Bifatwa ko guhagarara bituma bishoboka gutekereza ku mibanire, utondekanya, humura kandi uhitemo icyo gukora ubutaha. Byemezwa ko intera igaragara neza kubwibyiyumvo cyangwa kubura. Ariko tekereza ku rugero nk'urwo: Ukora mu rugo, umwanda, kurimbuka, cyangwa kuruhuka ntibishoboka, kandi nta kurya guteka. Uhitamo ko barambiwe ibi, bakusanya ibintu bakagenda mu biruhuko, kandi mucyumweru cyagarutse, kandi ubona iki? Umwanda umwe na kurimbuka. Gusana ntibizi gukora wenyine, nkuko umubano utazi kwigarurira. Kubwibyo, nubwo nyuma yo guhagarara mubucuti uhitamo kugwa numufatanyabikorwa, hanyuma usubire neza kubibazo bimwe byatumye ucika. Ntarengwa ibyo washoboye kugera - hafashwe icyemezo gito. None rero byumvikana guhagarara?
Mubyukuri, igihe-cyo hanze kimeze nkindege kuva mubibazo kuruta kubikemura. Cyane niba utandukanye cyane, nyuma yo gutongana cyangwa uburakari. Muri uru rubanza, igihe cyo gutandukana kizakoreshwa kugirango kibe cyiza kandi cyemeza ko bitaye.
Anna Cyc
Guhaguruka bivuye mubibazo mubusabane akenshi bisukwa mu cyuho cyiyi sano. Ariko, benshi ntibatinya cyane kuba icyuho, mbega ingorane nuburambe biherekeza. Igihe cyagenwe muri uru rubanza kirasa neza kandi bisa n'umuti utekanye. Ariko igihe-kirashobora kubonwa na mugenzi wawe neza nkintambwe igana kubyutsa, kandi niyo waba uvugurura umubano nyuma yo guhagarara, kumva ibyo waguhemukiyeho, biragoye cyane kwibagirwa.
Niki ugomba gukora niba ushaka gufata agace? Niba urambiwe ibibazo, turambiwe kubona umubano kandi ukenewe gusa kumubiri no kwigana umwanya, urashobora gufata igihe cyagenwe "kugirango ufate igihe gito cyo kugenda kugirango ugende iminsi ibiri, kuri a Urugendo rwakazi, gusura inshuti mu wundi mujyi, n'ibindi.. Ubu buryo butuma bishoboka guhindura umwuka, tekereza ku bihe biriho, gukonje no kugaruka ufite imbaraga n'ibitekerezo bishya. Haba gukomeza umubano, cyangwa kubavamo. Mugihe kimwe, ntabwo ushyira umukunzi mubikorwa bidasobanutse yo gutandukana by'agateganyo.
Umubano ni imikoranire. Nta mikoranire - nta sano. Niba uha agaciro umubano, uhaze umukunzi wawe, mutagice neza, kandi ushake amahirwe mashya yo gukorana, wigenga cyangwa ubifashijwemo ninzobere.