Sexologists are becoming increasingly popular and more popular if you believe the statistics of requests in online search engines. And all due to the fact that a huge number of people in our (and not only ours) are difficult to have difficulties in sexual life. The problem often lies not so much in physiology as in the very human relation to this process. Sometimes you just need to change the approach, and everything will fall into place.
We invite you to familiarize yourself with some rules designed to help you find an intimate harmony with a partner.
Speak about your desires
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Do not drag problems in bed
Surely among your girlfriends there are those who first swear with a partner, and then, with the goal to reconcile, lines the second to bed. Honestly, this is not the best way. First, you will not be able to relax normally. You will scroll through the conflict in the head, and as a result, the intimate process will not end. Free the head for pleasant thoughts, and for this try not to join hot discussions with the second half at least a few days.
And yet: Do not give in to the partner's persuasion if you do not want sex. You are not owned by him, he has no right to force you, and even more so blackmail. Each person has its own needs, follow the courses of their body.
Create the desired atmosphere
And again: Finish all important business in the afternoon to free the evening for a pleasant pastime. After all, sex is a special part of life that does not fit into life in no way. Some girls consider sexual intercourse of activities between the washing of floors and the preparation of dinner. No. Break up to "equip" your love refuge: beds beautiful underwear, burn candles, turn on the fragrant lamp. In the extreme case, you can do with one lamp with a muted lamp, as the bright light will kill the entire intimate for the root.
Men are very wounded, be tacty
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Do not have sex if you are overly excited outsiders
Women's psyche, in general, complicated thing. Although for sex, a woman needs to reach the desired level of excitement, but, as it turns out, not every excitement is suitable for an intima with a partner. We are talking about situations when you learned some good news and stay in the state of Euphoria, and there is also a young man with my "valuable" suggestions. Naturally, you agree, but do not achieve orgasm. It would seem what is the problem? You were on a platoon. It turns out that you want to enjoy sex, you need to get excited from the awareness of what is happening here and now, without distracting the background situations from life. The only way.
Also, do not think that alcohol will help relax. On the contrary, he will weaken the attraction, and you just go home with a partner. Or in different rooms, if married.
No need to fantasize, live in reality
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Speak a partner what you like and what - no
But it is necessary to do it tactfully, as everyone knows how painful men react to criticism of their male abilities. Gently let me understand what it would be better to do like this, and not differently. Tell me that everything is fine, just an ideal option would be to change the pose on a more convenient for you.
Smaller fantasy
Control your secret desires. Very frequent phenomenon when a woman is forgotten during sex, presenting a guy / husband on site (needed to emphasize) its screen pet. You can not notice and call your man someone else's name. Here will be a serious resentment. Remember that sex is a continuation of communicating with a real person. You can't imagine another man when you donate with your own? The same thing in bed. Fantasizing, you attribute a person to the traits that never had in it. Therefore, risks are very disappointed in your man without finding attributed damn.