It is difficult to submit a person without prejudice: a pure consciousness, the flow of new ideas - all this seems to be an unrealized dream. In fact, it is the installation "spoil" us, forcing us to distort the idea of other people and events taking place with us. Find out yourself and girlfriends in this material - share in the comments by what else you have noticed.
"I envy Masha, but in white ..."
The concepts of "white" and "black" envy in psychology does not exist. The feeling of envy is a normal emotional reaction, originating in ancient times in the time of the struggle for survival. Naturally want for himself the best - it is important not to forget to strive for him. Perceive emotions as they are and recognize them - it will be easier to change envy on the sincere joy for a loved one.
Find new ways
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"I only have to want - and the whole world at my legs"
Installation partly refers to the previous item. True, not everyone does not all come from words to actions - often to achieve greater and improve living conditions ends with recording of goals in the diary. Do not think that the planet revolves around you alone, and fate only waits for a chance to fulfill cherished dreams - everything is much more difficult. Strive to do more and talk less, then all your annual goals will start to shrink in the list one after another. Supporting work and thirst for new knowledge is the key to the development of personality and its growth in the spiritual and material plan.
"Probably worth it to give him a chance ..."
In many girlfriend Gordius, he recalled this phrase, to imagine scary. Who inspired you that you are "beautiful sex" only because a woman was born? Be primarily an excellent person - do not play the feelings of other people and do not look for the benefits in a potential partner. Do not stretch communication only because you are afraid to stay alone. If you do not like a man, tell him about it directly and calmly break out - it is pointless to pull a smile during a meeting with a man when, in essence, you don't care about him. Give him the opportunity to become happy and become happy yourself.
Man should not guess your intentions
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"I will buy jeans for size less - just lose weight for the holiday"
Stop to force yourself to lose weight: you are not required to comply with beauty standards. Convenient clothing sitting in the figure is an indicator of a healthy human attitude to his body. Love him and improve your own, and not because of non-extended comments in self-dedicated men or misunderstandings of the girlfriends. And you should not pay attention to the date: vacation or not vacation is not important. If your goal is to live a long and happy life, then proper nutrition, sports and cleanliness of thoughts will not be a test on the way to it. Coming before this mentally, to understand: Yes, I myself want to lose weight without suggestion.
"God gave a bunny, give and lawn"
This jogging phrase often turns out to synonymous with infantile attitude towards childbearing. Do not think that you meet your loved one and get married enough to live together and happily. You both should try to accumulate Capital to the appearance of a child: a spacious apartment, convenient for a family machine, the ability to drive a baby on the circles and sections, and also temporarily or every day to take a nanny. The more you give on the "Start", the easier it will be to get to the "Finish" yourself.