By whose script, I live?

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It would seem, a strange question: I live my life, no one can do it for me. However, as often, it is possible to hear that "I would not marry if it were not for the parents," I myself wanted another profession, but at that time it was fashionable to be an engineer / doctor / lawyer "etc. Our actions and Even the swivels for fate are often taken under pressure from the opinions of parents, partners, close friends and not even the most significant in the life of the environment. And we do not live on the life that we really want, but the one that is brought from outside the surrounding.

The dream of today's heroine tells about the opposite.

"My husband and I begin to watch the movie. Suddenly he is interrupted at the beginning, and we put our own, from your device. It is much more interesting. The hall is almost full, and people like our film much more. In addition to one comrade. Already at the end, he is indignant and promises to submit on us to court. I understand that we need to agree with him here, on the shore, until he began the course of the case. He is a lawyer and, it seems, Samodor. My husband and I approach and try to talk to him. I recognize what is the reason. It turns out that he was heard that we were heated. We apologize. It's hard to agree with him, but nevertheless we manage. "

Sleep illustrates the life position of the dreams and its partner. Instead of being passive participants of someone's film and someone's scenario, they choose to be his authors - put their film on their device. And people in general take this option, support. Most likely, our dreamy can persistently achieve their goals even when her behavior is uncharacteristic for the environment. Such a vacuum position inherent in the present leader, a charismatic person who is now a dreamy.

An outrageous lawyer is the voice of norms and morality. He knows how "it is necessary", he personifies the voice of public rules. At the same time, Snovidice manages to negotiate with this voice, listening to his fantasy that he was insulted. Apparently, so sleep demonstrates her that she does not fight morality and norms, but simply follows its plans and tasks. In other words, now there is no struggle or provocation in her actions, she just lives according to his inner truth.

Great sleep! Probably seen this dream woman satisfied with his life!

And what dreams of you?

Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin

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