LICHO Mogilev no longer left from the screens of TVs: she led the morning program "Good morning, Russia!", Participated in the clips of the group "White Eagle", starred in popular Seri-Alah - "Marsh Turkish", "Russian Amazons", " Moscow windows. " But then the actress went into the shadows, and only last year it turned out that it was a lull in front of the jump: On August 19, 2011, Maria's daughter was born. And in the eyes of the public, this jump was perfectly without insurance, because officially Mogilev is not married.
Marina Mogilevskaya: "My daughter is also a lioness on the sign of the zodiac, like me. It's just a gift, because no one understands Lviv better than they are each other. Moreover, Mary was born into one of the largest church holidays - the day of the Transfiguration of the Lord. You know, I have already thought about the child for many years, but I still didn't get enough: that time was not enough, it was not there a man from whom I would like to give birth ... Nevertheless, every night, go to bed, I got a dream about my daughter. As you can see, it is really not harmful to dream: the thought attracts the desired! Another thing (and I was convinced of this only for forty years) - it is extremely harmful to be obsessed with a certain task. This is a huge delusion. The easier you treat the question, the better. It will happen - beautiful, no - also not a disaster. I, alas, on the topic of the child was ten years old. At some point, what is called, reached the handle, began to feel the absolute meaninglessness of his life. It was clear that if it would continue like this, I just go crazy. And I let go of the situation, I saw that there are many other worthy attention of things and that if something I am not given right now, perhaps it should be. That's where everything happened. Ask me: Do I regret what gave birth to forty one year, and not at twenty years? And I will answer that there is no, no second. Everything has its time. Only to the forty years I have more or less it became clear that I imagine that I can and I want to give my child, unnecessary ambitions disappeared somewhere, I stopped someone to prove something ... "
How many did you lose in such a race?
Marina: "Of course, a lot. I and my husband, Alexander Akopov, divorced for this reason. I had a wonderful husband, I loved him very much, and we could all be different if not my ambition. The fact is that in its forty-on-year-old years, Alexander was already a man who was held. And I only came to Moscow from Kiev, was at the beginning of his career. And the fact that my spouse is able and knows more of me, I didn't get ready for my pride, but on the contrary. Looking back, I think: what I was idiot! But I had to go through this way to find the right balance to find the right day. Moreover, I used to think that if God gives me a child, everything else will stop interested. It turned out - was mistaken. The emergence of Masha served as a huge stimulus for new ideas and plans. I'm doing more more. I want to try to organize theatrical project. Perhaps I will play and herself too, but it is not necessary. I am not suffering for a painful passion for acting for a long time. I have performances and roles that you can only dream. For example, Lady Hamilton or Josephine. I am glad that today I can already choose good dramaturgy for myself. "
Is it true that for each role you are looking for your perfume?
Marina: "Be sure. There can not be a woman who landed life, smell the sophisticated aroma, and vice versa. Sacks about many talk. I even in communication people I identify the smells: my person or not. "
Little marina surrounded by family. Idyll deceptive: after a while her parents divorced. Photo: Personal archive of Marina Mogilevskaya.
Among your hobbies - tennis, skiing, pottery craft, writing poems, recording songs under the guitar ... There is no time for this today?
Marina: "First of all there is no desire. Every free minute I want to spend with Masha, in the number of positive emotions it cannot be compared with any tennis and even with songs. Although my girlfriend Ekaterina Semenova, a wonderful singer and composer, writes songs for me, we have already written a few, and I hope that we will continue to make an album as soon as Masha will grow up. In general, all my plans for free time are associated, of course, with daughter. I'm going to show a lot to her, bring to my favorite Italy and Switzerland ... "
They say late childbirth add mom anxiety. You did not become a crazy parent? Some changes in the character notice?
Marina: "I began to be much softer, you start to appreciate your loved ones. Mom I'm not nervous, but responsible. In principle, I am very solid by nature. That is, if you have noticed, let's say, buy Masha's meals today, I'll break, but I will do it, but I will not postpone for tomorrow. And if the old overalls have become small, I will not think for a long time, but I will go looking for a new one. But at the same time, the rest of life has never ceased to exist for me. Masha was only two months later, when I had already started to shoot, despite the fact that I fed her bosch half a year. I felt that I needed with the help of a profession to get out of a cocoon, in which I spent the whole pregnancy. Although the cocoon was wonderful! I rested, revised all the premieres, concerts ... Very grateful to the faith of the verbayev, who pulled me to all the iconic cultural events. "
Surely in your head already matures a detailed learning plan for her daughter ... Curious how he looks like.
Marina: "Well, perhaps, I still change a hundred times, I don't know ... it seems to me that the girl must do dancing, study singing, two-three languages and master the game on the piano. It is so beautiful - approach the tool and play. Such things instantly conquer ... "
You yourself were an excellent school in school, engaged in music, gymnastics, art school visited ... All these skills were later useful?
Marina: "They created the base with which I was easier to move in life. I am grateful to my mother, who made me engage in all this. And I read a lot ... And every vacation we spent in a new place: traveled in Russia, and abroad went out, which was rare at that time. Mom showed me the Czech Republic, Germany, Poland ... "
Marina - Gardener with experience. She not only makes beautiful flower beds, but also grows zucchini, carrots, greens. Photo: Personal archive of Marina Mogilevskaya.
At the same time, the upbringing was strict. I read somewhere that you first fell in love with seventeen years in the unfailed hooligan and, kisseding him, even fainted ...
Marina: "And I did not rush to walk at night, to drink in the stairwell and light on discos. Perhaps, only one I was knocked out of the regime - in the high schools began to smoke. And that's it. I was a calm child, my mother did not specially brought up me, except for his example and surroundings. But I am against the upbringing of girls forns. With daughters you need to talk about everything and educate in terms of relationships with the opposite sex with the right books and films. If my mother did it, I would have had fewer mistakes. "
Somehow you said that a woman needs to be completely given to love, and not plow like a horse. Sorry, but from the outside you have always impressed the "workhorse" ...
Marina: "And who told you that I do everything right? I really had a fan of my profession for many years. I was interested in absolutely everything, even something that no attention did not deserve. Thank God, the moment came when I'm just tired. There was a revaluation of what I do and for what. And today my profession brings me great pleasure. By the way, now I play in one TV project, the head doctor of the largest clinic - a woman who sacrificed personal happiness for his beloved business. As a result, remained in complete loneliness. I play and think: it's great that I understood in time - for me my female life is in the first place. Without love, no creative victories bring joy. Although there were periods of spiritual emptiness, when only work and saved. "
For two years before the birth of Masha, you said that you should not be afraid of loneliness: it is better to be alone than with whom it fell ... and that every woman sooner or later will definitely find her man. Your opinion has not changed?
Marina: "No. Loneliness is a wonderful thing if you know that it is not forever. I learned to treat such periods as an opportunity to deal with myself. This is such a gift! Absolute freedom: Do what you want, when you want how much you want! Kaif! The main thing is not to delay, otherwise you can get out of it. I have long reacted yourself blindly believe that love is for life. I live today. And about the fact that every woman will definitely meet her man, there is no longer a great confidence. For example, I was sure of all my relationship that my half is next to me. And I do not regret it. It was good, and no matter how much time it lasted. It seems to me, meetings, parting, even betrayal - this is life. Someone else and forever, and someone in eternal search. Both are fine. Of course, to meet your person is a great luck, and, probably, each hopes. "
Nevertheless, what criteria have you always guided when choosing a life satellite?
Marina: "I managed only love. If all my men put in one row, it will be found that they are so different ... and in appearance, and by the nature of the activity. It combines them only one thing - they are all in something outstanding. (Smiles.) Talented. "
After the school graduation, you went to MGIMO, failed, but fell in love with the operator, at eighteen years they married him and went to Kiev together. This suggests that you are characteristic of changing your life.
Marina: "This is the quality in me. And in MGIMO, then I went to my mom proud of. But the loss did not upset me. Without enrolling in Moscow, I went to Kiev (there were later exams). I met the person with whom he lived happily eight years. He was a film operator and a talented photo artist. I was lucky - he took me fantastically! In general, we spent together good, though difficult years. I was at a very girl and did not appreciate a lot, and he, being much older, forgive all my stupid tricks. I could throw his camera from the balcony during a quarrel, and he made me a foam bath and said: "Loading, calm down ..." Oh, no one for me for me. As a result, I still went to Moscow, and my husband did not stop me. He always supported me. True love is just such. I also noticed: when I started learning a man's man, I did not agree with his point of view, suddenly discovered his shortcomings - it means that something went wrong. So if you look back, the fate presented me with many gifts that I appreciated only with time. "
Marina Mogilevskaya. Photo: Vladimir Chistyakov.
And under what circumstances did you pay attention to the producer of Akopov?
Marina: "It happened not immediately. I arrived in Moscow at the invitation (I was offered to transfer the program "Good morning, Russia!"), Three months with Azart worked in the frame and Akopova saw for the first time, only when he closed our program. Of course, I am on these grieving emotions amounted to him not the most flattering impression. So novel out nothing foreshadowed. I was shocked: for the sake of this project I left the capital of Ukraine, where was the leading actress of the theater of the Russian drama. Lesi Ukrainki, and here left without any prospects. Then, after a few months, Vanya Dykhovichnichn called me, the ex-head of the transfer, where I worked, and invited Bryan Maa's guitarist to the concert - at the request of Sasha. I then did not guessed it. After the concert, we all went to the restaurant together, where I could not close your mouth from delight. In front of me was some kind of enchanting man with an excellent sense of humor. I was conquered by his ironic behavior, erudition ... And then, what can I say, the ability to look beautifully forced me to surrender completely. Luxury flowers, beautiful travels ... Having become acquainted in November, we already painted in April. "
In your feelings and affection, are you a permanent person?
Marina: "Yes. This also applies to friendship and love. My addiction is stable. I can say honestly: I never changed. Particulated with men, not because someone's third appeared in the Union, but because of the fact that the relationship was taken out. And the ruptures were smooth, without scenes. Therefore, I stayed with my former in friendship. "
Did not try to enter one river twice and return some person?
Marina: "The only time. When I rolled out after four years of marriage, but I have not yet divorced, I saw a couple of times - I called, offered to try again. But, fortunately, he, as a clever man, sled me, said that it would not work out in a different way, everything would be repeated. And it was right - we passed the point of no return. "
Your parents divorced, and mom raised you alone. You have repeatedly recognized that they did not have the right family model before the eyes. It turns out, now you did Masha on the same thing, because there were no messages about your wedding ...
Marina: "The correct model of the family is not at all in the grand wedding of parents. Masha was born in great love, she is a very long-awaited child. I hope that it will grow in love, in any case, I will do everything for this. I became a wise and tolerate and strive to preserve what I have. Officially, I'm really not married, but the way today my life is arranged, I am satisfied. And I will not cover details. For some on your personal life I have stopped talking. What is the sense? She used to change, every turn is not described, and no need. I can only say that dad cars are not from show business. And the cons of the incomplete family ... I still do not know how the perfect family should look like. It is clear that it is stubborn work and some separate female gift. And to the stamp in the passport, I have been calm for a long time. Only the person who is near, and our relationship is important. "
And with your father, do you communicate?
Marina: "Yes. Of course, I really lacked him as a child, but today there is no offense today and we are very close to him. He lives in Kiev, but because by profession a physicist theorient and can work anywhere, often comes here and spends me for six months in the country, writes material for some magazine. Each of his arrival for me is just a cultural shock. Dad knows a lot, I wonder with him. As for love experiences, I do not have the best adviser. That's it happens. Although, probably, the difficulties in relationship with men, I have because in my childhood there was no male shoulder next to my mother. Therefore, I never knew how to build a relationship. I am a man of emotions. Yes, I absorb lessons, but I do not change dramatically. How much I read psychological literature - everything is in vain. But not even evening? "
At the same time, you are clearly a person eager to take care of someone.
Marina: "Now I fully replenish it with my daughter. But at the same time he managed to engage in them. Previously, I did not pay so much attention to my health, physical form, meals ... And now I want to be touched by a young mother, and it stimulates me. From now on, I have no right to root and look broken. A woman should love herself, fuck and cherish, indulge - then she can give another to others. This is the law. "
You grew up in cramped material conditions, so I learned to sew, knit ... Do you use these skills?
Marina: "I am delivered to me something to invent myself. Yesterday I cut my old sweater and sewed Masha's a pretty shop. Unfortunately, if there is a huge number of children's stores, it is not always what I want. I love to focus on the trifles in a suit, and the daughter's wardrobe collect the same way. And I treat money easily, I do not like to save on a black day. Probably, therefore, at one time, working for several years without weekends, especially without thinking, bought an apartment, built a cottage. I love good cars, I love to invent design herself. Apartment, for example, designed in a colonial style, and the cottage - under Provence, with Ryushechki and flowerflowers. He herself became furniture, sewed curtains. If I had not become an artist, I would definitely go to the designers. Now we basically live outside the city, there is one more field for fantasy: I make beautiful flower beds, sazing zucchini, cucumbers ... Everything is surprisingly coming up, and the crop collecting rich. "
What gift from a man you would like to get now?
Marina: "The dark blue convertible, on which I would ride around the city in a blue silk scarf, in sunglasses, with a bright lipstick on the lips, and to be sure to sound Pavarotti! (Smiles.) It is a pity that today I have no longer before ... "