Abagore benshi barota umugabo ushobora kurinda ibibazo byose. Benshi bahura na mugenzi wawe, ariko hariho amahirwe ko umugabo wawe agerageza kukugenzura, yihishe inyuma yicyifuzo cyo kukurinda. Tuzavuga, ni ibihe bimenyetso bizatanga kugirango twumve aho impungenge zirangirira no kugenzura.
Umugabo avuga mu buryo butaziguye ko azayoboka mu mibanire
Emeranya ku mibanire hamwe no kwishyiriraho ni ikosa rikomeye. Umugabo ukimara gutangaza - "Uzabishaka, cyangwa nta na kimwe!" - Ikora nk'ikimenyetso cyo kwiruka mu mibanire. Niba utinyutse kutumvira umuntu w'umunyambaraga, uzahanwa, nubwo atari umubiri, ariko ndetse wirengagije mugice cye bizagutera ububabare. Ukeneye?
Izi byose kuri byose
Hamwe numuntu utazi igitekerezo icyo ari cyo cyose, usibye umubano we - iyicarubozo nyaryo. Azakwemeza ko utumva ubuhanzi, ukigishe abana, utazi gukurikirana, nibindi. Inzitizi zawe zizobiyobora gusa mu gishishwa, bazakurikira ingwate cyangwa urwenya rw'uburinganire, bafunga icyubahiro cyawe. Menya umugabo wawe? Tekereza aho umubano nk'uwo uzakuyobora.
ManicUlator izahora ibona ko ari nziza kukurusha.
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Gusa afata icyemezo mugihe n'aho uzakora imibonano mpuzabitsina
Birumvikana ko gahunda ari nziza, ariko mugihe idatsinze urwego rwemewe. Imibonano mpuzabitsina - icyifuzo, umugabo nta burenganzira afite bwo gukemura wenyine igihe n'aho uzashora ishyaka. Byongeye kandi, ManicUlator izakwemeza ko "umugore nyawe" agomba guhora yiteguye kandi ahantu hose, ntukishuke ku bushotoranyi!
Uhuza na
Urashobora gusa nkaho ugiye kumvikana kugirango umukunzi wawe yishimye, ariko, mubyukuri, urashimangira gusa kwizera kwe kuba uri mu gutanga umugabo wuzuye. Arashobora gutangirana nibintu bito: Azashimangira ko waguze ikoti nakunze, ntagukunda, ariko yumva ari intwari, kuko yari yarahisemo, kandi azarangizwa nuko inyungu zawe zose zizaba munsi ye. Uriteguye kubaho muyoboka?
Yizera ko ugomba guhora witeguye gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina kubyo yamusabye.
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