Gutangira ikiganiro kuri psychologiya yabantu basanze, tukabemerera kugera kurwego rwo hejuru rwubutunzi, twaganiriye ku mategeko abiri yambere - gushakisha amasoko mashya yinjiza nishyaka ryaguyemo. Noneho reka tuvuge kubyerekeye amategeko yumurwanyi, bidakwiriye gukora, cyane cyane mugihe urwego rwinjiza rugabanuka. Muri iki gihe, ndashaka kuvuga neza isura "kwizera mu gitangaza." Urabona niba kwizera igitangaza bisobanura ingaruka zikomeye, kubyerekeye imibereho myiza no gutekereza ntabwo byumvikana. Bityo,
Gutegeka gatatu. Ntukine hamwe nigihe cyagenwe. Umuntu ufite umutekano ntabwo ari umunyamahanga kuri Azort. Mubuzima busanzwe hamwe ninjiza ihamye, yashoboraga gukina casino cyangwa gukora ibiciro kubisimbuka. Ikindi kintu ni uko kuri iy'abishimishije rwose, ubusanzwe yagaragaje amafaranga yashoboraga kwigurira, kandi, akingurira imitsi, yagarutse mu by'ukuri. Ariko bigenda bite iyo amafaranga yinjije agabanuka cyane? Rimwe na rimwe, hari ibyiringiro kubitangaza no kwihesha agaciro gukora igitangaza no kwihesha agaciro kugirango tumenye neza ko ibizaza bikiri byiza. Nzi umugabo ukiri mu bihe byashize yakoze ibiciro bifatika, ntuzigere uhindura umurongo, nyuma yo gutakaza inyungu zihamye, banza utangira gushyira mu kaga, ugerageza "gusohoka" gusohoka "mu bwoba. Kubwamahirwe, yamenye ikibazo ku gihe no kohereza imbaraga "umukino" kuwundi murongo (nyuma tuzabiganiraho). Niba ari ngombwa "gukomera umukandara", umuntu ufite umutekano asiba atuje mubiciro byambere kuri "adrenaline". Gusa ntagenda cyane muri kazino cyangwa ku ifarashi. Ntazakina tombola, gutongana mu buryo bwumvikana: amahirwe yo gutsinda ni make cyane kugirango yiringire bikomeye. Ibikoresho byayo byose bigamije gusubiza ubudahuje, ibikorwa byose bigengwa nintego imwe.
Gutegeka kane. Kubaho muburyo. Umuntu ufite umutekano azi neza icyo inguzanyo. Ariko niba bimufata, hanyuma - ku iterambere ryubucuruzi, kugira igitekerezo gisobanutse cyibishoboka hamwe nuburyo bukuze. Niki umuntu ufite umutekano mubisanzwe, mubuzima afite urwego rwinjiza ruhamye - sibyo? Ntabwo ifata inguzanyo kubintu bihenze, gusa kuberako bihenze kandi bihenze. Cyane cyane niba afite analogue ihendutse ihaza ibikenewe bikwiye. Iri ni ryo tandukaniro ryatewe na psychologiya y'ubukene, iyo umuntu azenguye ikintu cy'inguzanyo "atari uburyo" byibuze umva ku ntambwe yo hejuru yintambwe rusange, kandi wishyure, muri rusange, kurota.
Yoo, iyo amafaranga yinjiza yumuntu ufite umutekano agabanuka cyane, irashobora kandi kwinjira mumutego uteje akaga. Biragoye cyane "gukomera umukandara" kandi ugashyiraho amahame mashya yo kuyobora mugihe ufashe icyemezo gifite inshingano. Ubwonko buragoye cyane gusubiramo, burwanya: mbere "guhagarika" byafunguye kugeza kumafaranga menshi. Ibisubizo bijyanye nakoreshejwe byateganijwe, wari ufite byose, bivuze ko nta bigeragezo byari bigeze. Niki kigeragezo cyo kugura vuba, niba wowe kandi ku munota uwo ari wo wose ushobora kubigura? Noneho, hamwe no kugabanuka mubutunzi, ibishuko birushaho kuba - kandi icyifuzo cyo kwakira igisubizo cyamarangamutima kirakomeye. Ndashaka kubona ikintu mugihe kimwe, kugirango werekane ko ukiri "murutonde" kandi ntigigarukira muburyo. Kandi hano birumvikana kwiyibutsa ikintu cyingenzi: Uragerageza kwishyura kubintu, ariko kumarangamutima. Kuko uburambe bwibyishimo nimpano kuri we. Niki? Defils kuri buri kintu, kuripa amenyo yawe? Oya, nta rubanza: niba nta bitekerezo byamarangamutima, bizagutera imbaraga zo gusubiza ubuzima busanzwe. Igisubizo kiroroshye: Ukeneye ubwoko bumwe bwimihango, byibuze igice cyisaha kumunsi kugirango uhaze igihe gito, kugeza kuri pellement. Umwe mu mukiriya wanjye, mu bihe biherutse - umucungamari w'ingenzi mu ruhererekane runini rw'amaduka, aherutse kubura akazi. Nasanze ari shyashya, ariko amafaranga yinjiza, birumvikana, ntagereranywa. Nabwirijwe kuvugurura amahame yabanjirije ayo mafaranga mara, ariko ikintu cyasize nkana: cyakomeje kugura ikawa itandukanye hamwe na shokora ihenze. Buri gitondo, nkuko byubahiriza mugihe inzu iracyasinziriye, yicara ku idirishya mu gikoni, anywa ikawa ye idasanzwe kandi yanyaguye shokora idasanzwe. Yayibukije ubuzima bwashize, yemerera kugena ubwonko buri munsi kubitekerezo byumuntu ufite umutekano. Impano nk'izo ubwazo zirashobora kuba iyo ari zo yose: parufe, vino, icyayi, jam, isahani ... igihe kimwe cyo kugirira akamaro. Bizaba amafaranga ahagije, kandi iyi mihango izaba ihagije yo kutavunika - kandi ntugure mu mvugo, kurakara no gusonza mu mico "ibikinisho bidatinze". Palaughter yemewe kandi ikenewe, ntigomba kuba nyinshi. Mugusoza, na we akomeje kugukubita umutwe agakora impano yo kurwanya, niba atari wowe wenyine?
Kuri ibi hamwe namategeko, ibitagomba gukora birarangiye. Kandi kubyerekeye ibyo ukeneye, reka tuvuge ubutaha. Muri icyo gihe, yaganiriye aho wohereza imbaraga zarekuwe yumukino, Azart na Eventaneity.