You are joyful and inspired by the lips in front of the mirror in anticipation of the first working day. Imagine how everyone rushes to you with open hands and will ask about how the kid is doing. But you come to the office - everyone strives to reset the portion of reproaches, show how he gets tired at work or complain to personal problems. How to understand what you did not do not close under the shell from the outside world?
Do not remove from work
For three years of the decree - a huge period for a person building a career, and not just working from 9 to 18 five days a week. Many mothers are so fond of concern about the child, which represents it the center of their world. Do not do it! Set the balance between work and recreation: Mark colleagues when you can call and ask questions from your specialization. 1-1.5 years after the birth of a child, you can safely go to work or agree with the leadership of other conditions - remote work or partial employment. In any of these cases, the company will win more than they will contain a useless person.
Decree is not a reason to forget about friends
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Support communication with colleagues
Surely before the decree you often went along with my colleagues for lunch, and on Fridays they were chosen in a bar or movie. Believe me, friends from work also bored for you - and no less than those who have met in other circumstances with whom. Use the case: Come to visit the colleagues for lunch - discuss working moments and communicate with personal topics. By the time you go to work, no one will forget you and you quickly adapt to the adaptable setting.
Do not let the brains "scurin"
Decree time is an excellent opportunity to develop Soft Skills. Emotional intelligence, the ability to seek his, self-confidence and large-scale thinking - all this is not an empty sound for Chegovka, not sitting in one position for 5-8 years. Try to diversify your life, and not turn it on the groundwhugh day: sign up for drawing or dancing, learn foreign languages, go to training. Do not be the one who signs yourself in Instagram "Happy Mom and Wife" - live a full-fledged life, not within two social roles.
Develop software-skills until you have at this time
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Change thinking
Much depends on your environment ... If the husband asks to report for each thousand rubles spent, the parents come to you once a month, and the girlfriend died at all after the birth of the baby, to do spiritual enlightenment will be an unbearable task - you simply have not satisfied the lower levels Pyramids needs. Observe problems, and then deal with yourself. Pass the career courses: selling a summary, strategy of interviews, solving work conflicts, etc. With each of these topics you encountered or have time to meet on the way to building a dream career.
And how did you come out of the decree - it was hard or no problems arose?