Gutandukana buri gihe ni inzira igoye kuri buri shyaka. Kuri ubu buzima, ni ngombwa cyane kutagira amakosa ashobora kugira ingaruka kubana bawe basangiye kandi muri rusange bikagorana igihe bigoye cyane. Tuzavuga ibyingenzi kwibuka mugihe wamenye ko umuryango utakizwa.
Ntukishimwe
Rimwe mu makosa y'abakobwa azwi cyane mugihe, ndetse na nyuma yo gutandukana, ni ukwaryo amakosa mubibera wenyine. Ni ngombwa kwibuka ko wubatse hamwe hamwe, bivuze ko inshingano z'umuryango kubafatanyabikorwa bombi. Ugomba kumenya ibyagiye mu mibanire yawe atari umwe muri mwembi muribankishije muribi. Gira intego kandi ureke gushinja wenyine, cyane cyane niba ufite abana bigoye kubona umubyeyi aguma mumyumvire ihagije.
Ntushake guhuza burundu
Abagore bafata amarangamutima kuri mugenzi wabo ntibashobora gufata no kumena umubano warenze umwaka. Nkingingo, ibintu byose bitangirana na terefone. Umugore arashobora kugerageza buhoro buhoro kugerageza gukora umugabo, noneho wumve hafi ahari, byibuze hamwe no guhamagara no ku butumwa. Mubyukuri, ugena gusa umufatanyabikorwa kwirega, umva ko guhera ubu, buri wese muri mwe akomeza inzira yawe.
Shakisha imbaraga "zerekana urupapuro"
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Reka abahoze ari ishyari
Dukurikije imibare, 60% yo gutandukana bibaho bitewe nuko umwe mubafatanyabikorwa abonye umuntu mushya mubucuti. Ku gice cya kabiri, cyane cyane kumugore, biba inkoni nini. Abagore benshi bahoze ntibagishoboye guhangana n'amarangamutima, bityo bagakurikiranwa ku isi yose bitangira uwahoze ari umugabo: Ikizamini cya buri munsi cy'imbuga rusange, inshuti irahamagarira kwiga ibisobanuro birambuye. Ni ngombwa kumva ko nyuma yo gutandukana ufite amahirwe yo gutangira ubuzima kurupapuro rwamavuta yimbere hamwe nindwara zihoraho zifite ikintu gishya cyurukundo. Gusa "Hindura page".
Ntukubake uwahohotewe
Gushakisha amakosa yuwahozeho umugabo ntabwo bikubaha kandi bikaguha uruhande rwiza cyane. Bikunze kubaho ko umugore atangira kwerekana ko amenyerewe, akarengane ko atakarengane, kandi rimwe na rimwe ntacyo atwaye ninde watangije ubutane - uwahohotewe ni ngombwa gutera impuhwe utitaye ku bihe. Shakisha imbaraga zo gushimira uwahoze ari umugabo kubihe byiza byose wahuye hamwe, hanyuma uhuze nuwizi neza ubizi, birashoboka ko umukunzi wawe uzaza azaba ahazaza.