Kubantu benshi, kanda yimodoka cyangwa kumeneka kumuhanda uhoraho ni umutwe wukuri, ariko kuki utareba ibintu munsi yinguni - nziza? Nkingingo, amateraniro yibitara bibaye mubihe bitameze neza, cyane cyane bibaho kumuhanda. Twahisemo kuvuga, mu bihe hasi ahanini inyuma y'uruziga byerekana ibitekerezo byinshi kuri "umudamu mubi".
Ibyo ni ibintu
Umukinnyi wo gukundana kumuhanda ni ugusenyuka, mugihe umugore uko ari yo yose adashobora kwihanganira kwigenga. Abagabo benshi mubihe nkibi babuze amahirwe yabo gusa, batanga gusa guhamagara ikamyo, mugihe abagore bategereje ibikorwa byinshi bikora kuruta umuhamagaro woroshye. Kugirango usohoke, baza niba ufasha mubindi, cyangwa wenda ukajya kunywa ikawa - mubyukuri, inzira nziza yo guhambira muziranye mugihe umukobwa yakundaga. Noneho, abagabo, ntucike intege!
Gushushanya gato kuri hood ntabwo buri gihe ari ikibazo gikomeye
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Niki nabwira
Ubundi buryo bwiza bwo kumenyana numunyamahanga ushimishije - kumenyera mucyumba cyo kwerekana. Hano, abagabo baranze kwigirira icyizere, kuko atari umuntu wese uzahitamo kwegera umugore wa chic umugore, reka tuvuge ikiganiro gishimishije. Ariko menya neza, umukobwa wigunze ureba imodoka ntazaba adafite ikibazo cyumuntu umwe wenyine. Kubwibyo, niba udashaka kwitabwaho cyane, fata umukobwa wumukobwa cyangwa umuvandimwe, bazafasha kurwanya bava mubantu bakora cyane bashaka gufasha muguhitamo.
Kuzuza urukundo
Nta gukundana bidakunda bibaho kuri lisansi. Umugabo wiboneye ibona umukobwa, gusa utandukanya uruziga, kandi muriki gihe uyibaza, mubye wenyine. Inkuru z'urukundo kuri lisansi - ntabwo ari garata, niba rero ushakisha umugabo, gerageza imbaraga zawe hano: shaka imbaraga zawe zuzuye ku bwato bwa mbere, abagabo ntibashobora gukomeza kutita ku mubabaro w'umuntu mwiza muri Benzokolone .
Yatwaye neza
Ntabwo ibintu bishimishije cyane, ariko kimwe mubintu bizwi cyane kumuhanda nimpanuka nto. Birumvikana ko twishingikiriza ku gutonesha umuntu, imodoka yangiritse, ahubwo yangiritse, kandi haracyari imanza ko habaye impamvu yo kuburanisha bikomeye, kandi abashoferi bombi ni abantu bashimishije batazongera guhura, ariko ntibikiri ku mpanuka.