The birth of a child turns the life of the whole family, and the man is experiencing almost more excitement than young mommy. And it can be understood: such an experience is difficult to compare with something else, so saying for yourself for sure that it will be waiting for three of them, there can not be a single man for whom this child is the first. We decided to find out what worries young fathers most often.
Fear of change
Let a man and is the main support of the woman in the family, but no one said that he could not fail doubt and uncertainty. The man perfectly understands that life will not be the same, and the changes are always scared, especially if it all arranged before that. In addition, relatives and friends who already have children constantly remind that now such freedom, as before, not to see, it's time to prepare for sleepless nights. Optimism doubting a man does not add it. Try to reassure the partner if you see His uncertainty. Remind that you are together and always support it, especially in such a difficult moment.
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Fear of losing contact with your woman
For a man who has long sought to get the location of a woman who has become his wife, the invasion of the third person, albeit a native child, quite a tense moment. As we said, a man has nothing to compare the experience of paternity, if he had no children before that, he was accustomed to protect his woman from other men, whom she could interest, and how not surprisingly, such feelings he often experienced after the child . The attention of women for some time is fully occupied by the child, because care for the baby requires complete return. It is important here to attract a man to care for care, so that he does not feel a stranger in his family, and gradually gained a new family member.
Fear that love may not appear
If a woman has an advantage in the form of 9 months of a rapid contact with a child, a man has to meet her son or daughter after birth. Naturally, the man has more difficult and because there is no such instinct, as a woman, he does not have, which means very much from the first months of contact with the new family member. The young mother is important not to limit the communication of a man with a baby, because only the necessary connection can be born.