Gufata unyuze kuri manika wenyine bisa nkaho bikabije, ikindi kintu nugufata umukobwa wumukobwa. Nyamara, abakora amashusho yabigize umwuga bagira inama yo kwirinda guhamagarwa ndetse ninshuti nziza mbere yo gusohoka munzu. Kenshi na kenshi, umukunzi ntafasha, ariko ibitandukanye birinda amashusho. Uyu munsi twahisemo kuvuga, kuki n'umuntu wa hafi, nkinshuti, ntabwo ari umujyanama mwiza mubyumba bikwiye.
Ubona gute ufashe umukobwa wumukobwa kuri sosiyete
- Inshuti yawe hafi yibanze kuryohe. Niki umenyereye arashobora kureba inzirakarengane zishoboka.
- Kujya guhaha hamwe ninshuti, ushobora kugura ibirenze guteganijwe rero, ingengo yimari yumuryango wawe ibabaye.
- Abakobwa bamwe ntibatanga ibitekerezo umuntu azareba neza kurusha ubwabo, bityo akanenga ibintu ukunda, nubwo waba ureba muri bo.
- Bibaho ko nyuma yigihe gito ubona umukobwa wumukobwa mubintu bimwe yazengurutse afite ashishikaye muri wewe mubyumba bikwiye. Ikintu nuko buri mugore abasha guhitamo, bityo yibanda kuryoherwa k'abantu bazira.
- Igitekerezo cyumukunzi wawe, ndetse nibyiza, burigihe bigomba kumvikana: Ntugatererane umwambaro niba wishimiye, kandi umukunzi wawe aragoramye. Niba udashaka kubabaza, shyira imyambarire hanyuma umusubire kuri we bukeye.
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Mubindi bintu, abagore benshi basoma ibyasohoye yimyambarire, bivuze ko buri segoporo ubwayo yitwara hafi ya lagerld, ariko twumva ko usoma ibinyamakuru kandi usobanukirwe na kimwe. Kubwibyo, niyo inshuti itakurekura mucyumba gikwiye, kugeza ugerageje iyi jipo "nziza", ibi ntibisobanura ko ugomba kwemeranya kubiguzi. Buri gihe ufite igitekerezo cyawe kandi ntukajye numukobwa wa hafi. N'ubundi kandi, tugomba kwambara ikintu.
Niba udafashe urugendo rumwe muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose, kuki utajyana umusore wawe? Abagabo ntibakunda gutembera mu bigo byubucuruzi, ariko, inshuro nyinshi mu kwezi urashobora kujyana kumasaha abiri kuri boutique ukunda kugirango ukusanye ishusho itaha, kurugero, muri resitora. Umukunzi wawe ntabwo ashobora kukugira inama ikintu gisa neza, kuko kidahirwa nawe muguhitamo imyenda nibikoresho.
Birakwiye kandi kwirinda inama z'abajyanama, keretse wowe ubwawe wabahindukiye ngo ubafashe. Ikigaragara ni uko udashobora kumenya neza ko ugurisha yishimira abikuye ku mutima imyambarire, amaherezo, intego ye nukugurisha ikintu. Ibyo ari byo byose, umuntu wese wajyaga kuri sosiyete, icyemezo cya nyuma kigomba kuba icyawe, kuko gusa uzi uburyo bwiza kandi uhuza, kimwe cyangwa ikindi kintu.