M'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, ndizosavuta kulengeza kuti tikufuna, koma mukangoyamba kugonana, chidaliro nthawi yomweyo chimatuluka. Ndipo, monga lamulo, tikulankhula za akazi omwe ndi ovuta kugawana zomwe mnzake amakumana nazo.
Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti munthu sangathe kuwerenga malingaliro anu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndizovuta kwa iye kulosera zomwe mukufuna komanso zomwe sizili. Kuphatikiza apo, mayi amafunikira nthawi yochulukirapo kuti agwirizane ndi mafunde achisoni, mosiyana ndi abambo omwe akuchita izi. Tinaganiza zolingalira chifukwa chake zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kukambirana za zikhumbo zathu pogona kuti timveke ndi kumvetsetsa.
Lankhulani moona mtima
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Zikuwoneka kwa ife kuti zokhumba za munthu ndizofunika kwambiri
Akazi ambiri a azimayi amakhulupirira kuti mwamunayo amagawidwa m'kugonana, ndipo zosowa zawo ndi zofuna zawo zimachoka. Inde, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa momwe angakwaniritsire mnzake, koma ndinu membala womwewo, monga munthu, choncho mverani nokha ndipo onetsetsani kuti mulembe munthu. Iwalani za inu nokha osayenerera.
Osawopa kukhumudwitsa munthu
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Mkazi akuopa kuti wokondedwa akhoza kukhumudwitsidwa ndikuyandikira yokha
Simuyenera kukhala patebulo, tembenuzani pa nyali ndi kuwala kwa munthu wake ndi mawu akuti: "Tiyenera kukambirana ubale wathu pabedi" - ndiye kuti muwopsezeni mzanga.
Koma ndikofunikira kuyankhula za izi, makamaka ngati mukukumana ndi zovuta zogonana. Mutha kuyambitsa zokambiranazo kuti: "Komabe ndimakonda kugonana, pali zinthu zina zomwe muyenera kukambirana ..."
ndipo mkazi ndi mwamuna ali ndi ufulu wofanana ndi kugonana
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Mkazi amawopa kudzudzula ndi munthu
Kwa munthu aliyense, kuopa kukanidwa ndi imodzi mwazikulu. Mkazi akayamba kuganiza za zovuta zake zogonana, amalimbana ndi zosokoneza, kuti kugonana kungathe kuyankhula za kugonana, chifukwa bamboyo asankha chilichonse. Osati onse. Mnzanuyo si telepath ndipo sangamvetsetse kuti inu, sikosangalatsa kwambiri chifukwa cha kugonana kwamlomo, koma pitilizani kuchita izi, chifukwa "aliyense akuchita." Ndikhulupirireni, bambo yemwe ali bwino ndi kudzidalira, sangakuukitseni pa kuseka kapena kunyalanyaza zopempha zanu. Mukungofunika kunena mwachindunji - zomwe mumakonda, ndi zomwe sizili. Chilichonse sichovuta.