Kuwonongeka kocheperako komanso kuvutika kocheperako, amapulumutsa anthu achikulire omwe samakonda ana okha. Anthu oterewa anali atapangidwa ndi chitukuko, sanalimbikitsidwe ndi kholo lake osati kholo lake, amayenda, amakonda kulumikizana kwabanja. Zachidziwikire, kusamalira mwana okhwima kale kunyumba sikungachitike, koma kulibe kanthu komanso kopweteka. Komanso, nthawi yomwe ana amachoka kunyumba ya abambo, kuti amuna ndi akazi angapo okhwima agobadi akwatire nthawi zina amakwatirana. Amakhala omasuka kusamalira ana tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo amalinso kwa iwo eni komanso ndi mnzake. Zimachitika kuti amapeza momwe chikondi ndi kukhazikika kwawo mwamphamvu. Ndipo amakumananso ndi nthawi yogwirizana ndi wina ndi mnzake: amapita paulendo, amalankhula, mosangalala amasamalirana wina ndi mnzake ndikusangalala nthawi yolumikizana.
Zovuta zimachitika kawirikawiri. Makolo akuluakulu ankayang'ana kutali ndi kuti nawonso ali othandizanso pamoyo. Kwa zaka zambiri, tanthauzo la kukhalapo kwawo chinali ana ndi mapangidwe awo. Chifukwa chakuti ana sakhala (m'mabanja oterowo), amachotsedwa kwa makolo awo, achibale onse akukumana ndi njala yayikulu komanso yamphamvu kwambiri ya tanthauzo lenileni la moyo.
Ana amakhalabe ndi vuto la ngongole zosalipiridwa kwa makolo awo, nthawi zonse nthawi yonse imakhala yotanganidwa kuti uthenga wawo ubwezeretsedwe: Ndalama, chisamaliro, kuwonetsa moyo wawo wopambana, kubadwa kwa ana mwachangu kuti apange agogo. Makolo amavutitsidwa chifukwa cha moyo wawo wokhala ndi moyo wawo wonse. Atadandaula kuti mwayi wotayika ndi wokwiyitsa womwe moyo ndi wopanda kanthu komanso monotane.
Komabe, makolo onse ndi oyenera nthawi ya chisa chopanda kanthu, omwe nthawi zina amachitira umboni maloto awo.
Loto ili lidagawidwa ndi mayi uyu, mayiyo anali kale wachinyamata wokhwima kwathunthu. Ali ndi moyo wake, amakhala padera, ndipo aliyense amanga moyo payekha.
Koma nthawi zina zowawa za kukula ndi kupatukana zimakwiyabe kudzera m'maloto: "Ndimalota kuti mwana wanga wamwamuna, akadali wachinyamata wamtundu wina m'mphepete mwa nyanja. Ndipo ndinayendetsa kuti ndizipulumutsa ndekha. Zowopsa, ndikuwona kuti ndilibe nthawi. Munathamanga, omwazikana nonse, ndipo sapumira kale. Ndinagwetsa mutu wanga pansi mutu wanga, wopanikizika, umathirira mwa iwo, ndipo iye amakhala chete. Ndidadzuka ndili ndi mantha, ndipo sindinathe kugona. "
Tsopano mwana wake wamwamuna akulera kale mwana wake, safuna thandizo la mayiko. Koma ngwazi zathu zimakumbukiridwabe, ichi ndi chiyani: kukhala ndi moyo wa Chad, kuti tisamayang'anire ndipo mphindi iliyonse kuti mutsatire thanzi lake.
Ndipo ndi maloto anji a inu?
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin