Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, awunakucinga ngayo nantoni na kodwa i-crumbs yakho. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha lifikile, kwaye kufuneka uwushiye umthetho. Kwaye nanku umbuzo: Ngaba uza kumshiya nabani umntwana?
Into yokuqala efika engqondweni kukucela ukuhlala nomntwana kwisizukulwana esidala, oko kukuthi, umakhulu notatomkhulu. Isisombululo sibonakala ngathi sisengqiqweni, kodwa akusoloko kunokwenzeka ukuba siyisebenzise, kuba abazali bakho okanye izalamane zabo abanokuthi bangabi nakho ukulandela i-firdget, okanye nokuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwezizukulwane azilunganga.
Kwimeko enjalo, abazali abancinci bahlala beqala ukufuna ingcali-i-nanny. Abafazi abaninzi kwilizwe lethu babebonakala ngathi bashiye umntwana ukuba bashiye umntu umntu, kodwa bangamoyiki, into ephambili kukukhetha iNgcali ekungayi kuba nzima ukuyikhathalela umntwana wakho ngelixa ungekho ikhaya.
Akukho mntu uya kunyaniseka ukuba anxibelelane nomntwana wakho njengogogo
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Kuzo zombini iimeko, kukho iimpango kwaye zinokuthetha ngazo.
Masiqale ngothandekayo, oko kukuthi, ukusuka kugogo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba ingakanani isalamane sakho sikulungele ukuntywila kwisingqisho sakho sobomi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, imfundo yomntwana ngumsebenzi onzima ukuze bathethe. Oku kunokubizwa ngokuba ngumsebenzi ogcweleyo, kwaye ukuba umakhulu sele esebenza, uya kuba ngathi akukho lula ukudibanisa. Ke ngoko, into yokuqala yokubuza umakhulu-hayi ngosuku olungaphambi kokuba uye emsebenzini, kodwa kusengaphambili - ukuba sele ukulungele ukwenza.
Kubalulekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo isimo sengqondo somakhulu. Ukuba umcela ukuba ancede, kodwa iyavumelana nokuthandabuza okucacileyo, andikhange ndikwazi ukuqonda kunye nomntwana. Xa umntu engafuni ukwenza enye okanye enye, uqala ukuba nomsindo kwaye enze yonke into. Ngaba ufuna isimo sengqondo esinjalo emntwaneni? Ewe, ukuba umakhulu uyavumelana ngovuyo, kunokutshiwo ukuba ingxaki isonjululwe.
Ewe, umakhulu akathembeke kakhulu kunomntu ongaqhelekanga. Awungekhe uxele indlela elinye ibhinqa eliza kubaphatha ngayo nomntwana wakho, nangona linamava ngokubanzi. Akukho mntu uya kumphatha umntwana wakho ngomnye umakhulu onothando.
Ukongeza, ukuba umakhulu uyavuma ukuhlala nomntwana mahala, kuya kunceda i-ofisi kunye nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali olubuthathaka kusapho oluncinci. Nokuba wena kwaye uya kuhlawula, imali iya kuba ngamanye amaxesha ingaphantsi kwentlawulo ye-nanny.
Thatha ngononophelo ukukhetha i-nanny
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Eyona nqaba ibaluleke kakhulu, onokuthi udibane naye, ukuba umntwana uxolelane notatomkhulu, uyajongeka okwahlukileyo komntwana. Vumelana, kunzima ukufumana into emntwini ohlala nomntwana wasimahla. Ukongeza, umakhulu uya kugoba umgca, athi amava akhe agqithe eyakho. Kwimeko enjalo, kunzima ukukhusela uluvo lwakho.
Oogogo Uthando lokuzibandakanya nabantwana, ngenxa yoko kukho umngcipheko wokuba umntwana wakho, owakhathala umakhulu ngalo lonke ixesha, uya kuphuhlisa ezimeleyo. Ityala elichanekileyo: Utata ufuna umzukulwana ukubonisa inyathelo lokuqala kunye nokuthatha isigqibo, ngale nto uhlala umgxeka kwaye ucacisa ukuba izinto azenzayo ziya kuzisa ngenkuthalo ndoda. Cinga ukuba ukulungele ukunyamezelana neempawu ezinjalo?
Nanny
Ukuba umakhulu akasebenzi, abazali abancinci baqala ukukhangela i-nanny. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyiqwalasele: Okokuqala, ukwenziwa kunye nobudala be-nanny. Igqibelele ukuba i-nanny ayisebenzi kwi-kindergarten: Ithetha ngokuchasene noxinzelelo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyashukuma, khetha ibhinqa elincinci ukuba likwazi ukujamelana nomntwana osebenzayo.
Izibonelelo zeNkundla zeNkundla
Ngokungafaniyo nogogo, i-nanny iza nawe kwimali yomthengi, ethetha ukuba unelungelo lokufuna ubungakanani bomgangatho obalelweyo. Awusayi kuba sanetyala kunye nesithintelo, njengoko inokuba kunye nogogo okwenze inkoliseko. Iindima zakho kunye ne-nanny zahlulele ngokucacileyo: unika imiyalelo kwaye uhlawule, kuyo, ayinza. Yonke into ilula. Ukongeza, kulula ukuvumelana ne-nanny, kwakhona, ngenxa yobudlelwane bemali-yemali.
Cela abahlobo- mhlawumbi baya kucebisa ukuba bafumane i-nanny elungileyo
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Imizuzu
Nokuba ungaphathwa njani na i-nanny kumntwana wakho, ungowasemzini endlwini. Ewe, kwaye awusoloko uyazi ukuba ngubani umntu omtsha, makabe ngaphezulu kwekhulu leengcebiso ezivela kwiindawo zangaphambili zomsebenzi. Unokunciphisa umngcipheko ngokunxibelelana noncedo lwabantwana kubahlobo abanabantwana: ngequbuliso umntu unengcali elungileyo ekuthatheni.
Qesha i-nanny- kuthetha ukuxhoma iindleko ezongezelelweyo. Nayiphi na ingcali elungileyo iyabiza, ke zilungiselele ukuchitha ngononophelo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ayikufanelanga ukugcina impilo nokhuseleko lomntwana wakho.