Mubyukuri subiza ikibazo, niba ugomba kwakira umugabo hafi yicyumweru cyambere cyo gukundana cyangwa gutegereza, bigoye - byose biterwa nibibazo hamwe nurwego rwo gusobanukirwa hagati yawe numuntu. Ariko, umubare munini wabagore ukora ushingiye ku byiyumvo byabo, ariko kuva ubwoba bwo gutakaza umubano w'agaciro. Kandi mubyukuri, niba umugabo akubona ko ari umukobwa wibyumweru bibiri, azagenda rwose uramutse wamwanze cyane byibuze itariki ya gatatu.
Ibihe, niba koko umugabo yagushimishije rwose kandi ukamushishikaza nkumugore, kandi ntabwo ameze nk'imyidagaduro - muri iki gihe, imibonano mpuzabitsina byihuse izamuhitira kugira ngo umuntu wese abe mu mwanya we igihe icyo ari cyo cyose. Ntutangazwe nuko nyuma yo kuba hafi yumugabo we winzozi ugomba gushaka "n'imbwa."
Irindi kosa risanzwe nugutekereza ko nyuma yimyumvire yimibonano mpuzabitsina izagaragara rwose niba itarashizweho mumarangamutima. Kugirango ubyukeho, ni ngombwa ko ukeneye kumarana - mumwanya wubusa ubyifuzo, ndetse no gukangura imbaraga, nkuko imibonano mpuzabitsina ikomeye, nkuko imibonano mpuzabitsina, idashobora gusenywa kumarangamutima, ariko igitsina cyihutirwa kirashobora gusenywa .
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Nigute wajya mu mugabo wishime mu mibonano mpuzabitsina?
Ikintu nyamukuru nukwibuka ko umugabo adatekereza kumibonano mpuzabitsina hafi yisaha, nkuko nawe, nshishikajwe nibintu byinshi bitari kure cyane. Niba uri umuntu ushishikaye ufite isura yaka, uyu muriro ushoboye gutwika inyungu z'abo mudahuje igitsina - Abagabo ntibabura abagore badashingiye ku gitekerezo cy'undi kandi bashimishije.
Ntukite. Birumvikana, usibye iterambere ryimbere, ni ngombwa gutanga umwanya no kugaragara, kandi niba udasuye Salon yubwiza kenshi mugihe kimwe nicyo kigo, noneho byibuze ukurikize imiterere yuruhu, umusatsi, nimisumari, nanone Shakisha umwanya wo kubungabunga imibare - ntabwo ari ngombwa kubantu nkuko mugikora kubwibyishimo byawe bwite.
Kuba mwiza. Ntamuntu ukunda abantu bashya. Nibyo, urashobora gusangira numugabo, ariko ntugomba kureba isi mwirabura numweru, kuko amarangamutima mabi aruta abantu bashoboye gukwirakwiza ibibi nka virusi. Niba ufite ikibazo nkiki, gerageza kubikora wenyine cyangwa hamwe ninzobere.