Amashusho yo gusinzira arashobora rimwe na rimwe gutangaza. Nibyiza kutayahindukira. Ahari aya ni amakuru yingirakamaro cyane muri subconscious.
Kandi kugirango ubutumwa bwawe busobanuye neza kandi bwumvikana, abisubije amaso agaragaza amakinamico nyayo imbere yacu: gupfa no gusezera.
Ntubifate nk'ubuhanuzi bwijimye.
Reka dushake hamwe mu nzozi zisa numwe mubasomyi bacu:
Ati: "Ndabona mu myitozo yo gushyingura, no gushyingura. Abantu bakomeza kurimburira isanduku yanjye, kandi nzi ko kubaho. Ariko kubwimpamvu ntagenda, ntacyo mvuze, gusa kureba abantu bashaka ahantu heza h'imva. Ntabwo ndihe biteye ubwoba, ndetse n'amatsiko make, bazakemura bate iki kibazo.
Nyuma yigihe runaka, bagera ku cyuzi hagati yiri muto hamwe namazi yibyondo maze ahitamo kundeka muriyi cyuzi, avuga ko amazi ari igicu cyane kandi ntazagaragara.
Mjugunya mumazi, ariko kubwimpamvu umubiri wanjye nturohama, abantu benshi binjira mumazi bakagerageza kumpagarika, ariko umubiri wanjye uracyakomeza kureremba. Buhoro buhoro, babona ko amazi ari mubyuzi agenda arurwa, kandi urubwiko rukura. Buhoro buhoro, amazi aguma ku ivi, asobanutse neza. Umuntu wese asohoke mu mazi afite amagambo "bidashoboka kubihisha."
Sinzira ubanza kureba birasa nkaho biteye ubwoba, kuko inzozi zabonye urupfu rwe no gushyingura. Noneho reka tujye gusesengura ibitotsi binyuze mumiterere myinshi ishimishije.
Ubwa mbere, azi ko bidapfuye, nubwo ibintu byose bitoroshye bihamya ibinyuranye: byavutse, irimbi no gutungura no gutungura no gutungura no gutungura no gutungura no gutungura.
Birashoboka cyane, kuri iki cyiciro cyubuzima, heroine yacu iracyari ubumenyi bwabandi, ndetse bikaba byiza gutongana cyangwa gutangaza ko batongana.
Icya kabiri, aragerageza kwihisha mu cyuzi cyanduye. Tumaze kubwira abavuga hamwe nabasomyi bahoraho ko amazi akunze kwerekana urwego nubunararibonye mu nzozi. Intwari yacu rero igiye kurohama mucyuzi cyanduye, I.e. Muri bamwe "umwanda", ibyondo.
Ishusho ya gatatu nukuri ko umubiri we udarohama no gufasha abandi bantu. Ahari bivuze ko bimaze gushobora gukomeza "hejuru" kandi ntukive mubikorwa byo hanze. By the way, abantu benshi bizera ko ibyiyumvo byabo arikintu cyingenzi kiri mubugingo bwabo. Mubyukuri, ibyiyumvo biroroshye kwihisha: birababaje kandi bidakora, kurakara no gutanga, aho kuba rapprochement. Rimwe na rimwe bisaba igihe kinini kugirango uhangane n'amarangamutima hanyuma usubire mubucuruzi bwawe, kandi nicmwe - kubakunzi.
Ibyiyumvo biri mubintu byacu gusa, kandi ntabwo buri gihe bigomba kuyoborwa nabo. Nk'urugero, niba ubabaye, ntibisobanura ko ubu abantu bawe bagomba kugusubiza neza no kongera gukora icyaha cyawe. Ibi birashobora kuvugwa, ariko abantu benshi bitwara nkaho ibyiyumvo byabo ari ikimenyetso kubikorwa ataribo gusa, ahubwo no kubidukikije. Benshi muritwe twaragaragaye cyangwa bitabira "drame", mubyukuri bikoreshwa, I.e., nkoresheje abandi bantu bafite intego yo kunguka ku giti cye.
Reka dusubire kuryama. Ishusho ya kane ni ibisobanuro byamazi yindondara hamwe nudutsi.
Birashoboka ko ibitotsi byerekaga ko ubu ibyiyumvo bye ari byiza, ndetse nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, ntibishoboka kubyirengagiza, ntibishoboka, ntibimenyekana no kumenyekana.
Ibitotsi byerekana imbaraga zawe zigisinziriye, ariko rwose zirahari.
Intwari irashobora gusabwa cyane ninzozi zabo no gusenya imiterere nimbaraga zayo, kandi nigute zishobora gukoreshwa.
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Maria Zebekova, umuganga wa psychologue, umuvuzi wumuryango, amahugurwa yambere yiterambere ryumuntu wubucuruzi Marka Hazin.