In general, the dream with the dead in real life, people occupy a separate place in the interpretation. There are different views on the relationship with the left. For example, believing people need to make a number of religious rites, put candles for the rest of the soul. The most common position is a bad dream, so it must be forgotten. At the same time, such a dream is also a material for interpretation and analysis. Let's try to figure out.
"I am on some important learning - socially significant, prestigious, but for some reason I don't treat it seriously, I missed some kind of task, etc. Further in the process of working out some practical part of training I meet my There is a long-time friend (in life - a classmate who died at the age of 16, relations associated us at school). We communicate, I'm even more "scoring" to study, since I feel that he is interested in further communication, but it holds back something. "
Let's choose a position with which we look at this dream. I'm closer to the look of gestalt therapy on the interpretation of dreams. Gestalt therapy suggests that all images in a dream are part of the identity of the dream. All images of sleep is the parties to her.
So, the first part of sleep on how it reduces the meaning of some significant social task, study. It is possible that our heroine is now somehow avoids its socio-active positions. Perhaps earlier they were meaningful, but due to new events and interests, she ceased to give it great importance.
This happens that independent and purposeful businesswoman, creating a family and give birth to children, change their priorities sharply. No longer need to fight for survival in the social world. Family and care for children become primary tasks.
Now consider it a meeting with a former friend who provides her signs of attention. This is an important component. We are entering the relationship, and just we like someone else and because we love yourself next to this person. We love your condition, a worldship, attitude towards yourself. You can often hear from different women: "I am grateful to him, because I felt like him a real woman: my beloved, desired" or "If it were not for him, I would still be in depression. And he forced to look at the world in a new way: joyfully and optimistic. " In this case, we love and a person near, and their own experience.
Now let's go back to our dream. I think the appearance of her former friend reminds her of some young state: maybe hobbies, love, which is not enough now.
With this sleep, it revives those experiences associated with youthful relationships.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin