Mu mibanire ntibyemewe byerekana urugomo urwo arirwo rwose, haba kumubiri na psychologiya. Ariko, igice kinini cyihuta kurwego rumwe cyangwa indi yihanganira ihohoterwa rishingiye kumarangamutima hagati yabo, nta nubwo ubizi. Rero, umuntu abona kunyurwa numubabaro wumufatanyabikorwa. Nigute ushobora kumva ko wasanze mubucuti bwuburozi? Tuzabibwira.
Ufite ubwoba bwo kuvuga ikirenga
Nk'itegeko, muri couple, aho umwe mu bafatanyabikorwa yumva afite imbaraga ku rundi, igitugu cy'abafatanyabikorwa ntabwo gitanga igice cya kabiri kugira ngo kigaragaze igitekerezo cye, nta kunegura kwe. Umufatanyabikorwa wa kabiri ntashaka guhungabanya Halm ye yubuyobozi, rero yemeranya numwanya wa kabiri muri couple. Ni ngombwa kumva ko usibye imvururu z'umuntu, umubano nk'uwo ntuzakuzanira ikintu na kimwe.
Umufatanyabikorwa akoresha uburyo bwuguruye
Umuntu nkuwo azakwemeza ko amagambo yawe adafitanye isano nukuri, wasaga nkuwanjye kandi muri rusange - ntabwo yabivuze. Nyuma yigihe, uzatangira kwemeranya namakuru agoretse kurutonde rwawe, nkuko ibikorwa byayo bigamije hepfo kuruta kwihesha agaciro. Urashobora kwishimira umubano nk'uwo? Turashidikanya.
Ntukihanganire agasuzuguro
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Umufatanyabikorwa agenzura ubuzima bwawe
Mu mibanire y'uburozi, umufatanyabikorwa ntazakwemerera kwishimira umwanya wawe - uzabibona gusa. Abanyamakuru bawe bose hamwe ninshuti, inyuguti za imeri zizigwa neza, ntuzigera ubimenya. Niba ushaka kumarana umwanya numukobwa muri cafe, umukunzi wuburozi azakora byose kugirango asenye inama yawe - kuva ku guhamagara buri mutozo wiminota makumyabiri hanyuma urangirira kandi ssewande ikomeye iyo ugarutse murugo. Abusser ntabwo yihanganira kutumvira.
Umukunzi asobanura ibitutsi kuri urwenya
Umugabo azi ahantu "irwaye" yawe neza, rimwe na rimwe umukunzi wawe azaba adashimishijwe ". Niba imyitwarire nkiyi yumuntu ukunda irakomeje nigitekerezo cyawe, kandi utangira kubona byinshi kandi utamerewe neza, tekereza niba bikwiye kumarana "urukundo" nkurwo "rukundo"?