Ikintu kibi cyane nuko umugore ashobora gukora nyuma yo gutwita no kubyara - kwibagirwa ko ari umugore. Ababyeyi benshi bakiri bato batangira kwizera ko isura iremereye ntahantu, kuko umugore agaragaramo ibintu byinshi bishya, nubwo bishimishije: kubyuka kare mu gitondo, kugaburira no guhera umwana, kandi kumunsi wumugore rwose biterwa nubwumviro bwumwana. Baza, Nigute wakomeza kugira isuku mubihe nkibi? Mubyukuri, nukuri, birakwiye gusa gushaka no kugera kubikorwa bimwe.
Icyakora, hiyongereyeho iboneza ry'umugore w'abagore ubwe, mu gihe Mammia yari akomeje ibidukikije, agerageza kumvisha umugore ko ubuzima bwe bwose bugomba kwitangira umwana, ibindi byose, harimo we, ari kabiri.
None ni izihe ntambwe zikora?
Mbwira "Oya"
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Nta kibi
Umuntu wese, ndetse ntarabyara abagore, azi uko abagore badahungabana mugihe batwite kandi bwambere nyuma yo kubyara. Imigani imaze kugenda. Biragaragara: Leta ni shyashya kandi itumvikana, nyuma yo kuvuka k'umwana, ugomba kwibagirwa inzozi zikomeye byibuze imyaka itari mike, ibyo byose ntibishobora gutanga umusanzu mu bugingo muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Ariko ibi ntibisobanura ko ari ngombwa kwemerera imbaraga mbi gusenyuka no kumena abavandimwe. Shakisha uburyo bwo kwerekana amarangamutima mabi, kurugero, wiyandikishe kubyina, fitness cyangwa yoga byibuze inshuro nyinshi mu cyumweru.
Reka kugenda ku mugabo wawe
Nibyo, mumuryango wawe ongeraho, ariko ibi ntibisobanura ko umugabo yifuzaga kuba umugabo wawe maze aba mama wa kabiri muri pikipiki. Arategereje kandi ko ubitayeho no kwitondera wenyine nk'umuntu. Ntabwo itegetswe gutega amatwi hysteria yawe no kwihanganira isura yawe idahwitse. Niba wemera imibare, nyuma yo kuvuka k'umwana, umubare munini w'abatabana babaye, nk'ubutegetsi, amakosa y'umugore udashobora guhuza uruhare rwa nyina n'umugore. Reba kuri uyu mwanya. Nyamuneka fata umugabo kenshi, kandi kubwibyo ugomba gukurikira, kandi ntarengwa ni ukugaragaza Fantasy wenyine hamwe numugabo wanjye.
Ntugume wenyine n'ibitekerezo byawe, jya ku bantu
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Mbwira "Yego" hamwe n'ibyifuzo bye
Ni ngombwa kumenya umugabo we gusa, ahubwo nanone, nkuko kwihesha agaciro biterwa rero, bityo, abandi bantu batangira kukumenya ukundi.
Shakisha amasaha make mucyumweru murugendo mububiko hamwe numukobwa wumukobwa cyangwa wiyandikishe muri salon kuri massage yoroheje cyangwa inzira yo gusiga.
Wibagirwe kuri T-Shirts irambuye hamwe na banzi iteye ubwoba! Gumana umugore mubihe byose.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina nyuma yo kubyara
Birumvikana ko hagomba kubaho igihe mbere yo gusubira mu mapera yimibonano mpuzabitsina, ariko ntukakorwe, bitabaye ibyo umugabo azatangira "guhangayika." Ikintu nyamukuru ni ugutangira.
Mugihe icyo gihe cyose, ntubikora cyane kubagabo wawe nawe, kuko ntakintu kibi kuruta umugore utanyuzwe wasenyutse kubandi.
Fata umwanya numugabo wawe
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Ntukicare mu rugo
Iteka ntabwo ari interuro. Mugihe tumaze kuryama nka mama, ntugume murugo hanyuma utangire kuza abantu hamwe numwana, reka haba kubanza gukina umwana, ahubwo ni wowe.
Mubyongeyeho, mugihe wicaye hamwe numwana, urashobora kwishyira imbere, kurugero, kubona uburenganzira bwo kwiga indimi zamahanga, kora blog. Ntucikwe amahirwe yo kwiga ikintu gishya, kuko umugore wihagije numugore ushimishije.