- RITA, mbwira impamvu uyu munsi umukobwa ukiri muto, yize, mwiza, wuzuye ibyiringiro byo gutinya gutsimbataza umuntu kandi akora byose, kugirango agumane na we?
- Hariho impamvu nyinshi: kuva gukunda inyungu kumafaranga. Nk'ubutegetsi, umugabo ugerageza gukomeza, gutunga amafaranga no kugaragara. Biragoye gukomeza umuntu nkuyu, kuko hafi cyane cyane, gashimishije, ushimishije, ureba abakobwa nkabo, abagabo bahora bafite ibishuko byinshi.
Umugore akimara kugerageza uburyo bwose kugirango ashyiraho umubano, ariko ntakintu cyafashije, akomeza kugira uburyo bumwe gusa bwizewe: ihinduka kubapfumu, ihindukirira abarozi, ihindukirira abarozi, ihindukirira abapfumu, ihindukirira abapfumu, ihindukirira abarozi, ihindukirira abarozi, ihindukirira abarozi, ihindukirira abarozi, ihindukirira abapfumu, ihindukirira abarozi, ihinduka kubapfumu, ku ngabo zirarakara, bizeye gukomeza cyangwa gusubiza umugabo. Kenshi na kenshi, irakora, ariko ahora yuzuye ingaruka. Mbere ya byose, batera imbere mubuzima, ku buzima bwumugabo, arabaswe, ingabo zirarakaye zimaze kumwirukana. Na we ubwe aravuga ati: "Ego, sinkeneye uyu mukobwa," ariko mu nzira ye hari ukuntu yamennye ikintu, n'amaguru atwara uwo yiyemeje kwigarurira.
Hariho gusenya ubucuruzi, mubusabane, aragerageza kwikuramo, kureka iki kibazo, atangira kunywa, yicaye ku biyobyabwenge. Mugihe cyo kwemeza inzoga, bisa nkaho birekurwa, ariko burigihe biragoye kubaho cyane.
Nibyiza, yaramugezeho, ubu bari kumwe, ariko umwanya uza kandi imbaraga z'umukara zisaba amafaranga yabo. Kubwibyo ukeneye kwishyura intsinzi, ubuzima, mubihe bimwe na rimwe.
- Hariho abashakanye nk'abo aho umuntu uteye ubwoba abanye numugore mubisanzwe? Rimwe na rimwe, kureba abashakanye, ibitekerezo bivugwa ko bitari bihari.
- Ubuzima bwanjye bwose bubaho mubisanzwe - biravuga cyane, haba mubucakara. N'ubundi kandi, ingufu z'u mugabo "irabyizeraga." Kandi kuri 45-55, igihe igomba kuba imbaraga zuzuye n'imbaraga, biba binaniwe rwose, indwara zumutima zitangira, inkoni. Nyuma ya "kuzunguruka, ntabeho, ahubwo abaho gusa.
Ariko umugore yamaze iwe, araturuhande rwe nk'imbwa yizerwa, ariko nta byishimo n'amateraniro ntibishobora.
- Noneho ikibazo kivuka: Umugore ntiyumva ko ingaruka zishobora gusenya ko umuntu azababara?
"Umugore wahisemo ku rukundo ari agashikamu gakomeye:" Ndamukunda kandi byose bigomba kuba uko nshaka. "
Ntabwo yitaye kubyo yinjira mubibi cyangwa kutagira ishingiro. Ntakeneye kureba imbere yibyerekeranye, yanze kandi ntabwo yihanganira gushinyagurira abakunzi babo. Hano, birumvikana ko Egoisment yoherejwe.
Igihe kimwe nasomaga ibisobanuro bya Monica Beluchi: "Ndacyasobanukiwe nkabagore bagabanijwe. Niba uyu ari umugabo wanjye, noneho azaba ayanjye gusa kandi ntawe uzabibona. " Nakunze aya magambo. Ahoraho afite imyaka 17 na Vincent Casel kandi ntarambiwe cyane numugabo we, akareba - baracyari kumwe. Nzi neza ko Monica Beduchiti ntabwo yigeze yitabaza ingabo zose.
Kandi ndamwemera rwose: Kugirango twubake umubano ukomeye, duhore tubakomeza, umugabo agomba gutungurwa buri munsi, kugirango acire umubano mwiza.
- Reka dutangire mubyukuri ko aya ari amagambo yumugore ukennye. Uwo mugore "uhinga" ku kazi buri munsi kuva saa kumi n'ebyiri kuva mu gitondo, akuramo inzu yose, abana ntibashobora kwishimira kugatanga uwo avomera uwo murongo.
- Mubice, ndemeranya nawe. Umugore "uhinga" kuvandwi mu gitondo no gukurura abana, umuryango, inzu yose ni umugore, mugenzi wawe, mugenzi we w'umuntu wongeyeho udashobora guha ihumure n'inzego zamafaranga. Ntabwo izakora ikagerageza.
Niba tuvuga tunko tuvugishije ukuri, tuvuga abantu bafite umutekano kandi mubikenewe bageze ku ntsinzi, ubutunzi, icyamamare gishobora gutanga imibereho yo hejuru. Abagore barwanira abagabo bafite imiterere runaka, imbaraga, kwinezeza, ntabwo ari abarinzi cyangwa ikigo. Kubwa mugabo nkuyu, umugore rimwe na rimwe yiteguye kugurisha ubugingo, kandi ntajya kumupfumu gusa.
- Kandi iyo yagiye kumupfumu, ibintu byose byerekana ubupfumu bwakozwe na serivisi zayo. Kuki dufite abapfumu benshi?
- Byinshi muribi ni ababinya. Ni gake cyane kubona umurozi nyawe. Ibintu byose bitashyikirizwa gari ya moshi, amafaranga muri kano karere ni azunguruka ari nini. Hano hari amashyirahamwe ya Mafia, ubucuruzi nk'ubwo bugenzura inzego zimwe. Niba kandi bari abarozi nyabo, bose bari guhindurwa, bityo rero twagize amahirwe cyane ko benshi muribo ari rogue nto.
Ubupfumu ni igice, akazi k'umuntu ku giti cye. Kubona umupfumu nyayo biragoye cyane, nkitegeko, birashobora kurekurwa kuri radiyo yoroheje. Ntibamamaza kuri enterineti.
- Urabizi, kurubuga rwumuntu ukize kandi ukomeye, natekerezaga ko mbere yo guhura numukobwa umwe, kandi narushaho gutekereza mbere yuko asigara. Ingaruka zirashobora kuba ziteye ubwoba.
- Nkuru gutegeka, nta bagabo bakomeye i Moscou. Bose baguye muriki kibazo. Afite agaciro, kuri we hari urugamba. Abagore bashaka kubona umuhigo nkubu, benshi, hamwe nabagabo bahuye, birababaje, bike. Nabo bazi ibi kandi benshi bakurinda kubucuruzi bwabo.
Byashoboka kumugira inama yo kudashobora guhura no kudahura numuntu numwe kuruhande, kuba mumuryango cyangwa kubashakanye, ariko aba bagabo ubwabo, ntabwo ari abera, ntabwo ari abera.
Hariho abakobwa benshi bato beza: gutegereza, abakozi, abanyamabanga - barwanye bikomeye.
Abakobwa baturutse mu midugudu, baturutse mu mijyi mito, ntabwo ari babi, biteguye, ntakintu kiruta abatuye umurwa mukuru. Kandi ntakibazo cyabagabo bangahe, abagore bemewe cyangwa abana. Bazi ko batakira umuntu gusa, ahubwo bakira "isi yose."
Iyo umukobwa afungiye umukire mubintu byiza, byuzuye ibicuruzwa bifatika, noneho azakora ibishoboka byose kugirango abuze. Ariko niba yaramukomokaho, noneho rimwe na rimwe ibintu byose bitakaza ibisobanuro byayo. Nyuma yumugabo nkuyu, ntukishaka guhura numusore woroheje, kugereranya ntabwo ari kumushyigikiye.
- Uratubaza ngo usubize umugabo nkuyu? Kandi muri rusange, ni ibihe bibazo uza aho uri?
- Nk'ubutegetsi, bafatwa n'ibibazo by'umuryango, iyo umubano hagati y'umugabo n'umugore we arinjizwa. Nyuma yo kumenya, impamvu umugore adashobora gufata mugenzi we, abaza ikibazo ati: "Urashobora kumusiga?" Nanze. Kugabanya iherezo na psyche yumuntu - icyaha kinini. Ntabwo mpindura amahame yanjye, ingengabitekerezo yanjye, sinigera nsaba imbaraga z'umukara. Nizera ko hari boomerang, kandi arashobora kugaruka ankubita. Ntabwo nzagaragaza wowe n'umuryango wawe ibizamini. Muri iki gihe, umurimo wa psychologue uratangira. Guhishura impamvu.
Bikunze kubaho ko umugore yabonye umugabo akaruhuka.
Yibwira ko yamubyaye umuhungu wari utegerejwe igihe kirekire, kandi ntaho ajya muri we. Umugore areka kumutaho, areka kuba umugabo ushimishije.
Kandi hano ntibishoboka kuruhuka, kuko "abato kandi bashonje" basenyutse mugushakisha ubucukuzi, kandi umugabo wawe arashobora guhinduka uyu muhigo.
Yoo, utumva psycholojiya y'abagabo biragoye kuyikomeza, ahubwo ni ibyiringiro ko azabana nawe kubera imisoro n'imbabazi - ibicucu cyane.
Mubisanzwe, umuntu mubushakashatsi bw'iteka, ahora akeneye gutwara, adrenaline, kwiyongera kumarangamutima, ibyumviro bishya, bishya, bishya.
Kandi umugore uhuze ubuzima n'umwana ntazagabanya imbaraga nshya kandi agaha umugabo ibyo ashaka muri kamere.
Umugabo afite inkware inkeri zitagira akagero, azahora yitondera abagore basohotse. Kandi ntutekereze ko abo bahanga bahora ari inyamanswa, umugore nayirenga barashobora gushuka umugabo.
Ntanze inama nyinshi, nkoresheje ubushobozi bwa Parapsychologie, ndabimenya, aho impamvu nyayo ari ubumuga. Aho, ni ikihe cyiciro, gutsindwa byatangiye umubano.
Nzatanga urugero: Umwe mu barwayi banjye mu rubyiruko rwe yajugunye umukwe, maze atera ububabare kandi atuka ubugingo bwe. Noneho ubu bubabare no gutukwa biratinyutse mubyiciro. Imyaka irashize, yasanze umufasha wumuryango, ariko icyaha cyicaye kandi kigira ingaruka kubushake. Yanga kandi abyifuriza, bigira ingaruka ku mibanire n'umuntu we. Umugabo yiyemeje guhura niyi bariyeri, kugirango ange kandi ntashobora kumva ikibazo. Umugore iyo ahuye neza, abumva amazi atagaragara, kandi ayo mazi akurura umugabo.
Kandi mugihe habaye ukurenganya inzika ku mugabo, chakras zihagarikwa, imbaraga nziza z'urukundo zirahagarikwa.
Kubera iyo mpamvu, umugabo abona imibonano mpuzabitsina, ariko ntabona agahinda, ibara ry'amarangamutima, atangira kureba neza - ibumoso.
Umwana amaze kuvuka, Euphoria yazimiye, hasanzwe harasanzwe, kandi aratangaza ati: "Nabonye ko utari umugore wanjye."
Byinshi byagenda muburyo butandukanye niba nta birumbuke byuganwa, byababaje no gutenguha, kubabazwa nurukundo rwa mbere. Byose birabaho bidafite uburambe, abashakanye benshi basobanukiwe gitunguranye ko bataremewe. "
Ikindi kibazo gikomeye nimpamvu umugore yatatanye umuntu unywa ahita ubona indi mivugo. Ibi byose byashyizwe mubyiciro, kandi imizi yiki kibazo ikuwe kuva mu bwana. Akazi kanjye nugushyiramo ubushishozi, kumenya no gukuraho.
Ariko nkorana nibi, ngera inama, ndatanga inama, uburyo bwo gukomeza kwitwara.
Kubwamahirwe, abagore bacu ni bibi cyane byateguwe mubitekerezo, soma ibitabo bike amasomo yigishwa. Noneho hariho ibitabo byinshi byo kugerwaho kandi byingirakamaro kubijyanye nubusabane, birakenewe kubimenya kugirango tubone amakosa yawe kuruhande.
- Wowe, unyuranye nibyifuzo mubitabo byingirakamaro, hari uburyo bwumwanditsi?
- Mbere ya byose, ndakugira inama yo kunyura imbabazi no kwihana. Biragoye cyane - kubabarira kandi bose barabyemera. Niba umurage mubi wavuye kumuryango w'ababyeyi, kandi niba ingamba zitafashwe ku gihe, noneho ibi biri kwicisha bugufi. Tanga ibitutsi byose hejuru, mumbabarire kandi wibagirwe. Icya kabiri, wubake ubuzima bwiza kandi ugerageze kubaho, uhora uhagararira.
Shiremo ishusho nshya kandi uhore ugerageza kubaho, gutekereza ni byiza. Ubu buryo burashobora "gukurura" wowe ubwawe kandi ukureho ibikorwa byose bidahwitse. Mfite ibyifuzo byinshi bifatika bitafashaga bombi. Ubu ni bwo buryo bw'umwanditsi bushingiye ku nyigisho rusange ya psychologiya na Parapsychology.
Guhuza psychologiya na Parapsychologiya bikemura ibibazo byinshi mumuzi.
Gukora, guceceka, ifunguro hamwe na buji hamwe na buji kandi stacking ntishobora gukemurwa nikibazo numugabo. Byose birarenze kandi bizakorera inshuro imwe cyangwa ebyiri, kuko ibikorwa bibi byicaye kandi ntakintu gihinduka.
Ubwa mbere ukeneye gukuraho indabyigisho, ntukababazwe nabagabo, uhanganye, kubabyeyi. Ubwumvikane buzana nanjye, ntukajye urwanya umuntu wibitekerezo imigambi mibisha imigambi yose ihindura inzira zose. Tugomba kureka inzangano, ibitutsi byashize, gutsindwa, kurandura gahunda mbi zose kandi tugatangira kongera kubaho.