Kuryama hamwe cyangwa ukundi - ingingo itandukanye yo kuganira. Buri muryango uhisemo ubwabo muburyo bwo guhitamo bubarusha. Ariko ni iki cyo gukora abasinziriye hamwe numwana igihe kirekire, none ndashaka "kumumwirekeza" mu buriri butandukanye? Dutanga inama nziza.
Hitamo uburiri bw'abana
Ibyiza bitangirana no gukurura umwana - gutanga kugura uburiri azakunda. Birumvikana, ntidushobora inama yo guhitamo ahantu hatose muburyo bwanditse cyangwa ikibuga cyumwamikazi, ariko niba ubushobozi bwimari bwemerera - kuki? Niba utumije igishushanyo cya buri muntu, umwana azishimira kabiri - abana mubisanzwe bakunda inzira yo guhanga. Noneho kugura uburiri - hamwe ninyuguti ukunda, inyamaswa cyangwa superheroes.
Vugana n'umwana
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bagira inama yo gutegura umwana ngo asinzire mu cyumba gitandukanye, bitabaye ibyo ashobora gutinya - kanguka mu gicuku kandi urira. Sobanura ko uhora hafi kandi arashobora kuza kuri wewe igihe icyo aricyo cyose. Ubwa mbere ntukizize umuryango wijoro uze kumarana umwana kugirango umenye neza ko ibitotsi bye bituje kandi bikomeye. Ntutange ibitotsi hamwe na pane yijoro - umwana azamenyera urumuri, noneho bizagora kubaka muburyo bushya. Ibuka neza kubyerekeye umufasha wa kera - Radiona. Shyira iruhande rw'uburiri, kugirango utazuka nijoro kugirango ugenzure ibitotsi by'umwana.
Dukeneye kwigisha buhoro buhoro
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Mbwira ko asanzwe yigenga
Ntabwo bikwiye gushimangira ko umwana yabaye mukuru kandi agomba gusinzira ukundi. Nibyiza kumusobanurira ko yigenga kandi ashobora gufata ibyemezo bijyanye n'ubuzima bwe - guhitamo ibara ry'icyashe mu cyumba cyawe, shyira pajama hanyuma uzimye urumuri rw'ijoro mbere yo kuryama. Byongeye kandi, birakenewe cyane kuvuga cyane kandi icyarimwe ubwitonzi, noneho umwana azumva ko ubyumva nkumuntu mukuru kandi wubahe ibitekerezo bye. Mubisanzwe ufite imyaka 3-4, abana bamaze kumvikana kandi bakeneye mu mfuruka yabo hamwe nitegeko ryabo, bityo inzira yinzibacyuho yo gutandukana ibitotsi bigomba gusinzira nta kibazo.
Ubanza gusinzira hamwe
Ubwa mbere, ntugomba kuva ku mwana umwe mucyumba. Ijoro rya mbere, menya hamwe na we ibi bikurikira - jya mu buriri bwawe mugitondo. Inzira ntigomba kurenza icyumweru - muri iki gihe umwana azamenyera mubihe bishya, kandi ntuzabona umwanya wo kunanirwa kubura ibitotsi. Mumutumire gufata igikinisho cyoroshye ukunda - hamwe nawe azumva amerewe neza. Birakwiye kandi kugura umwenda wijimye, kuko mu mwijima hormone, Melatonine yabyaye vuba cyane, bivuze ko umwana azasinzira muminota.
Ongeraho Papa Kuri Inzira
Mubisanzwe biragoye ko abana basinzira, kuko nta mama uri hafi, bakundaga gukomeza amaboko. Niba umwana afite umubano mwiza nababyeyi babo, ugomba kubanza usimburana, hanyuma papa yongeye gusoma igitabo cyumwana mbere yo kuryama akabana na we kugeza aguye. Umwana rero ntazabona ko yoroshya Mama kuryama hamwe. Buhoro buhoro, kuboneka ahari hashobora gusimburwa ninzozi hamwe nigikinisho, ariko ntitukugiriye inama yo kureka imihango isanzwe ya nimugoroba - ibi nibihe byingenzi byo kumenya ababyeyi bamukeneye, cyane cyane mumyaka yoroheje.
Shaka imihango idasanzwe mbere yo kuryama
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