Sex is always the pleasure of both partners, but what to do if a man can no longer tolerate, and you can't relax, as a result, Tomny Evening Sunday. We will tell you how to avoid stress before proximity.
Think if you need you
As a rule, the main complaints from men come when a woman does not want sex as often as a partner. In this case, you do not need to go through yourself, just to satisfy a man, think if you yourself from the absence of sex? If the matter is in perseverance of a partner who does not understand the reasons for your refusal, talk to him and explain that you are difficult for you to enjoy when they are forced to closeness, and you are not ready for it. Try to find a compromise.
Understand yourself
While the partner is not nearby, try to relax alone. Only you know what your body responds and how faster it is to satisfy yourself. If you do not have any problems with self-satisfaction, but with ordinary sex it is not always smooth, most likely the problem in your relationship with a man with which you need to understand.
Talk to your man
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Try add stimulation by side
Surely there are things that you are excited in addition to the excellent partner nearby. If you can't relax in His presence, offer him a little prolong the prelude to excite how it follows. Use any methods that help you achieve the desired degree of readiness for sex and tell you a man about them to direct it with affection in the right direction.
No need to dwell on orgasm
If you stopped experiencing an orgasm while sex with your man, but earlier you had no problems with it, you shouldn't worry too much - it's not going anywhere, most likely your psyche blocks the necessary receptors due to stress or excessive voltage. The problem can be solved in the office of a psychologist, to which it is worth contacting if the lack of orgasm begins to influence your relationship.