Regularly many of us have to reflect attacks of people who are too actively interested in our personal life. It is more difficult for women who, for one reason or another, did not become Mama to a certain age, or openly declare that they do not plan to give birth at all. You may have once condemned such women, whose worldview is incomprehensible to you. We will tell why to condemn the Childfries should not be exactly as well as everyone else whose opinion on various issues does not coincide with our.
Problems with finance
The child is a big responsibility, and the financial responsibility is not least. Of course, we can say that "everything is somehow twisted, and you can". But today this approach does not work, and people with a high degree of responsibility understand this perfectly: the older the child becomes, the higher its requests, and there is nothing supernatural. Not everyone can afford to ensure a new person in his life, and therefore the thoughts of replenishment in the family are postponed indefinitely, and someone generally refuses this idea.
not everyone is ready to sacrifice freedom
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Career growth
The priorities of one person can not be completely clear to the other, so, for example, it is difficult for some women to realize how you can exchange the happiness of motherhood on the office chair, and yet many women make a choice - go through a career ladder. Today, when women and men were practically equal in rights, the wonderful half of humanity seeks to make money if no more, then at least as much as a man. And you want to become the leader if not every second, then each third woman is accurate. Take a break in the career race is ready not every thing that often encourages women to refuse the thought of motherhood.
Woman does not see himself mother
Another reason for which a woman is not exactly able to condemn, is the unwillingness to change its social role for a new one. Education of the child requires complete return and empathy than not all boasts. There is nothing worse, if a woman, understanding his nature, goes on the environment and gives birth to a child with whom he cannot and does not want to cope. In this case, the whole family suffers. In some cases, it is preferable to switch attention to other areas of life if the role of the mother does not fit with the person and its lifestyle. It is important to learn how to make decisions on your own will, and not by the pointer let and very close people.