Nyuma yumwana umaze kuvuka, ntushobora gutekereza kubintu byose usibye ibinyobwa byawe. Ariko, igihe kirageze, kandi ugomba kuva iteka. Kandi hano ni ikibazo: Ninde wavana umwana?
Ikintu cya mbere kiza mubitekerezo ni ugusaba kwicarana numwana igisekuru gikuru, ni ukuvuga nyirakuru na sogokuru. Igisubizo gisa naho cyumvikana, ariko ntabwo buri gihe bishoboka kubishyira mubikorwa, kuko ababyeyi bawe cyangwa abavandimwe bawe cyangwa abavandimwe bagabo badashobora gukurikiza fidget, cyangwa bakabyanga, niba isano iri hagati yabasekuruza ntabwo aribyiza.
Mu bihe nk'ibi, ababyeyi basore batangiye gushaka inzobere - Nanny. Abagore benshi mugihugu cyacu basaga nkaho ari inyamanswa yo kuva mumwana kwita kumwana wundi, ariko ntutinye, ikintu nyamukuru nuguhitamo inzobere zujuje ibyangombwa bitazagorana ku mwana wawe mugihe utarimo urugo.
Ntamuntu uzagira abikuye ku mutima cyane kubana numwana wawe nka nyogokuru
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Muri ibyo bihe byombi, hari impano kandi ibibi tuzavuga.
Reka dutangire nabakunzi, ni ukuvuga nyirakuru. Ni ngombwa kumva umubare mwene wabo yiteguye kwishora mubikorwa byawe byubuzima. N'ubundi kandi, uburezi bw'abana ni akazi gakomeye kugirango babivuga. Ibi birashobora kwitwa akazi keza, kandi niba nyirakuru asanzwe akora, azamera nko guhuza. Kubwibyo, ikintu cya mbere cyo kubaza nyirakuru - ntabwo ari umunsi wabanjirije kujya kukazi, ariko hakiri kare - niba biteguye gukora.
Ni ngombwa kuzirikana imyifatire ya nyirakuru. Niba umusabye ubufasha, ariko yemera kwanga kugaragara, ntihanganye nubwenge hamwe numwana. Iyo umuntu adashaka gukora umwe cyangwa undi, atangira kurakara no gukora ibindi byose. Ukeneye imyumvire ku mwana? Nibyiza, niba nyirakuru yemeye umunezero, birashobora kuvugwa ko ikibazo cyakemutse.
Nibyo, nyirakuru yizewe cyane kuruta umuntu utamenyereye. Ntushobora guhanura uko undi mugore azitwara numwana wawe, nubwo afite uburambe. Ntamuntu numwe umuntu azafata umwana wawe afite ubwoba nka nyogokuru.
Byongeye kandi, niba nyirakuru yemeye kwicarana numwana kubuntu, bizafasha kubungabunga no kwidagadura byoroshye mumuryango ukiri muto. Nubwo wowe kandi uzishyura, umubare uzaba mubihe bitarenze ubwishyu bwa Nanny yabigize umwuga.
Fata witonze guhitamo umubyimba
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Muri rusange, uwo ushobora guhura nazo, kuzura umwana hamwe nyogokuru, ni ukureba ukundi kurera umwana. Emera, biragoye gusaba ikintu kumuntu wicaye numwana kubuntu. Byongeye kandi, nyirakuru azunama, avuga ko uburambe bwe burenze ibyawe. Mubihe nkibi, biragoye kurengera igitekerezo cyawe.
Nyirakuru akunda kwishora mu bana, bityo hari akaga umwana wawe, wamwitayeho igihe cyose, azakura mu bwigenge. Urubanza rukwiye: Nyirakuru arashaka umwuzukuru kwerekana ibikorwa byinshi no gufata icyemezo, kuko kubwibyo ahora anenga kandi byerekana ko ibibi, bika kwibeshya ko ibikorwa bye bizana umuntu wizeye. Tekereza niba witeguye kwihanganira ibyo ureba?
Nanny
Niba nyirakuru adakora, ababyeyi bakiri bato batangira gushaka umubyimba. Icyangombwa ugomba gusuzuma: Icya mbere, imiterere n'imyaka ubushobozi byabana. Intungane niba umubyambi atakoraga mu ishuri ry'incuke: avuga ko ahanganye. Niba umwana wawe yimuka, hitamo umukobwa ukiri muto kugirango ahangane numwana ukora.
Inyungu za Nanny
Bitandukanye na nyirakuru, nanny azanye nawe mu mafaranga y'abaguzi, bivuze ko ufite uburenganzira bwo gusaba ubwiza bw'ikiremwara. Ntuzongera kugira icyaha kandi utabimenyekana, kuko bishoboka na nyirakuru wagushinje. Uruhare rwawe hamwe na Nanny rutandukanijwe neza: Utanga amabwiriza no kwishyura, ni, nabo, ubakora. Ibintu byose biroroshye. Byongeye kandi, biroroshye kwemeranya na Nanny, na none, ukesheje umubano wibicuruzwa.
Saba inshuti - birashoboka bazagira inama na Nanny Nanny Nanny
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Ibidukikije
Nubwo wavuriraga umwana wawe witonze, ni umunyamahanga mu nzu. Nibyo, kandi ntabwo buri gihe uzi umuntu mushya uwo ari we, reka areke byibuze ibyifuzo ijana biturutse kumwanya wambere. Urashobora kugabanya ingaruka zivuga ubufasha bwabana inshuti hamwe nabana: mu buryo butunguranye umuntu afite inzobere nziza gufata.
Gukoresha Umunyambi Nanny - bisobanura kumanika amafaranga yinyongera. Inzobere nziza ihenze, nimwitegure kumara witonze. Ntabwo rwose bikwiye kuzigama ubuzima numutekano wumwana wawe.