People who deliberately choosing life without children are subject to the most severe criticism from society. Whatever an understanding environment, from time to time, ask questions like: "Well, when already!", "Is it not tired of doing this life?" etc. Not every follower of Childfrey may explain their position that sometimes drives such people depressed. If there is a childless person in your surroundings, it's not necessary to displays him in question, why he does not want to live according to your ideas, and if the criticism treats you personally, we will tell you how to respond to tactless questions not to the measure of curious acquaintances.
"You just haven't met your man."
One of the most popular phrases from a person who is trying to "reassure" you. Most, this is especially true for women, it is difficult to understand other women who do not live a thought of children, in them bent a perplexity of the passage with pity for such a "wrong" woman. Immediately, we note that reacting to such attacks aggressively - not the best solution. Remember that men are assessed in the first place of the person with whom they will be comfortable, and are already trying to consider the mother of their future children in their woman. As for the tips from the side, never justify - only you know how it will be better for you.
Only you make a decision - you need children or not
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"It's a shame to live in your pleasure!"
But it is also not prohibited by anywhere. You do not infiltrate drawn rights and freedom, do not bring harm to anyone, so why is your choice someone have the right to condemn? Firmly, but without rudeness, explain to the person that you are not going to listen to the reproach to your address. In the end, you are an adult.
"God gave a bunny - gives the lawn"
The phrase divided by memes. Again, only you understand what your financial and emotional capabilities, if you cannot afford to provide someone, besides yourself, you do not need to take such responsibility. Moreover, the refusal to start children can be completely unrelated to financial instability, because the tealfries make their choice consciously and material problems often do not play roles at all when deciding.
"What will you do in old age without children?"
The child is not yet a guarantee of happy old age. How many cases when children refuse parents when they become a burden for them or their families. If you live albeit not in the biggest city, you have all the opportunities so that you do not need an old age - social services work properly. You can start a child only if you want to give love to another person, but do not expect to receive a profit for the future.