The rupture of relationships is always a painful event, the consequences of which many prefer to drown out with a new love union, but it is most often pronounced. Psychologists recommend to take a love time-out, and we found out why.
"No" past
It is important to understand that sex with the former after your feelings calmed down, will not bring relief, and you just can not communicate as before, simply by refusing an emotional connection. If you have come to solve these relationships, give up any contact with the former, no matter how you justify this "friendly" sex. Find the forces to flip this page in your life and to restore the vitality for the next novel.
Realize what you expect from dates
Even if enough time passed and you feel ready for new relationships, analyze what your mistake was last time (or times) when you were mistaken in a person. Perhaps you subconsciously choose not those partners who would like, or follow the opinion of friends and relatives, assessing a potential partner for long-term relations with their eyes. While you are free, understand what you really need.
Take time on yourself
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Learn to listen only to yourself
As we grow up and gain experience, we often begin to adopt the views and behavior of other people, which may not coincide with our own desires. It is especially unpleasant when public opinion affects the choice of satellite life. Remember that you will have to live with this person you will have, and not your girlfriend, which in the overall meeting pushes you under the table, expressing your discontent with your partner. Listen only yourself.
Be open new
When some topic is constantly occupied by our thoughts, its implementation is delayed for a long time. Paradoxically, but the fact. Try to switch to something new, for example, sign up, finally, the courses for which you did not have time before, or find a new hobby. Our goal is to switch focus of attention. However, always be prepared for new meetings, do not refuse dating and you will see that "your" person will find you yourself.