Mu mashuri hamwe nuruziga rwabana Hariho icyiciro cyihariye cyababyeyi, bitangaje ko ibintu byose binyuranye no gutandukana kwumwana wabo. Nibyo, ni ukuri rwose ko buri muntu adasanzwe, abantu bose baramuranga ni ikintu kiranga imico, ariko ni umwana ufite impano muri kiriya kibazo ko ababyeyi bagerageza "kwishyiriraho"?
Buri mwana arashobora kumenya impano, impengamiro kubintu runaka. Mbere na mbere, ababyeyi bakeneye kureba umwana wabo: kureba ibyo umwana arebye, igishimishije nicyo kivuga cyangwa kigerageza kuvuga ibyo ashaka kwerekana. Ibi byose bizafasha kumva inzira nziza yohereza umwana.
Ababyeyi ni ngombwa cyane gutanga amahitamo y'abana babo muburyo bwo guhitamo kugerageza. Buri mama na papa bumva, niba umwana wabo aguye mumiti yindirimbo, bitera kwiyemeza numuziki. Dushingiye ku indorerezi ya buri munsi y'abana, nk'urugero, mu bwoko bumwe bwo kubyina, amajwi, ishuri ryumuziki, ibihangano byishuri, nibindi bizagaragaza ibitekerezo byabo kubyerekeye niba umwana afite Umwana impengamiro kuri uyu muryango wamasomo cyangwa kugera kubisubizo bizanyura hejuru.
Ubufasha bwamafaranga muri "Impano Kumenyekanisha impano" bizaba inzira yoroshye ikoreshwa kubana bato cyane: gukwirakwiza ibintu bitandukanye, nka mikoro, igifu, facre, imashini, caltlatrice, no kubara, nibindi. - Kandi umwana aratigita kuba ashimishijwe. Ibikurikira, ababyeyi, bashingiye ku myitwarire y'abana kubintu byose, fasha guteza imbere inyungu zabana. Bibaho ko umwana ubwe yerekana amakuru karemano kuva akiri muto, bityo akazi ko gutezimbere impano yo "gutanga amashuri" byoroha kubabyeyi. Ariko nubwo bimeze, umwana aracyakeneye kubyara ubumenyi muburyo butandukanye bwo kumuha amahitamo meza.
Ibice byingenzi kubabyeyi muburyo bwo gushakisha kugiti cyabo nicyo roho ya Tchad yabo irambuye, kandi ni ayahe makuru karemano. Umubyeyi yitegereza umwana no, kumenya ibintu byihariye, bigerageza kubyuteza imbere, kwereka umwana kubahanga mubuhanzi. Ariko icyarimwe, ntibishoboka kwibagirwa ibindi bice ukeneye gutanga kugirango ugerageze umwana.
Rero, rwose muri buri mwana hariho imitsi ya zahabu cyane, hari impano. Intego nyamukuru y'ababyeyi ni ugushaka no gukomeza impengamiro yo guhanga, ariko nta ruganda rushyiraho ibitekerezo.