No experience - not vice?

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"My young man is less experienced in sex than me. I am afraid that it can become a problem in our relationship. How not to give to develop his jealousy? " Irina, 26 years old.

Dear Irina! First of all, you should not associate sexual inexperienced of your partner and jealousy. Especially if you did not give him for this reasons, comparing intimate "achievements" of your beloved with previous partners. You just need to be delicate with your loved ones, let him understand that even if he is less sophisticated in this matter - this is not a problem. Couple to be created to develop and complement each other.

Are you more experienced than he? This even has its advantages - you have a chance to get the perfect partner. At the same time, you do not need to spend your efforts to weach out the predominant stereotypes of intimate behavior. You can guide it, teach sex without fear of a categorical rejoice from him.

In addition, sex can be so diverse that, most likely, you can still surprise you. Try together with your young man to discover new facets of intimate relationships. For example, you can visit trainings on the art of Thai sex or master new techniques of oral affection. Thus, you will show your beloved that you also have something to learn. This will allow him to feel even more confident and comfortable.

It is important to remember that a really wise woman will not allow her man to constantly feel that he is trying to teach him. Therefore, it is necessary to approach the "process", manifesting patience, not tasty male pride and pride. Acting gently and neatly, you "make" a lover's men of your dreams, and your partner will feel like a real macho.

Ekaterina Lyubimova, leading Russian sex coach

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