura umugani" Ntabwo bashishikajwe, kurambirwa! Iki gisekuru kiratandukanye rwose, bafite ubundi buryo bwo kwiyumvisha, impumuro, ijwi. Nakuyeho gahunda imwe muri iPhone - Hano hari umuziki mwiza, igituba cyera kiraturika, kandi ntugacire intege muri ecran. Ndasaba muganga: "Byangiza umwana?" Arasubiza ati: "Abana ba none baratandukanye. Iyo nyoko agukuguriye mu maboko, yari umusenya wa monofunite kwiyambika kuri yo, hamwe na t-shiti nziza kuri wewe. Twari dufite amabara icumi ya Guashi, kandi bafite pigiseli ibihumbi makumyabiri na bitanu muri ipad. Aba ni abantu batandukanye rwose. " Muri imwe mu mashuri y'Abanyamerika, twahisemo guhagarika pass - nk'ibidakenewe. Kandi ntidusanzwe twandika ku kuboko, kandi abana tukarya duhora twicara muri mudasobwa. Abaturage batangiye kurakara: baravuga bati: Nigute, kwiyandikisha bitera moto nto! Kandi mubyukuri, abana ba none basanzwe batekereza nibindi bice byubwonko. Inama rero ifite ibisekuru bishya bitera imbaraga, sinshaka gutinda. "
Ati: "Ndacyakurikiza umwanya umugore afite uburenganzira bwo guhitamo inzira yo kuyishyira mu bikorwa. Gusa bamwe babona gahunda yabo mububyeyi, abandi mubucuruzi, icya gatatu - mubuhanga. " Ifoto: Vladimir Chistyakov.
Biragaragara, mu makimbirane ya ba se n'abana ba priori ry'abana beza, kuko ibintu bigezweho bumva neza?
Olga: "Birumvikana ko tubigisha mu munara wazo. Ariko nkuko uburambe bwubuzima, imigenzo n'umuco byanduzwa. Umugabo ashyira muse ibihimbano bya elegitoroniki bigezweho, kandi barabikunda cyane. Kandi ndirimbiye "amato ye yera" n '"indirimbo yerekeye mamont" - izi ndirimbo z'ubwana bwanjye, narakuze kuri bo kandi, natinyutse ku byiringiro, umuntu mwiza, bityo inkuru yanjye izahinduka mu nkuru ye. Ubunararibonye bwanjye nibimwe mubintu bye. Ngiyo ihuza ibisekuru. "
Woba uri rigor cyangwa kwiyoroka mu kurera?
Olga: "Kubwurukundo. Kuri njye mbona umwana azumva, azagusubiza kimwe. Kandi byihuse bizamenya icyo bishoboka, kandi ntibyabishobora, kuko nzabyumva: mama ashaka ibyiza. Ariko ibi biracyari imyanzuro yanjye yo kwibeshya. Ninde uzi iyi mico izaba umukobwa wacu? Ariko sinshaka gutondagura. Uhereye kuruhande birasa neza: Ndashaka ifarashi - Hano hari ifarashi, ndashaka imodoka - kumodoka. Uyu munsi ni ikintu kimwe, ejo kiratandukanye. Hagomba kubaho uburinganire. "
Ni izihe inama mu bijyanye n'uburezi wumva?
Olga: "Ntabwo ari bo. Kandi simbihaye ubwanjye. Kuri njye mbona ibintu byose ari umuntu ku giti cye: ayo mahame yuburezi "akora" hamwe numwana umwe ntabwo akoreshwa mubindi. No mugihe utwite, mugihe ubusanzwe abantu bose bicaye ku huriro kandi bashishikaye bakubita ibintu by'undi muntu, sinabikoze. N'incuti ze zose, abakobwa bakobwa, Mama yavuze ko byishimiye ko bakwitaho, ariko niba nkeneye inama, nziza. "
OKGA, kandi bikabije, yagumye mubuzima bwawe?
Olga: "Yego yego! Umuntu wese arota icyi, nanjye - nko mu gihe cy'itumba, iyo tujya ku misozi! Kubera gutwita no kuvuka kwa Muse, nagombaga gusimbuka igihe bibiri (!) Ariko uyu mwaka nzahagera. Umugabo yamaze kwizera igihe Muse afite imyaka itatu. Buri munsi byerekana amashusho mashya: "Reba, iyi ifite imyaka itatu gusa, kandi yamaze gutwara urubura. Reba, uyu mugabo afite imyaka ibiri nigice gusa, kandi ihagaze ku buyobozi. " Nzumva rero, muse uzaba umwana wa mbere uzagwa ku rubura ku mwaka n'amezi abiri. "
Ati: "Sinzi igishishwa natweherejwe n'umwana nk'uwo mwiza, uryama nijoro, ntamva, arya ibyo atanga, akamwenyura byose." Ifoto: Instagram.com (@olgashes).
Urashaka ibi?
Olga: "Ndashaka kumenya indimi z'amahanga, zateye imbere ku mubiri. Niba tubonye impano zimwe, tuzakora muri iki cyerekezo. Njye mbona ku buryo mu bwana bidakwiye gupakira umwana, tugomba kumuha amahirwe yo kwiyongera atuje. "
Kuki wanditse kubyerekeye guhuza ibisekuruza, nigute ubona imyaka yawe?
Olga: "Birakomeye! Nizera ko iyi ari yo intera nini cyane mu buzima bw'umuntu - kuva kuri mirongo itatu kugeza kuri mirongo ine kugeza kuri mirongo ine. Iyo umuto nu mubiri, nubugingo, ariko icyarimwe ufite uburambe bwubuzima bwubuzima. Wowe ufata ibyemezo kandi ntukatinye gukora amakosa, kuko ibintu byinshi byasaga kandi uzi uko ibintu bimeze. Ndi mwiza! Nibyiza, nyuma ya mirongo ine, nkuko babivuze, ubuzima buratangira. Njye rero ndi mu ntege nke! "
Kandi ukurikije imyenda ikintu cyahindutse? Reka wambare amajipo magufi?
Olga: "Oya, nibyo ntashobora kubyumva na gato. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, ugomba kumenya imyaka ufite, nubwo amaguru yawe yari akomeye. Ku mucanga - nyamuneka. Ariko ahantu hisigaye, mubitekerezo byanjye, birasa nabi. Ntabwo ndi ikuzimu na gato, ariko iyo mbonye Julia Roberts kuri Waltsway itukura mu mwenda hejuru yikibero, ndamuteye nabi. Kandi nyuma yamaguru ye yose birakonje, ariko isura imaze kuba umugore ukuze. Uku gutesha umutwe. Cyangwa abagore bamwe bakuze bambara t-shati hamwe na mickey imbeba cyangwa infatiro zisekeje. Nibyiza, iyo biracyashoboka kugabanya ibiro, ariko burimunsi uva munzu, ukina mu nyero hamwe nubwenge ugeze mu za bukuru, ni byinshi cyane kubwumva. "
Ahari iki nikibazo cyimyaka yo hagati?
Olga: "Birashoboka ko yego. N'ubundi kandi, sosiyete yemera ko bimaze gukenera ikintu kuri ubu buzima. Kubaka inzu, utere igiti, urerere umuhungu. Niba kandi hari ikintu kiva muri gahunda kidasohozwa, umuntu atangira guhagarika umutima, ndetse no mu bwana, agerageza gukurura isaha ya X. Ibyiringiro bimwe byabaye impamo, ntabwo byabaye impamo, kandi urubyiruko rugenda - bityo kwiheba. Kandi mu byiringiro byo gufata iyi romoruki iheruka mu rubyiruko rusohoka, abantu batsimbaraye muri rusange. Guta abagore, ubwato bwa nyirabuja cyangwa kugenda kugirango ubeho ku ihema. "
"Ibyo umugore adakunda kwambara!" Ifoto: Instagram.com (@olgashes).
Kuba muto - imyambarire. Turashaka kubona urubyiruko kuri ecran, kandi benshi bariteguye kuri ibi ndetse no kubeshya munsi yicyuma cyabaga.
Olga: "Iyi nzira yagaragaye muri Amerika: Ibimenyetso byinshi by'ibikorwa bya plastike mu maso hawe, hejuru imibereho. Urasetsa iki? Kuzamuka kuri plastike - umunezero uhenze, ntabwo abantu bose babishoboye. Niba kandi ushobora kubona ko umuntu yakoze isura, yarundaga uruhanga rwe, arohereza iminwa, "afite n'amafaranga. Birumvikana ko bitumvikana. Ndi bose basunika umukobwa wumukobwa ukuze Rita Mitrofanov: "Genda, kora ikintu nagize urugero ruzima imbere yanjye. N'ubundi kandi, bidatinze nzabigira byose. " Rimwe na rimwe urabona ko uwo muntu yakoresheje inzira imwe n'imwe, yatangiye kugaragara neza, ari muto, ariko ibitabyoroheye, ariko ntibyoroshye? Byongeye kandi, ntabwo abantu bose bemera ko basuye cosmetologiste, akenshi wumva usubiza: "Naruhutse muri resitora!" Kunera, mu myaka icumi bazafatwa n'efivithon y'umuntu utasuye Uwiteka kubaga. By the way, Rita ni urugero rwiza, uburyo bwo gusa nkubuto mumyaka mirongo ine n'ine. Ni we gusa mu bugingo bw'urutare no kuzica, kandi iyi nyota y'ubuzima bwishimye intera umunezero. "
Wowe, nukuvuga, umugore mwiza cyane kandi ushobora kwihagararaho nkubwiza nyaburanga. Ariko umva isura yawe ituje.
Olga: "Muri rusange, yego. Ariko buri gihe nemera gushimwa nisoni za aderesi yawe. "Amaso manini n'umusatsi mwiza" nampaye ibidukikije, nta shingiro ryanjye rihari. Birashimishije cyane iyo bakoze ishimwe kubintu byanjye bikaze cyangwa imyumvire myiza yo gusetsa. Kuri njye, isura niyitwa kabiri. Noneho, ni nde wo kwerekana ubwito bwanjye? "
Nibyiza, ibitekerezo byumugabo ni byiza, birashoboka?
Olga: "Nibyo, mbere, mfite umugabo, ibitekerezo bye birahagije kuri njye. Icya kabiri, nkikijwe nabagabo kuva mugitondo kugeza nijoro. Birumvikana ko bakwirakwiza ishimwe, ariko ndabona ko batuje, bitabaye ibyo abasore muri rusange "ntibazagenda."
Ariko nyamara, wambaye wishimiye kwambara imyenda ya nimugoroba kugirango turasa?
Olga: "Uyu ni akazi kanjye. Hanyuma, uwo mugore udakunda kwambara! Ndibuka ko hari ukuntu twazamuye ingingo mu "bakobwa" ibyo umugore agomba kugenda murugo. Byose nkuko umuntu yabibwiye ati: "Nta bwozi n'ubworozi bw'umusatsi! Ni ngombwa gukangura umugabo muto muto ugakora vuba marafe kugirango nkubone mubwiza bwayo bwose. " Ariko mfite igitekerezo cyanjye kuri ibi. Ntaha mu gicuku, kanguka iminota itanu - kuri njye ntacyo guhera. Murugo nambara ibyo byoroshye: rimwe na rimwe nambaraga kuri Bathibe, rimwe na rimwe jeans, ishati. Ariko umugabo wanjye abona ibintu byiza nsize akazi - hamwe na maquillage, gushushanya no mumyambarire myiza. Hanyuma usubize kimwe, hamwe na parade yuzuye, nimugoroba. Nibyiza, kandi niba aribyo, noneho nshobora kujya muri weekend yanjye yemewe kugirango yirinde imyitozo nkunda?! "