Kuva akivuka, abantu babiri ba hafi ni ababyeyi be. Inzu ihinduka igihome cy'umwana, aho ashobora kumva amerewe neza no gutuza aturuka ku isi. Niba hari ikirere kiri imbere mumuryango, umuntu muto ukomoka mu bwana burangiye. Turasobanura impamvu ari ngombwa kwiga gukemura ibibazo byamakimbirane hamwe nuburyo bushyize mu gaciro.
Creek - psyche blocker
Sisitemu yo mu bwonko hamwe na sisitemu y'imitsi yitwara nabi n'ijwi rirenga, iyifatanije n'akaga ku mubiri. Kubera iyo mpamvu, amagambo yose agaragazwa nijwi ryiyongereye aragenda arenga amatwi. Umwana abona igitero kigaragara mubimenyetso no mumaso, ariko ntibishobora kumva icyo byatewe. Niba ababyeyi bahora bitabaza iyo mimerere mu gihe cy'amakimbirane, igihe cy'ubwonko bufite isano mishya yo mucyaro - ihungabana ry'ijwi rirenga kandi rihagarika imyumvire y'iri jwi. Birashobora kuba bibi mugihe umwana azabera kubwimpanuka mugihe cyihutirwa mugihe ukeneye kwitwara ako kanya.
Ababyeyi kuva kubavuna bazaba umwana wabo
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Birabujijwe Birabujijwe
Nta rubanza rutakubise abana kandi ntibumve abantu babitsindishiriza. Uzakuraho rero amarangamutima yawe mabi, ariko kuva kera uzicuza ibyakozwe. Fata urugero uva mu Burayi - ngaho uruhinja ruzakurwa mu muryango niba ingamba z'umubiri zikoreshwa. Nkumwana, amarangamutima yose yibukwa cyane cyane arakomera - ntugaturwe mugihe nyuma yimyaka 10-15, umwana yibuka imitego yawe, aho uzagira isoni. Nyuma yamakimbirane, yiga byibuze muminota 5 kure yumwana: Kurekura amashanyarazi kandi usuzume neza uko ibintu bimeze. Ntabwo bizakwemerera gukora amakosa yubupfu.
Icyizere muri byose
Intwaro nyamukuru yuburezi nubushishozi bukonje. Wige ibitabo bya psychologue kurera abana, bona umwana nkumuntu ungana kuri wewe, ushyire ibitekerezo hanyuma ureke umwana wawe amahirwe yo kuvuga. Nibyo, igisubizo nkikibazo gifata igihe kirenze gushyira umwana mumirimo cyangwa kwambura amakarito n'amakarito, ariko biratanga ingaruka nziza kubitekerezo byumwana. Nyuma yigihe, azumva amahame yimyitwarire kandi atangira kugenga amarangamutima nibikorwa byigenga. Igikorwa nyamukuru cyawe nkumubyeyi nugushyigikira muribi no gutanga kumva ko umukunda kandi wubaha.
Umwana agomba kwiga kwifata
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Amahugurwa - umuhigo wa psyche ihagije
Soma ibitabo nkinama zizwi "zangiza" no gusezerera uko hamwe nabana, utanga umwana kugirango wisobanure icyo intwari yintwari itari yo. Witondere imyitwarire yabandi bana n'abantu bakuru ku bana. Ni ngombwa kubikora muburyo butabogamye, utabanje gusezerana umwana mukibindi kijyanye nawe cyangwa ubwibone. Agomba kumva ko niba atarize nyuma yo gutongana ninshuti mu ishuri ry'incuke, no kugerageza gukemura amakimbirane, ntabwo bigira umuntu wihariye, ariko ahwanye na societe ya societe.
Fata umwana wawe nkuko byifuza kukurera mu bwana. Mbere yo kugira icyo ukora, tekereza uburyo wagira ingaruka mubuzima bw'ejo hazaza bwumwana. Nta jambo ribi, kurira cyangwa gutera amaboko-amaboko bitari ukuri nta cyerekezo. Gusobanukirwa ibi, uhagurutsa kwihesha agaciro no ku bantu bakikije, ntabwo ari neurotic.