1 ICYITONDERWA: Arubatse
Niba umukunzi wawe arubatse, ntabwo ari ngombwa rwose ko intego ye ari umuryango mushya ko azaterana nawe. Birashoboka ko ibyo ashaka byose ari imyidagaduro ishimishije kandi yoroshye hamwe numugore ushimishije hanze y'urugo rusanzwe. Kenshi na kenshi, umuntu ushishikaza akora ibishoboka byose kugirango uri iruhande rwe.
Nibyo, birashoboka ko ubukwe bwe bwa none buzasenyuka. Ariko arashaka kubaka umubano nawe? Byongeye kandi, azabura uburyo bwo gutekereza ku makosa yatumye umuryango usenyuka, kandi uzabisubiramo inshuro nyinshi. Birashoboka ko iki kintu gisanzwe kizaterwa nawe, hanyuma amaherezo azagaragara.
Niyo mpamvu akenshi abantu bifatanya mubukwe bushya, hanyuma bagatungurwa - ni hehe abakera bakomoka he, abatinyutse ku gahanga? Kandi iyi niyo ngaruka za scenarios nziza cyane yimibanire. Kubera ko nta kintu gishya cyurukundo rumeze neza.
"Ariko hariho ibitandukanijwe!" - Uzavuga. Kandi uzaba ufite ukuri. Gusa birashoboka ko ariyi "bidasanzwe" ni nto cyane.
Inama: Niba umugabo wubatse akwitayeho, kandi ntabwo ari mwiza - iyi ni imwe mu mpano nyinshi z'isi (Ntiwibagirwe kumushimira kubwibyo). Kwishongora no gutabara, hindukira hanyuma ukamuvaho. Niba kandi haracyari ikiraba hagati yawe - kwiruka. Iruka kugeza bakunze, gutakaza inkweto, ariko ntabwo ari umutwe! (Ndabashimira isanzure kumuhanda).
Tumaze gutsinda nyuma yo kwiruka, reba hirya no hino: kubuntu, abagabo batsinze bizaba bihagije kuri buri wese. Ibi byose ni ibihimbano bagiye ahantu runaka cyangwa barahoragarije. Nibo! Nigute wabishakisha no kurongora, mbwira umunyeshuri wanjye. Noneho nta geometrie muburyo bwurukundo - wowe wenyine kandi wenyine.
Yulia Lansk, umuhanga muguhitamo abashakanye beza kubashakanye
Ibipimo 2: Resort Roman
Birumvikana ko ibitabo bya resort bifite bike bihuriyeho nubuzima bwawe nyabwo, busanzwe. Nibiruhuko, imibereho itandukanye rwose, kuruhuka, ibiruhuko buri munsi. Iki nigice gito, cyacitse ubuzima bwawe bwa buri munsi, abana, akazi. Kandi umugabo mubiruhuko nibyiza neza mumwanya umwe.
Yaba wowe cyangwa umugabo uzahura ntuhuye niyi nshingano zawe. Ibi ntabwo ari kumashusho yose ubusanzwe ufite kandi aranga. Kandi mugihe umugani mwiza uhagije urangirira kandi mwembi mwimuriwe muburyo busanzwe, mubihe byubuzima nyabwo, masike yose izasubirwamo.
Inama: Mu biruhuko, birumvikana, urashobora kuzuza umuntu mwiza uhagaze, uwo uzashobora kubaka ubuzima bwumuryango. Ariko kugirango dushyireho umubano ukomeye, ugomba kugira nyirabuja wumugore, numugore-umugore. Ibi bigomba kwigaragaza muri byose - uhereye kumashusho yo hanze kugirango imyitwarire. Kuruhuka ni igihe cyiza cyo guhura nabantu bashya: shakisha, kwagura uruziga rwitumanaho, guhuza itumanaho, ariko ntibikundana ako kanya.
3 Ibipimo: urukundo kuri enterineti
Wigeze uhura nibyo banditse interuro yasobanuwe nabi? Kuberako yajyanywe hamwe nibara ritandukanye rwose namarangamutima, washoye iki muri byo mbere? Kandi, ukurikije uko umeze, wakunze amafoto, fantasy yawe, urashobora gukora ishusho yumuvugizi, ntabwo. Uyu muntu ntabaho, ni Phantom. Wowe ubwawe watekereje ibyo utabonye kandi utabizi.
Niba uhwanye n'inzibacyuho ku itumanaho nyaryo kuva kumurongo, birashobora kubabaza cyane. N'ubundi kandi, wamenyereye umuntu wahimbye nawe, mubyukuri uzaba wibeshye rwose.
Byongeye kandi, niba ubonye inshuti kumuyoboro, amezi arenga atandatu, ntabwo bishoboka cyane guhura namateraniro, birashoboka cyane, iki nikindi gishushanyo kiboneka kumyaka kandi ntukajye mubucuti nyabwo.
Inama: Koresha umuyoboro wo gukundana, kandi ntabwo aribwo buryo burebure bwurukundo rwacyo. Kuri enterineti, urashobora kubona byoroshye urukundo rwawe, ariko umubano ukomeye usanzwe wubatswe mubuzima busanzwe. Kugirango uhuze umukandida ukwiye kurubuga rwo gukundana, ugomba kuba ushobora gukora neza ikibazo, uyobore ibiganiro, kwishimisha no kuzana itumanaho vuba bishoboka kumunsi wambere.
Itumanaho kumurongo nibyiza guhinduka vuba bishoboka.
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4 Ibipimo: Abishingikirije Pathologiya
Niba uwatoranijwe afite ingeso mbi muburyo bwo kunywa inzoga cyangwa ubwoko runaka bwabujijwe ibiyobyabwenge, ntugomba gutekereza ko ushobora kuzigama. "Urukundo rwanjye rushobora byose, nzamuhanganisha!" - Umugore utekereza kandi ... amakosa. Niba udasenya iyo mibanire, ugerageza gukiza kurohama, uzahita uryamana na we. Birababaje, ariko imibare ivuga ko.
Umugore aragwa mu ruhare rw'imvugo. Buhoro buhoro bibaho, kandi ibi bimaze gusuzuma imitekerereze. Ntabwo ari no ku ruhare rw'uwahohotewe, nkaho abona ko ari Ishoborabyose. N'ubundi kandi, azashira hanze, atekereza, bivuze ko ari imana hano, kandi umuntu ari mububasha bwe. Iyi ni karubata ya karubata, umukino wikironga, igitambo no gukurikirana, hanyuma ubivemo cyane kandi biragoye cyane.
Birakenewe kumva ko umugabo ari umuntu ukuze ufite ubwenge, kandi agomba kwishura byimazeyo ibikorwa bye. Niba ikuzimu ishaka - ibi ni amahitamo ye wenyine. Ntushobora gufata inshingano kubandi bantu.
Inama: Nibyiza kubanza kudahagarika guhitamo kumugabo ufite pathologiya. Ariko icyo gukora niba "byabayeho"? Byumvikane ko aribwo buryo bwiwe bwite (kandi ntabwo ari ibyo byica integer'umugani) hanyuma ukabikora nyuma. Umukino wanyuma kandi ukosore.
Inyandiko 5: Gukunda Kwishingikiriza
Nurwego rwo hejuru rwo kwishingikiriza kuri umwe mubafatanyabikorwa kuva kurundi ruhande. Yiswe kandi ibiyobyabwenge kubandi bantu. Rimwe na rimwe, bisaba umunzani ushobora kugereranywa no guhangayika.
Umugabo wambara ikipe yundi afite ibyo akeneye. Ntashobora kunywa no kutarya, gusa byari byiza cyane. Gufata ayo maso ayo ari yo yose, uhumeka. Gukaraba, gukurura ibitekerezo kuri we kugirango witegereze.
Umuntu werekejwe kuri iyi mbataye y'urukundo n'ishyaka, kurohama, guhumeka. Agerageza guca iyi mibanire idashoboka ikora amaboko n'amaguru no kubohora ubwisanzure.
Inama: Niba wumva ko uri kumwe numutwe wawe ukurura umufatanyabikorwa, wibuke ko ishobora kuyisunika kubinyuranye. Umuntu ntagomba kuba ibisobanuro byonyine mubuzima bwawe, shyira ibitekerezo byawe kubindi bice. Harimo birakenewe kwigenga - kora wenyine, hejuru yagaciro kayo, akamaro, ikizere no gukunda wenyine, kuko umunezero uri muri ubu buringanire.
Ntugahitemo uruhare rwUmukiza - birangira buhoro buhoro
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6 ICYITONDERWA: Ihohoterwa rishingiye ku mubiri
Niba igitero cyari kandi, cyane cyane, birashoboka cyane, ntiruzigera gihagarara, ahubwo kizasubiramo, subiramo kandi usubiremo. Irashobora gutangira gukubita urushyi no kugwa, noneho ibikomere bikomeye bizagenda.
Ntushobora kwihanganira ibintu nkibi, gutsindishiriza umuntu ushobora no kugutera imbaraga mubyukuri wamuzanye kandi ukwiye kuvurwa nkuyu. Umubiri wacu ntushobora kuvugururwa, ntamuntu ufite uburenganzira bwo kuzana imibabaro yumubiri. Ariko ntibishoboka kurakara, amaboko azwi cyane kuri mugenzi we.
Inama: Niba couple yawe ifite ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo, umubano ushobora kumena. Abantu bakoresha ihohoterwa ryumubiri barashobora guhinduka, ariko, ikibabaje, ibi nibidasanzwe. Bimaze gukora ikintu runaka.
7 Ibipimo: Kudahuza imibonano mpuzabitsina
Hano ntituba tuvuze ibyambere byimibonano mpuzabitsina hamwe numukunzi mushya. Rimwe na rimwe, ugomba kumenyerana, guhishura. Ariko bibaho rwose guhuza ibitsina mugihe abantu badahuzaga mumiterere, ibyo bakunda. Birashoboka cyane, mugihe runaka, ubusumbane buzaba butari bwo hejuru gusa.
Bibaho ko umuntu umwe ari umugwaneza, yakundaga muburiri, naho icya kabiri akora cyane kandi ikinyabupfura. Cyangwa umuntu agomba kuba kenshi kandi byinshi, icya kabiri ntigihagije bihagije. Cyangwa umuntu asaba imikino yo gukina, kandi undi arasekeje kandi ni ibicucu.
Kubwibyo, niba ubonye ko muri sthere yimbitse udahuza kandi ntabwo yiteguye gushakisha kumvikana, ugomba kumva ko ibi bishobora gutera amakimbirane.
Inama: Gerageza gushaka umuzi wibibi (kandi burigihe, nyizera). Urashobora gukenera kugira ubutwari ukaganira kubyawe numufatanyabikorwa cyangwa ugashaka ubufasha kumuhanga mukigo cyimibonano mpuzabitsina. Niba ibi atari ukumenya umubiri, igisubizo cyikibazo gishobora kuboneka.
Ihohoterwa rishingiye ku mubiri ntirimeze rifite umugabo cyangwa kuva ku ruhande rw'umugore
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8 Ibipimo: Kubura inyungu rusange
Turimo tuvuga imanza iyo abagabo n'abagore badafite ingingo zisanzwe zo guhura, ntabwo babaho inyungu kandi ntizishyiraho intego nkizo. Nibyo, ubu bafite ishyaka, arabyegera, ariko ibi bizanyuramo igihe, hanyuma bizagumaho iki couple yahoze akunda?
Gusa ibihe rusange byo kubana nshobora kuba ishingiro ninkunga kugirango habeho iterambere ryumuntu uhuza. Niba ushaka kuba hamwe, ugomba gukora kuri izi ngingo zisanzwe zikomeje, kandi wareba mu cyerekezo kimwe, ufite vector isanzwe yo kugenda.
Bitabaye ibyo, ntuzaba ufite ishingiro rusange ry'ejo hazaza, kandi ubone ibintu bidakora ku mibanire n'ubwoko "Swan, kanseri na pike.
Inama: Niba uri umuntu wimihanda, gerageza ushake umubare uhagije wo guhuza nayo. Intego rusange, inyungu, gahunda, kuruhuka bizane no gushimangira ubumwe.
9 Ibipimo: umubano uheruka
Ubu ni amahitamo mugihe umubano uri kumpera yurutonde rwibanze. Nigute wabyumva? Umugabo ntabwo yubaka gahunda zihuriweho ejo hazaza. Ntabwo yihutira kukumenyana n'inshuti n'inshuti. Ntacyo uzi kuri we, kuko arimo avuga kuri we. Byongeye kandi, dushobora kuvuga ko bidashishikajwe nubuzima bwawe.
Ntuzabona ishoramari iryo ari ryo ryose muri wowe n'umubano wawe. Ntabwo akoresha umutungo, ntabwo ashora mumarangamutima. Nta kwitaho kandi bitaweho. Yibutse kubaho wenyine mugihe akeneye iyo ashimishijwe nibi.
Igihe cyawe kirasiga, ninde nubu. Ubwa mbere afite akazi, ababyeyi, abana kuva mubukwe bwashize, ibyo bakunda. Ikintu cyose, ariko ntabwo ari wowe.
Inama: Menya impamvu: Reba no gusesengura. Umugabo ntashaka umubano muremure cyangwa umubano nawe? Ku rubanza rwa kabiri, ntabwo ari ngombwa kuyihindura, ariko we ubwe. Niba umuntu atiteguye kurushinga iri murugero, atekereza, uriteguye gutegereza cyangwa guhatirwa, kora ku mibanire yawe ugahora? Iki kizafatwa.
Ibipimo 10: Itandukaniro rinini mumyaka nukuri
Bikekwa ko uhereye kubijyanye n'ubuzima bwa physiologiya na psychologiya, itandukaniro riri hagati y'abashakanye ntigomba kurenza imyaka 15. Bitabaye ibyo, amahirwe yo kurema umuryango uhuza. Kuki ibi bibaho? Kimwe mu bibazo ni ingorane zo gusobanukirwa no gukorana hagati y'ibisekuru bitandukanye.
Byongeye kandi, kwiyongera mubijyanye nigihe kiganisha ku ngaruka ziva ku buzima bw'abafatanyabikorwa. Ariko nubwo bimeze, ubu hariho urugendo runaka rugana gukura kwinshi. Mu myaka yashize, ijanisha ry'abashakanye ryakuze ku buryo bugaragara. Kandi, nubwo hari ibyago, abagabo n'abagore benshi bahuye nubusabane n'ibyishimo mu bashakanye.
Ariko birakenewe kumva ko bibiri atari bibiri bidashoboka kubaka umuryango nkuyu. Bibaho ko byose ari byiza imyaka yambere, hanyuma ibintu byose bitangira gusenyuka, nkinzu yikarita.
Inama: Umuntu wese ni umuntu ku giti cye, nkumubano uwo ariwo wose muri couple. Ntugomba gushyira umusaraba niba umufatanyabikorwa yari mukuru (muto) imyaka 15 numunsi 1. Ni ngombwa hano gusobanukirwa nikibazo ushobora guhura nacyo, kandi gishobora gufata umwanzuro. Niba ubona ko uyu ari umuntu wa kavukire, kandi birakwiriye rwose kuri wewe, noneho hano umaze kugira inzitizi hano. Naho itandukaniro ryimibereho, umugore wubwenge azashobora gukura kumugabo no kuba umugore we, ibintu byose biri mumaboko gusa.
Gisesengura umubano wawe, wishingikirije kuri ibi bipimo.
Birashoboka ko usanzwe ugomba guhagarika kurya umwuka no kumara umwanya wawe kubusa? .. kandi birashoboka ko uzumva ihamagarwa mugihe kandi urashobora kuyobora isano yicyerekezo cyiza.
Njye, Yulia Lansk, umuhanga mugutoranya abashakanye beza kubashakanye, nkwifurije kuba umugore wishimye, ukundwa kandi wifuzaga umugabo wawe.