Nukuri wowe cyangwa umuntu winshuti zawe byibuze rimwe mubuzima bwawe wahuye nibiganiro kuri wewe, ariko utabigizemo uruhare. Nk'itegeko, amazimwe avuka kandi agabazwa mu ikipe ikora, ariko mu bihe bidasanzwe bitwaje ibyangiritse ku gikorwa. Niba hari kumva impagarara, bitera imbere kugirango bidashoboka gusohoza byimazeyo inshingano zayo, hagomba gufatwa. Twahisemo kumenya aho amazimwe yakuweho kandi icyo gukora kugirango ahagarike ibiganiro bitari ngombwa.
Amazimwe akomoka he?
Byemezwa ko amazimwe "abaho" gusa mu masosiyete y'abagore ashobora gutungurwa nuko itsinda ryabagabo mubyukuri ridatinze mukiganiro bagenzi be. Umuntu yumva ikiganiro, asubiramo ibyumviswe byundi mugenzi we, birumvikana ko inkuru ihinduka ibintu bishya, ntabwo byanze bikunze, nibindi byanze bikunze, nibindi. Emera iyo izi nkuru zikujyanye nawe kandi cyane cyane ntizihura nukuri, birababaje cyane.
Abagabo nabo bakunda kuganira
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Nigute ushobora guhagarika ibiganiro bikabije?
Rugan no gutukwa ntabwo azakemura ikibazo gusa, ahubwo azakongeraho ibibi muri karma - uzashyirwaho inzitizi zo mu kudashyira mu gaciro. Niba uzi ko mugenzi wawe ategereje ibisobanuro birambuye bishobora kuganirwaho nabandi dukorana, reka dukemure amakuru menshi kandi muri rusange, gerageza kutajya mubisobanuro.
Vugana neza na antigator
Na none - nta bitutsi. Fata ikiganiro muburyo butuje, nubwo waba ushaka rwose kwerekana ibyemewe. Baza impamvu umuntu akwirakwiza amakuru adahuye nukuri. Umuntu ahita yiyemerera, ni iki gitera urwango, abandi bakomeje guhagarara kubwibyo niba wafashe amahitamo ya kabiri, umbwire utuje ko uzabigenzura byanze bikunze ko uzagenzura neza amakuru yukuri.
Shakisha abantu batekereza
Niba umuntu uri muri iki kipe yakugiriwe, ibi ntibisobanura ko ibintu byose bishyigikiwe. Tegura umubano nabandi dukorana, birashoboka cyane ko mu ikipe hazaba nibura abantu bake bakwegereye mu mwuka, none kuki utashyira hamwe kurwanya ibitero ndetse no kwerekana ibitero?
Wibande ku kazi
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Garuka ku kazi
Nubwo hari ibibanza, ugomba gukomeza gusohoza inshingano zawe. Amazimwe menshi ashaka ibyo uzagukurikirana kandi ntuzashobora gukorana nuwahoze ari umwete. Ntutange umunezero nk'uwo.
Shira abayobozi
Niba amazimwe atagiye kutagira agamije, kandi urabona ko ibiganiro bitari ngombwa bigira ingaruka ku mikorere yawe, ntugakurura kandi umenyesha imiyoborere. Menya neza ko ikiganiro kimurika n'Umuyobozi kizatanga ibisubizo - Amazimwe azasobanurwa.