Kubwimpamvu runaka, muri societe ya none, kuba hari umwana wumwe mumuryango. Niba hari umwana umwe gusa mumuryango wawe, birashoboka ko wigeze wumva inama za bene wanyu no kumenyera Dobrochotov: "Cyangwa birashoboka ko ufite undi mwana gutangira", "niki? ikintu? " - Kandi byose muri roho. Batangira gutera ubwoba ibyo, baravuga bati: "Umwana w'imyaka myinshi azakura, azakubona ku ijosi ry'umubare mwiza w'imyaka.
Nubwo wowe ubwawe wakuriye mumuryango hamwe numwana wumwe, ntabwo byoroshye kwihanganira ibitekerezo rusange. Utangiye guhangayika, kandi gitunguranye ni byiza kandi mubyukuri umwana azakura muburyo runaka. Reka dukemure hamwe niba iyi "turo turota" rushobora kubaho.
Ikinyoma # 1. Umwana wenyine wangiritse
Ubu bwoba bufite ishingiro, kuko iyo umwana ari umwe gusa, ibyifuzo byose bimwishura. Ababyeyi ntibazagurwa kubutunzi, igihe cyabo cyose kimuha. Ariko, kubantu b'abaseribateri kandi basaba hejuru, kubera ko ari yo yizere byonyine z'umuryango. Itangira "byoroshye" no gusaba byinshi.
Ubuhanga bwimibereho ntabwo biterwa no kuba hari abavandimwe na bashiki bacu
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Birashoboka cyane, wumvise ibya sisitemu yubushinwa, aho umuryango wemerewe kugira umwana umwe gusa. Kugeza ku myaka itanu, umwana afite umudendezo wo gukora ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, ariko rero ategereje kumvikanisha akaze, ababyeyi bo mu Burengerazuba bashobora kuba batiteguye. Turashimira ubu buryo, tuzi abashinwa nkumwe mubaturage bagize disipulini kwisi. Kubwibyo, nkuko mubibona, byose biterwa na politiki yumuryango, ntabwo biterwa na barumuna na bashiki bacu.
Ikinyoma # 2. Abana badasanzwe bafite ibibazo byo gutumanaho
Dukurikije abantu benshi, umwana mumuryango muto i Priori ntabwo yorohewe. Ni hehe bwo gufata ubu buhanga igihe amarana igihe n'ababyeyi be? Nibyo? Ariko tekereza wenyine: Waba uzi abavandimwe na bashiki bacu bafite inyungu rusange? Nibyo, muri societe y'abandi bana, umwana azategura umwuka w'ikipe mugikorwa cyintumwa "umutungo", ariko ntibushobora kwitirirwa ubuhanga buhagije byerekana ishingiro ryitumanaho. Ntabwo rwose ari ngombwa kubona inyungu yincuke murugo, umwana wawe ni urungano ruhagije.
Gusa ababyeyi bafite inshingano zo gushiraho umuntu.
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Ikinyoma # 3. Umwana azakura egoist
Abana bato bose batandukanijwe niyi mico. Ariko, abakuze bahinduka, bake bemerewe kubyerekana. Ababyeyi bagomba kwita kuri iki kibazo kandi ntibabura umwanya mugihe Egoism izabangamira umwana, bigira ingaruka ku gushyikirana nabandi. Niba umwana arebye ibitekerezo bireba, harasanzwe ari ibibazo kubabyeyi badashoboye gufata umwana bayobowe, kandi nta muvandimwe azamufasha. Byongeye kandi, ukurikije imibare, abahoze muri Egoibuibuste bakuriye mu miryango minini, aho bigeze bitondewe cyane.
Ikinyoma # 4. Bizagora umwana gukora mumakipe.
Mubisanzwe, abana bonyine bumva "oya" kubabyeyi. Biragoye gukora kumvikana, gusangira ibintu nibikinisho. Ariko, nkuko bimeze kubijyanye na egontristism, ababyeyi bafite inshingano zo gushinga inzira nziza mubuzima. Birumvikana ko TOLK Ukuri nuko abana bo mumiryango nto bigoye kumenyera itsinda, ariko ntibikubye byinshi muri uku kubura abandi bana. Ikibi cyane mumakipe hari abana bakuru kuva mumiryango minini, kubera ko babashinzwe ubuzima bwabo bwose kubato, kandi bamenyereye gufata ibisubizo byonyine.
Abana ni itumanaho rihagije hanze yinzu ninshuti
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Ikinyoma # 5. Umwana azaba afite akajagari
Iyo umwana ari umwe mumuryango, afite urugero rumwe gusa - ababyeyi be, ahwanye. Ntahantu na hamwe yo kubona "abasore", kuko nta bana bahari, mu buryo, umwana azakura mu buryo bundi buryo. Abanyamaguru barashobora gutangira kwigaragaza gusa muburyo butari bwo mu burezi cyangwa kubera umubano utoroshye w'ababyeyi hamwe n'ababyeyi babo.
Wibuke ko mugushiraho imiterere yabana-Cabingi mubyukuri ntibigira ingaruka - gusa biterwa nuburyo umwana wawe azakura.