Football as a reason for flirting

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"Children of the Olympiad", "Children of the Festival", "Children of the Championship". The mass arrival in our country of foreigners has always had one inevitable consequence - flirting, the novel, the birth of children, about most of which fathers will never even know. And even if the girls of the former USSR, with all their upbringing and contrary to the fear of public censure, could not resist this force, what to expect from the day today?

We will not hide the obvious, the novel with a foreigner is for very many girls if not a dream, then the exciting blood fantasy, the possibility of which, in case few people want to refuse. A man from the other end of the world charming, in most cases, simply because he is different and just attracts attention to him. He speaks differently, emotional is different, behaves differently, while it is absolutely natural, it is open to communication and it has to himself. We add to this youth, universal arousal and feeling of the holiday - and it becomes clear why even very far from sports girls are becoming a football fans.

Heats the interest in foreign men and their relative inaccessibility - for many girls it is the first real opportunity to get acquainted with a foreigner not virtually, but very real. And it's not easy to get acquainted, namely, with a romantic goal, to hook, conquer, spend time together, and then - what is the fate not joking? No matter how naive it sounded, but many girls really consider acquaintance with a foreigner as a ticket to the best future and are not going to miss their chance! Such an interest is provoked by the foreigners themselves who often do not mind at all against the incidence or just fun to spend the evening.

Alena Al-Ace

Alena Al-Ace

How far can such "love for football" can come? And how to flirt with a foreigner without consequences?

First of all, of course, it is worth throwing out all the matrimonial plans and plans for the "conquest" of a foreign ukhager from the head. It is not necessary to put yourself in advance in the position dependent on the foreigner, it is emotionally looted on it. Nothing other than unfulfilled hopes and disappointment, it will not bring.

It is not necessary to provoke an alien's attention, including unhealthy attention, frank style in clothing or behavior. This in principle is not the best way to draw attention, and in this context may still be perceived unequivocally wrong.

It is not worth exaggerating the marks of the attention rendered by a foreigner. It should be understood that all confessions in love and oath of eternal loyalty are nothing more than words, an over-emotional way to express its sympathy. It is necessary to refer to such rapid manifestations of feelings, respectively, without taking to heart.

Conducting time in the company of foreigners, do not forget that in other countries there are other standards of behavior. And if for our country is normal it is considered if a man pays for a woman in a bar or transport, even if he he himself invited her, then in most other countries it is accepted for everyone to pay for himself. General advice that can be given here, such: be prepared to count on ourselves in all situations and do not get carried away by our own fantasies. Let the holiday remains a holiday, but do not forget that after each holiday there are weekdays.

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