Impilo ukunyakaza okusizungezile kwenzeka kwenzeka okuthile. Ukubheka lokhu nokugcina ukungathathi hlangothi ngokuphelele - ungaphikisani ngezenzo zabanye abazungeza abanye, "emamatheka kubo amathambo," akulula kangako.
Uma ngezikhathi ezithile uzivumele ukuthi "udlule empilweni yomunye umuntu", mhlawumbe uzomangaza ngeqiniso lokuthi liba libi kakhulu kulesi senzo. Ngoba, lapho nje umlomo wakho uvula ukulahla, ungumbhangqwana onomsolwa uqala ukuthwala umthwalo wemfanelo wobumbangi ngokuziphatha kabi kwakhe ukungaziphathi kahle. Noma, ukuveza empumalanga, kwenze ingxenye yekarma yakhe kuye - washayela yedwa, futhi bobabili bayasabela. Kungacatshangwa ukuthi "amathambo okuhlanza" abantu abaphili kahle. Ngaphezu kwemishini yabo, banesibopho ngenkuthalo kwabanye.
Futhi-ke, awuhlali ubona lapho umgomo wakho, futhi uphi omunye umuntu. Amaphayona amabili avela endabeni kaN. N. Nosov "Gardeners", efuna ukuba ehamba phambili kukho konke, ebusuku ngephutha engadini yomunye umuntu. Kwavela ngokuhlekisa futhi ngokuhlekisayo, sebenza kuphela emkhakheni womakhelwane, ukwazi noma ngephutha, akukukhiphi ekuhlakuleleni okwakho.
Yenqaba umkhuba wokuxoxa nokulahla abanye - futhi impilo yakho izoshintsha
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Ukuvela kwamathambo "okugeza" okuhlanza "kugxile kakhulu emlandweni futhi kuhlotshaniswa nenye yemicikilisho yobuqaba yabantu baseSlavic. Ngokwesethenjwa, umphefumulo wesoni ukhululwa ezindimeni, uma ugawula amathambo kamufi, ukugeza futhi ohlanza amanzi ngamanzi newayini. Njengoba uqonda, kuphela izingqimba zabantu zabantu abangenathemba 'abangenathemba' zenzeke umsebenzi "ohlonishwayo". Izizukulwane zezihlobo 'ezinesibindi "ziphonswe eholidini lezono noma ukuhlanza ikarma.
Kunzima kakhulu ukuhlala kusuka ekuhlolweni, zama ukusinda okungenani usuku - uzobona ukuthi zingaki izilingo okufanele uzinqobe. Kodwa-ke, funda ukuthi kubiza kanjani. Cabanga nje ukuthi luhlobo luni lwamandla oluzokhululeka ekufezeni impilo yakhe. Kuyasiza kakhulu ukuqeda konke okuvimbela ukuqhubekela phambili. Bheka mhlawumbe lo mkhuba iminyaka eminingi ugcina yonke i-anchor yakho ye-anchor yakho.
Futhi ngezindlela ezilula zokuhlanza ukuqonda kwakho, funda lapha.