Impamvu zituma umwana adafite umwanya mwishuri arashobora kuba byinshi. Ni ngombwa kubyumva no gufata ingamba zo gukora umwana ukunda kwiga neza.
imwe. Urwego rudahagije rwubumenyi bwibanze. Umwana yahoraga asubira inyuma yisomo, kandi ashaje arahinduka, ibindi bibazo nibibazo bye bivuka. Biroroshye gukemura iki kibazo: Niba usobanukiwe ko indero zimwe zidahabwa urubyaro rwawe, urashobora kurekura uko ibintu bimeze, urashobora kwemera ko umwana wawe atari "umubiri" cyangwa, atari "amagambo" cyangwa akazi " Umurezi, uzafasha gufata umurizo no mugihe kizaza kugirango abone amanota asanzwe hejuru ya oge cyangwa ege, niba iki kintu ari ngombwa kugirango yinjire muri kaminuza yatowe numwana wawe.
2. Umwana Trite ntashaka kwiga. Umwana mukuru arahinduka, ibyiza byumva ko ibintu byinshi bitazamugirira akamaro muri ubu buzima. Kandi abajijwe mu buryo bushyize mu gaciro, baravuga bati: "Kuki byose? Nigute ashobora kuza mubintu mubuzima ubwo bumenyi agera ku ishuri, kuko afite ubwenge! Muri iki gihe, urashobora rwose kwibanda ku mwirondoro wawe watoranijwe kandi, kugirango ubishyire mu bwitonzi, "amanota" kugirango adashimishijwe.
3. Uruhinja urarambiwe. Nibyo, kureba kuri televiziyo no kwicara mubikoresho bifite amakuru kandi birashimishije kuruta gusura amasomo yishuri. Gerageza guhitamo amagambo ashishikariza umuvandimwe wawe kugirango abone ubumenyi. Nibyo, birashimishije cyane kumara umwanya kuri enterineti, ariko, ikibabaje, abakuze bagomba gukora kugirango bishyure interineti nibindi byishimisha. Kandi kuri iki kibazo, uburezi bugira uruhare runini. Niba umwana adafite umwanya, amara umwanya munini muri mudasobwa igendanwa, biratinda gusinzira, ushobora gukenera kugabanya imikoreshereze y'ibikoresho, ushobora kugabanya gahunda idasanzwe ikurikirana kandi, birumvikana ko ikurikirana imbuga kandi, birumvikana ko yashyizeho Uburyo. Amaherezo, ababyeyi hano, bivuze ko nawe ushyiraho amategeko yo gucumbika.
Olga Romaman
Kanda ibikoresho bya serivisi
Urukundo rwa mbere rurashobora kandi kuba impamvu yo kunanirwa gutunguranye. Ntamuntu ufite ubwishingizi bwo kwirinda kunanirwa mu rukundo, cyane cyane mubana. Ariko birakenewe kwerekeza ku ishyaka rya mbere ryumwana wawe no gusobanukirwa. Niba kandi umwana yarakinguye, menya neza ko ushyigikira Ijambo rye n'umurimo we.
Kugabanuka gukabije mubikorwa byamasomo birashobora kubahirizwa na rebertat. Imyaka yingimbi - Igihe cyo guhinduka, kandi ntabwo buri gihe hamwe nikimenyetso "wongeyeho". Abana bafite amatsinda yo kugaragariza isura yabo muriki gihe: Umuntu yari afite ibishishwa, umuntu yakize, umuntu yakuze mu gituza cyizuba, kandi umuntu yagumye afite ubunini bwa zeru. Ntureke ngo izo zingavu zo mu ingimbi kuri Samonek: ntabwo ari abana bavuga, muganire, muganire, hazarebana TV, aho hazamurwa na TV, aho hazamurwa na TV, aho hazamurwa ibipimo byubwiza byazamuwe niyabangavu benshi bari kure. Vugana n'insanganyamatsiko yo Kugaragara, komeza umwana, ufashe kandi ugire ibyiringiro mu ngabo ze. Wibuke ko kwiga kwishuri, gutegura ibizamini byumwaka, kwiyegurira oge na ege - ibintu byimihangayiko kumwana uwo ari we wese. Kubwibyo, rwose ntibikwiye kongera umusaruro nubunararibonye bwayo kubyerekeye iherezo ryabahawe impamyabumenyi. Ntibikenewe gusunika uko ibintu bimeze - kuvuga kubyerekeye umwuga wa Janator kandi ukatera ubwoba ko niba atazagera aho, bagomba gushyira umusaraba mubuzima bwabo. Ntugomba! Uracyatekereza kubintu runaka. Mubihe bitesha umutwe, umwangavu ntigomba gusa gusezerana no gutegurwa gusa, ahubwo yanakiriye ubwoko runaka bwo gusohora: ni ukuvuga kuruhuka, kuvugana n'inshuti, kugira ibyo ukunda.
Umwana yimukiye mu ishuri rishya. Birateye ubwoba rwose - hafi ubuzima bushya butangira, kandi, byumvikane, umwana rimwe na rimwe ashaka kwihisha byose. Birumvikana ko ikintu cya mbere gishobora kwangirika. Niki? Shigikira umwana wawe mu ijambo n'urubanza. Wibuke ko umuntu uwo ari we wese, cyane cyane umwana, akenera umwanya wo kumenyera ahantu hashya no kugorora amababa yawe. Igikorwa cyawe kiroroshye - gutanga amahirwe ntarengwa yo kwiga neza: Gutegura imiterere, witondere microclimate mu nzu, ntukitondere gukora gusa, ahubwo witondere gukora, gutora hamwe na we guhitamo umwuga. Niba uzi ko umwana "ucumbagira" ibintu bimwe bizakenewe muburyo bwa none, bivuze, tekereza kubijyanye ninyongera numurezi. Ubu ni ubufasha bunoze kuruta guhagarika ubwonko no gusobanuka, kuki ukeneye kwiga.
Ikintu cy'ingenzi, Ntugahatire umwana kwiga, kuko urugomo nuburyo bubi bwo gushimisha umwana ikintu runaka . Kamere yumuntu irateguwe kuburyo ibintu byose bishyirwaho bitwawe kandi biganwa numubiri. Gusa kumva ikintu kidashimishije. Byiza guha umwana kubanza gusobanukirwa ko kwishuri amenya byinshi bishya kandi bishimishije, umwumve mugihe ashaka ko habaho ikintu cyo gusangira nawe, ntukagire icyo ashaka (nibimenyetso bibi - ibi ni ubusa), gisingize ibyagezweho , Ntukamukorere umukoro, wige kuba nyirabayazana kubikorwa byawe no kwiga, ntugereranye nabandi bana, urinde mugihe haribibazo biva mubiya bibi. Umwana akeneye gusobanukirwa kwawe, urukundo n'inkunga, ntabwo aribitarenze buri munsi. Icyo gihe ntibizaba ngombwa kwigira. Kandi shaka ibyo akunda: Kwiga Kwiga, kandi duhitamo inzira yubuzima kubera ibyo dukunda.