How do you want to love and be loved! Sometimes so much that we are ready to literally crush our second half. Take all your free time, do everything to get more attention. In addition, people are very often convinced that if they love someone so limitlessly that they are ready to sacrifice all their desires and interests, they are entitled to demand full reciprocity in response.
It turns out that love becomes a kind of responsibility. Hence the jealousy, which begins to sit like rust. Jealousy to all: to other people, beloved practices, pets ... It becomes unbearable to observe how beloved with interest with someone chatting. There is a desire to possess your favorable entirely and fully: know what he does, what he thinks where he walks. Requirements are becoming more and more, and care is entitled. As a result, both suffocate from this love. Both suffer: one - from unnecessary attention, Arc - from unrequited feelings.
By the way, those who love too much often appeal to the psychologist. What to do in this situation? How to find a balance, gain harmony, stop being too caring and demanding? If you are aware of your "love" - it is already half an end. Consider that the first step to healing from the surplus of love is made. The following will attempt to find yourself and learn to live in agreement with you, listen to your desires. It will be useful to try to formulate your own life goals. Own - these are those who are not related to the partner. It can be a career, personal growth, hobby. Little daily joys will also be not superfluous, but very useful (for example, pamper themselves with an extra cup of coffee, walking, fresh linen). The main thing is to try to follow these aspirations. When it starts to get, you will feel a significant emotional relief, greater harmony with you, and the requirements for your second half will become markedly softer and weaker. Both will be more comfortable. There is another idea of this account, which may become a resource: Give your partner the opportunity to be yourself. Due to this, the relationship will become less intense. Everyone will have more opportunities for self-development. You will be easier and more interesting to communicate with each other.