Ntakintu kibi, mugihe imbere yumugoroba wawe numukunzi wawe, ijwi ryimbere ritangira umuyaga: "Mumeze biteye ubwoba nta myenda," "birashoboka ko abona ibimenyetso bishya?" Muhaze uko yifuza "na ETC. Abakobwa bakomeye cyane barashobora gufata itariki mu myumvire y'ibyumviro, nubwo mubyukuri umwanya wo guhangayika kandi nta cyo. Nigute ushobora gukuraho umunezero ukomeye mbere yimibonano mpuzabitsina, nubwo waba uzi ibibi byawe bito? Tuzabibwira.
Andika ibibi byose
Ntugasige ibitekerezo mumutwe wawe: Fata urupapuro rwuzuye hanyuma wandike ibintu byose biguhangayikishije kandi ubabaye. Urashobora kwandika ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose. Ikintu cyingenzi muriyi myitozo ya psychologiya nukwandika nkaho wanditse kubyerekeye undi mukobwa, ni ukuvuga mu maso ya gatatu.
Gerageza gushaka impamvu
Nk'itegeko, ibitekerezo bibi kubyerekeye kudatungana kwabo byavutse ku ruhare rw'ibitekerezo rusange. Niba ubonye urwango ubwawe, vuga ko udakunda neza, noneho wibuke uwakubwiye nka, birashoboka cyane, ikibazo cyawe kiva mubyangavu mugihe igitsina gitangiye gukora. Ababyeyi bakunze gutekereza ku mibonano mpuzabitsina umwanda, birabujijwe, bityo rero bibe ibibanza nka: "Abakobwa biyubashye ntibagomba kwishora mu buntu." Niba urwango kumubiri we no gutinya imibonano mpuzabitsina, ndetse numukunzi wawe, ntugutererana, menya neza kuvugana numuhanga uzafasha gukora ikibazo.
Ibintu byose ntabwo biteye ubwoba nkuko ubitekereza
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Shakisha ubwumvikane nawe
Niba ijwi ryimbere rikomeje kukwemeza ko amakosa yawe ari ibitaza, "Sobanura" ubwawe Uwo mubwiza ari igitekerezo cyo kumvikana cyane, kandi no mu makosa ayo ari yo yose yakuyeho gusa. Byongeye kandi, umugabo wawe aragufata nkuko uri, ntabwo yitondera utuntu duto.
Baza mu buryo butaziguye
Nk'ubutegetsi, abashakanye bigizwe no kwiringira umubano birashobora gusangira ubunararibonye. Ntugakoporore ibibi, kugabanya kwihesha agaciro birasa, niba usangiye ibyakubayeho. Ntabwo turenze kwizera ko igisubizo cye kizishimira bidasanzwe.